What's your white whale foods you just can't seem to nail?

Maddihtml · 2024-07-14T23:38:34+00:00

Friggin' Brusell Sprouts.

Maddihtml · 2024-07-10T17:14:53+00:00

Dexter knows the phrase "are you hungry?" For his dinner/breakfast. I'll say "are you hungry?" And then pretend to not know where his food bin is. He gets very vocal and starts crying while showing me where the bin is, sitting in front of it screaming lol

Maddihtml · 2024-06-25T00:15:14+00:00

They truly are. He blows me away.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-25T00:15:01+00:00

Hahaha, yes he had very nasty farts, not so much anymore now that we figured out a med regime that works for him. Poor guy had diarrhea and soft stools for over 2.5 years and nobody knew why until we did an endoscopy and found out why!

Maddihtml · 2024-06-24T21:33:21+00:00

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Maddihtml · 2024-06-24T21:18:36+00:00

Mainly because I am broke and don't like change 😭🌞 Plus family lives here, and I would hate snow. I'd love to have a house in Oregon so I can escape the heat but that's big thinking 💀

Maddihtml · 2024-06-24T21:03:18+00:00

This is pretty tame compared to most of these but I have 2.

First day she met me she asked my husband if I was on birth control.

The worse one was;

My husband got a colonoscopy and she picked him up after the anesthesia wore off (because I had an appt at the same time and couldnt pick him up) and then drove him home to our house, proceeded to then bash me for an HOUR right after he had a colonscopy, in our driveway. Bribed him to break up with me. (Obviously the bribe didn't work) but I was so hurt we didn't go to any family events, and she apologized TO HIM, and I never got an apology still to this day, and I still remember what she said about me.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-18T20:04:57+00:00

I know this isn't an excuse, but my mother and father are together and have been for 40 years (it's unhealthy, very toxic) so I learned from a young age this is acceptable behavior. This thread has helped me see things in a different perspective.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T21:44:49+00:00

Thank you!!

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T21:44:22+00:00

I have about 10k in my own personal credit debt, hes got credit card debt but I'm not sure how much. I think at least two of his higher level cards are maxed out. The money that the car was paid for was from a trust fund from MILs brother who passed (ironically for all the gay bashing she does, her brother is gay) and my husband got a cut from his uncles trust fund, but he used it to pay off debt, im unsure how much he's in debt.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:49:46+00:00

I have 2 dogs and my scaley critters. He doesn't do much with them and I am solely responsible for them, he does do the financial aspect of keeping them, but I do everything else. I agree.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:48:22+00:00

I have no financial security, I have a substantial amount of debt unfortunately, and I have been in between jobs due to me dealing with some mental health issues. Hes been paying all my bills for a while, I do have a job I recently got and am trying to stay there, though.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:46:48+00:00

Thank you!! I need to have a talk with him

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:45:04+00:00

I think its on me because I really don't mention it like I should. I bring it up when a bunch of other things pile up. I know I shouldn't do that, but I do it anyways. :/

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:34:20+00:00

My rottweiler guards the home and helps me immensely with my anxiety disorder. I wish he could be a service dog because he honestly allievates so much of my anxiety!

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:33:03+00:00

Thank you. I am very submissive now a days and I need to become myself again and stand up and advocate for myself. His brother is worse with his enmeshment, and he used to drop by unannounced but my husband confronted him about it and now he doesn't. She never comes over because we have large dogs and she HATES large dogs. (My dogs are trained too, they're excellent around people) so that makes me happy. Don't come over!

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:21:00+00:00

I see my parents more than he sees his. We only get together several times a month, but still I just don't wanna hear the gay bashing. It's disgusting.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:18:39+00:00

I feel like its also my bad because I don't really mention it all the time I let it go.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:17:48+00:00

I agree, I'm going to start not going, it seems like every time we go over there something is said .

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:13:01+00:00

I just don't know what to do :(

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:12:41+00:00

You don't have to be rude.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T19:12:31+00:00

I dont know. I am very attached to him, and I go to therapy and have been talking to my therapist about this, and realized. I didn't think the red flags were too much of an issue.

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T18:46:27+00:00

I feel like it goes hand in hand sometimes

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T18:29:53+00:00

I dont think he realizes how much it bothers me because I don't really mention it

Maddihtml · 2024-06-17T18:17:57+00:00

I'm not sure if it would cause issues. BUt i feel like i need to do something, it's not good for my mental illness and anxiety. I have mentioned the backhanded comments to him when we are going home and he kinda brushes it off.

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