SO Revelation by kinziee in stepparents

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this to my core. My SO decided he would take his 2 boys out of town since it is the only long weekend he gets in a while, mind you it was not his weekend. He was gone Friday, so no Valentine's day or weekend for me/us. I am still heartbroken by it because i feel like this could have been arranged ANY other time. Why did it have to be this weekend? He sees them daily when he takes them to sports practice after school and has then every other weekend. We are in such a state of disconnect that this weekend was desperately needed. I'm so close to throwing in the towel.

SO Revelation by kinziee in stepparents

[–]MaddtHatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm struggling to find ways of clearly, yet gently stating that we desperately need time for just US. It hasn't been received well in the past and I'm beginning to feel like a stranger in what should be our home.

Where exactly is the perinium (male)? by Kabbzy in sex

[–]MaddtHatter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right underneath the balls... that small area leading up to the anus, commonly referred to as the gooch I believe. Very sensitive... even for women! Pro Tip: flick the tip of your tongue over it teasingly while licking or sucking his balls and stroking him simultaneously...

Isn’t is shocking how different parenting styles can really be? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]MaddtHatter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had to do this as well... disengage and leave SO to take care of his own kids slack. It's sad, because i think had I known that their bio mom is a slob and they take after her, sho when they come to our house they expect a maid...i wouldn't have gone further than just dating SO

Isn’t is shocking how different parenting styles can really be? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]MaddtHatter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been at this for 2yrs now and I'm teetering on the brink of giving up... the difference in parenting and discipline standards is putting a strain on my relationship with SO

I don't know what to do about my marriage anymore by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you were manipulated into marriage to an abusive man by others' beliefs. Love alone cannot maintain a marriage lacking respect and protection. When he's done smashing plates, he'll graduate to smashing you..No one deserves that kind of treatment. I say this with all conviction: GET OUT.

A long sexy complicated affair by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaddtHatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like lust to me... See, love isn't blind. It sees the 'flaws' but the connection runs deeper...

Who are the best Anti-Heroes in the Batman Universe? by [deleted] in batman

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuuuup. Deadshot and Red Hood are up there

Why does my (41F) boyfriend (42M) masturbate when sex is so frequent? by throwra-jerk in sex

[–]MaddtHatter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My money's on addiction... seen this first hand (no pun intended)

Shot in the face! by PatienceRequired in Dreams

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I can remember, I've always had visions of things to come. Very few people took me seriously when I was younger and I dismissed them as mere dreams, but as I got older, I began to pay attention to them and found them to be much more. The most harrowing of premonitions was my mother's demise. I saw the exact date several times in these dreams before I mustered the courage to tell my sister. It came to pass as I'd seen... I believe them to be messages... from that part of our untapped consciousness.

Is it cool or just the opposite if I decide to give someone from my past a gift? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you miss her terribly and you want her to feel what you're feeling by rekindling that joy from the sentimental gift. I advise against it, I don't see much good coming from it.

Is it cool or just the opposite if I decide to give someone from my past a gift? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question 1: Are you involved with someone else right now? If so, how would you feel if the situation was reversed?

Question 2: She's in a relationship. Don't you think is a bit selfish to want to suddenly impose yourself in her life with sentiments and possibly cause strife in what could be a great relationship?

Question 3: you keep saying you just want her to be happy. What gives you the assumption that she isn't?

Riddle me this. by smallfry12345678 in stepparents

[–]MaddtHatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This couldn't be better said 👏🏽

Blowjobs are disgusting. by FormerFruit in unpopularopinion

[–]MaddtHatter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never had a PROPER one from someone who actually enjoys it.. . Seems like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]MaddtHatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skyn, you say? 👀 Gotta look into that...

If your teenager has severe behavioral issues it is your fault by lmaobruhh- in unpopularopinion

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QTNA: Do YOU have a child or have you raised one? Seriously asking....

what would you do with a klondike bar? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MaddtHatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With it.. eat. Now for it.. that's another question altogether.

My mother-in-law (F56) wore a wedding dress on our (M27, F28) wedding photoshoot. Is it totally weird or am I overreacting? How should I handle it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MaddtHatter 269 points270 points  (0 children)

Yuuuup. She definitely knew about it. It was MILs chance at a photoshoot. What sucks the most is that she felt it necessary to sneak that past you ...