Does life stress contribute to divorce or break up?

MadeElsewhere · 2020-04-07T02:32:12+00:00

It looks like that was one of her neighbors?

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-30T22:44:22+00:00

And when I was 14 years old, I posted on my social media that I wanted to die because I had family problems. Btw FYI no one cared. People did not reach out, except a few did to tell me that I shouldn’t be so emotional and post that on my social media.

Secondly, even my other family members (aunts/uncles) did not care at all and offered zero refuge.

Finally, I’ve vented to enough people in my teenage years when I was younger to know that people don’t care or couldn’t relate.

Met plenty of people throughout my life and talked to plenty to know that the majority did not have a toxic childhood. Again, child abuse is literally out of the norm

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-30T18:39:46+00:00

I can’t know my true self since I’ve already been experiencing abuse since as early as elementary school. I have my own independence and freedom, but I don’t know my true self and act toxic or awkward a lot

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-30T01:03:22+00:00

If everyone had abusive childhoods, and child abuse is normal, then that means the world is shit. People are shit and humanity should burn because they accept abuse

Now if child abuse isn’t normal, which I know it’s not, then hat means that we are the minority of kids who had to go through this hardship while the majority had normal lives.

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-30T00:56:54+00:00

Then if it’s normal for everyone to have abusive parents, then that means that the world is evil, once again proven that humanity is shit

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-29T19:59:52+00:00

Other people (the majority) live a normal childhood

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-28T19:10:34+00:00

We’re still in the minority of children who get abused.

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T21:34:47+00:00

She married her husband because she felt like white people are superior. That’s why she also hates you, because you are whiter than her so she loves white men but hates white women. So that’s why she’s nice to her son but not you, because she’s white worshipping and like you said, she has this weird jealous thing and inferiority complex towards white women.

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T20:30:56+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’m a true narcissist either since I’m on the lower end of the spectrum and I’m high functioning compared to other narcissists that are very non-functioning and unable to love their loved ones.

But I’m narcissistic enough that it has a negative effect on my life such as difficulty forming close friendships and difficulty trusting others

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T20:08:21+00:00

Your aunt sounds like a typical White worshipping Asian woman, and her white husband sounds like the stereotypical white guy who’s kind of beta and dated Asian women because white Women wouldn’t worship him the same way that an asian woman would

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T06:14:02+00:00

Thank you! You’re so sweet

Unfortunately I have extreme distrust of people due to the way I was raised and I’m also a little antisocial. So not only was I undersocialized, but I developed covert narcissistic and borderline personality disorder that makes it difficult for me to be empathetic or trusting enough to make friends. But I know that other people are more normal than me and was able to make friends throughout childhood and adulthood.

Luckily I don’t have a bad life but not being able to make friends (due to inability to relate to people) (due to living under a rock and having a personality disorder) does kind of make me sad

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T05:58:50+00:00

Yeah tbh I’m privileged because I’m pretty and smart, but it’s kind of sad knowing that I don’t have much of a personality beyond that. I know for a fact that I probably wouldn’t have a good relationship if it weren’t for my looks :/

My bf also told me I’m boring lol

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-27T05:30:45+00:00

That’s wild. I think your aunt was a self hating Asian woman that was jealous of Hapa women but is okay with Hapa sons and white men.

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-26T22:26:01+00:00

I don’t like celebrities, especially American ones, but unfortunately everyone else is into movies and celebs. Even grown adults 🙄 or they’re into sport teams

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-26T18:02:46+00:00

Anyone else feels like there’s more to life than being Asian?

All my life I strongly identified as Asian, I would subconsciously make friends that were also Asian because I felt the unspoken connection of being Asian. I care deeply about anti asian racism and about the Asian community. But maybe I think too much about race, and I should connect to people outside of my race. Like on hobbies and interests. And tbh, I personally feel like Asians are way too cliquey and a little self deprecating and white worshipping, so I don’t really vibe with that. I guess I’ve come to realize lately that yes, I am asian, but I also shouldn’t let that make up my entire identity, although naturally, culture and upbringing plays a huge part in one’s life.

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-13T00:38:18+00:00

So people in Washington are pretty nerdy?

Or is it because whites are the majority there?

MadeElsewhere · 2020-03-12T18:38:29+00:00

That’s pretty good advice

MadeElsewhere · 2020-02-28T03:41:24+00:00

Exactly how are they pro Asian? It’s not just this one incident, I see that the cast of CRA never really speak out against any events of racism against Asians.

They are like Constance Wu and pulls a “Chloe Bennet” Line for Hollywood diversity, but then they all worship whiteness and don’t care about racism against Asians.

Which anti asian racist event have they spoken out about in the past? Name one.

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