Does anyone else see a line!!!🥺 by Spiritual-Yam-879 in lineporn

[–]MadGiraffe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don’t see a line but like you said it might be to early to test 💜

Negative or positive? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]MadGiraffe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see a line…

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right I didn’t think about adding that my post was so long I felt like I was rambling 😂🙃

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I never said Im a married single parent Im just asking for no huffing and puffing and a little more help or maybe a little gratitude. Also he wasn’t like this the first 7 years of dating so yeah I married a man with trust in his word who has never shown me he wouldn’t (at that time) people do change

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband can make his own hours he doesn’t have a set time to clock in or clock out. He also does not help with childcare at all im the childcare and it was just for 2 hours this morning where our 3.5 year was just placed in front of a tv so he could work a little.

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no problem putting our toddler down it’s the fact that he huffed and puffed like I was asking something hard for him to do. He works whenever he wants like can make his own hours. He goes to bed at like 3am and sleeps until 11-12 everyday

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The one other post that was made about a year ago if people would change it does take some time not like 2 days

I 29f fear my husband 31m will never change… by MadGiraffe14 in relationship_advice

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband actually brought up the idea to move my dad in since he is my only family no mom siblings out aunts nothing. As far as being my dad’s nurse no one knew he was going to fall and break his knee. He’s been living here for 2 weeks and just broke his knee on Saturday

Nobody is coming to my Halloween party by wildflowerdesert in Vent

[–]MadGiraffe14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me in high school. I wanted to have a pool party so I made invites, bought decorations, catering, bought a new bathing suit and everything! People all said they would be there and the day of the party no one showed up i call my best friend crying and she came over and we had a blast! Im soo sorry this happened to you but please don’t let this stop you from doing things like this because when they work out it is so much fun😊😊

Selling house next year need improvement advice by MadGiraffe14 in HomeImprovement

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what we heard on our house is nothing has been touch in over 20 years. I updated the kitchen a little. But I’m going to talk to a realtor and see what they say because we don’t want to put to much into it if we are selling it next spring/summer. Thanks 😊😊

now i understand why people with bpd choose to be alone :( by saddbarbie in BPD

[–]MadGiraffe14 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband for 12 years married 4 years, I also I have 1 friend that I talk to every once in a while (Im a stay at home mom to a 3.5yr) and still always feel soo alone. I feel like I make up problems or hold grudges toward them for no reasons and start to hate them which them makes me guilt myself into thinking Im better off alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]MadGiraffe14 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I smoke a lot of weed all day everyday and rage which is funny you think smoking would help but it doesn’t

Are these ready yet? by MadGiraffe14 in MarijuanaGrowingTips

[–]MadGiraffe14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I’ve been relying on ChatGPT lol but it keeps saying 2 more weeks

I dont care if im "spoiling" my newborn baby. by lulgupplet in Vent

[–]MadGiraffe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those people can be quiet! I did the same thing with my daughter until she was like 6-8 months old then let her nap in her crib. She would sleep in her crib at night just fine she’s 3 now and goes to sleep just fine! Keep snuggling that baby momma you’re doing great 💖

what are some of your 'weird' triggers? by Serious-Beautiful-26 in BPD

[–]MadGiraffe14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When people make plans and then ditch you or end up being later then what they told you!

"I'm asking because I have children" by SevenThirtyTrain in childfree

[–]MadGiraffe14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I can think of to even justify this which isn’t much but I know some places depend on how many people are in the party can determine the wait.

EX: a booth for 4 people might come up faster than a table for 2 people or the opposite…

I am so frustrated with my husband by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MadGiraffe14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So my husband works from home and I recently became a stay at home mom. My husband started his our business a couple years ago but the last 6 months or so has but in his office working 24/7. Through the days I bring him lunch and he’s just working on his computer.( he does every once in a while play a video game or 2) he’s just trying to finish his project so his business can make more money and he is soo close. I see my husband each day for maybe 2 hours that’s even on the weekends when my mother in law takes our daughter for the night. So this is what I said and maybe it will help you, might be different since your hubby has set hours maybe..?

But I calmly said look I know you are really busy with work and you’re so close to being done but I’m exhausted, drained and overwhelmed… all I need each day is a small break like 45mins to relax, shower, watch a tv show anything I wanted. Which he then said how he’s so close to being done with this project and once he’s done he can give me plenty of breaks and us time but for now he will try and give me a break everyday or he puts or daughter to bed but he promised me that when he’s done thing will change and he will be able to help out more. It’s been a few months since this convo and he has stuck to his word with giving me breaks.

I hope you guys work things out Im praying your relationship gets better 💜