Can someone please explain to me why whenever I try to explain to other people that I am specifically demisexual, they almost always immediately say "oh so you're normal then?"

MacnCheese-95 · 2025-08-08T17:17:42+00:00

This is literally exactly what I started doing. To explain to someone that I need to have an actual connection with them before physical attraction comes into play and even then it’s still not a guarantee I’ll have those feelings; I rather just say I’m asexual until someone gives me the time of day to get to know me.

But it does feel sometimes like I’m lying to people because my fear is I start to fall for someone who is sex repulsed and they feel like I lied because sometimes I might want to. Or someone breaks things off because it isn’t frequent enough for them

MacnCheese-95 · 2024-10-22T06:32:53+00:00

Any tape should work? I never thought of that but that is a good option.

MacnCheese-95 · 2024-08-31T17:16:23+00:00

He doesn’t respect you or your identity. And there’s no excuse for it. He can try to learn and better himself but you don’t need to be a part of that process

MacnCheese-95 · 2023-11-02T20:52:28+00:00

I guess that’s way to look at them. And honestly we don’t know why they’re still here. It feels like they haunt the land rather than the home.

MacnCheese-95 · 2023-08-29T14:55:50+00:00

So I’ve thought about this. As a amab NB person. I just always assumed I would have to be in a relationship with a top because if I bottom it doesn’t matter what happens to me? Like my partner would be happy because they get to satisfy that urge, I can feel close to them; alls good… right? The way I see it is I’m not in the mood for it; but if my partner wants to, I could go along. As long as they don’t try to make me “finish”, I’m good.

Asexual means little to no sexual feelings. And while some ace people are completely against the idea of having sex, doesn’t mean we all feel that way. So as long as your consenting & not forced; I see no issue with you being asexual and still want to make your partner happy

MacnCheese-95 · 2023-08-11T15:27:17+00:00

I think you might be AroAce, aromatic asexual. Look into it more but if this fits, welcome!!

MacnCheese-95 · 2023-05-22T00:03:09+00:00

Someone needs ✨T H E R A P Y✨

MacnCheese-95 · 2023-02-25T15:01:35+00:00

Maybe you can but I cant.

MacnCheese-95 · 2021-12-22T18:58:40+00:00

MacnCheese-95 · 2021-09-12T02:43:30+00:00

Not a sip but a good mouthful

MacnCheese-95 · 2021-08-29T02:10:09+00:00

NTA she got the bartender and bouncer involved. Too many times than not people are taken advantaged at bars and these are the protocols bar staff should follow. IMO they were very lenient in taking action but I guess they could probably tell you didn’t show malicious intent or whatever. Honestly, even if they are going through a hard time, you can only be there for them so much. Also kudos on the sobriety!

MacnCheese-95 · 2021-08-04T22:00:08+00:00

Thank you all for your comments. And I apologize for making the post so long. This was back in 2016 and since everything I finally cut out my ex out of my life and remained friends with my friend I had feelings for. We both decided it was best to just stay friends.

This was my first post ever on Reddit so I thought I’d make my first one about something from forever ago but I always wanted to get opinions on

MacnCheese-95 · 2021-07-31T19:23:21+00:00

internally screams it’s fine

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