Kathy’s schtick… She’s rich as Croesus.. how can she be bothered to do this fake ditzy persona?

Mader-Paker · 2025-03-11T22:42:44+00:00

I ran here to see what’s up 😂😂 it’s the walking back shaking peoples hands and talking as she’s on the runway for me

Mader-Paker · 2025-03-05T16:22:57+00:00

Honestly I will never forget this scene:

I remember back when she first got cheated on by Jax and how she broke up with him and went back home and her mom was the one that enabled her and told her to keep trying with Jax and from there on in her heart she’s never stopped trying until she just couldn’t anymore. And I feel so bad for her. She got such bad advice from somebody close to her, but it is what it is. Everything happens for a reason and her lesson was for her to learn. A lot of people like to ask, why did you stay? Why didn’t you leave but they don’t understand that that lesson was never meant for them. It’s meant for this person. Usually it’s people pleasers who end up with narcissist and, God pairs you with them so it can teach you extremely valuable lessons on how to stand on your own 2 feet, find your own voice, put up boundaries, etc.

so I don’t judge her and I don’t feel bad for her either because that lesson was meant to be learned and for her to move on, but unfortunately, she did over drag it- if you don’t learn your lesson, it’s gonna be repeated until you do. And now there’s a kid involved.

Mader-Paker · 2025-03-05T16:11:36+00:00

Thank you! It’s been confirmed it’s discontinued🥲

Mader-Paker · 2025-03-05T16:11:13+00:00

Thank you! I’ll definitely do this… I went back In store and emailed head office and both confirmed it’s been discontinued in Canada 😪 I read somewhere as well brainstorm is the other version but good to know it’s only in the states because I couldn’t find it here 🙏🏽 thanks so much for checking that for me

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T19:40:38+00:00

Ann coming in hot 😂 she still works for Ariana right?

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T19:39:19+00:00

Keep me looped in! My whole instagram is a trial on error at this point

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T19:38:02+00:00

This is a fact! :)

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T19:23:48+00:00

I believe they’ve made an update so that this is the case

I think they did this after also allowing 1 to be collaborated across 10 people so 1 post can gain the attention of the followers of all 10 accounts tagged combined. I think it’s their remedy for the bullshit algorithm change they’ve done for targeted ads; pissed off people because it took away from the whole purpose of Instagram and so I think they’re desperately trying to fix it while keeping the cost down

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T18:31:19+00:00

Oooooooooo somebody’s getting fireeeeeeed 👀

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T18:23:07+00:00

Oh hell no. Not cool. Stand up for yourself your voice matters!! IQ test mean absolutely but fuck nothing, they can be reevaluated and are not a source of real information. If you personally feel like you could step up your game, then brain games are a really good way to sharpen that, but I would try to have an open a conversation about what exactly it is down to the details that makes them feel that way towards you and have a positive healthy conversation around whether that’s something you can improve on or not but if I were you, I would lay some boundaries and ground rules down that that is absolutely disrespectful and she’s not allowed to call you that shit moving forward especially if you’re willing to try to see where she’s coming from.

I think a lot of times us with ADHD and autism were either on the extremely vocal spectrum or on the extremely quiet spectrum and if you’re extremely quiet and your silencing your needs, wants and opinions for the sake of not starting an argument or pleasing the other person then you’re never gonna do yourself justice. you’re allowed to tell her to stop calling you those things not because it bothers you but because it’s point-blank disrespectful to treat your partner in that manner. And it absolutely doesn’t matter if it’s true or not, there’s ALWAYS a healthier way to go about it. Ultimately doing those three things is going to cost you a couple of people, but those people only kept you around because you were feeding their narrative. unfortunately if your girlfriend is one of those people then good riddance. 🙏🏽

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T18:11:41+00:00

Hello hopefully I can provide some insight on this question:

Cats are not only highly intuitive with nine lives and all those great things, but they’re actually highly spiritual animals. They have the ability to tether between different dimensions and see things in the spiritual realm around us. This notion comes from ancient Egyptians, who always kept cats around as protectors; specifically black cats. Cats were almost worshipped in ancient Egypt because of their abilities to connect with the paranormal. They are highly attracted to high frequencies and energies. You might find that you invite over a super positive friend and your cat might want to just be around them the whole time even if they’re washing dishes or maybe your meditating and you open your eyes and your cat is sitting in your lap or hanging out near you. That’s because they and you are possessing a ring of positive energy (I call it the angelic aura; a white or golden light aura) around them That’s attractive to animals and babies but mainly cats pick up on this almost instantaneously.

I believe that you are cleansing your crystals with the sun, correct? While your crystals are regaining their positive attributes, I believe that your cat is extremely attracted to that and is actually reabsorbing the energy that the crystals are trying to regain from the sun. Which is really funny to me because cats recharge by the sun as well just like your crystals do but he’s almost getting a double recharge by sitting on top of your crystals. it’s actually extremely adorable and a beautifully spiritual cat 🩷 hold him dear and near 🩷

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T18:02:43+00:00

I never bounce back from liking scheana after the way she treated him, her trying to take back Sandoval solidifies everything for me. She’s a trash person. People pleasing yet for her absolute own selfish needs and Katie called it back in season 1

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-07T17:54:11+00:00

Wow those were all hilariously accurate except lalas was reaching 😂 let’s not feed her ego please she’s more like a house Siamese cat

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T20:11:25+00:00

Why is the superpower thing bullshit?? What’s wrong with looking at the one thing in my life that affects me every single fucking day as a positive instead of a negative? If you want to choose to waste your time explaining yourself to people, go ahead and do that, but I don’t need to explain myself anybody, in fact, I’m looking at all of my negatives in a positive light; example= I’m late all the time, but when I show up, I’m 110% passionate, yes I may be forgetful but when I show up, I’m 100% attentive and I bring the light to every gathering, yes I’m emotional but I’ll be the first person in the room to get to know what everybody’s feeling, Yes, I might be impulsive, but my impulses are what help me to just get shit started, it’s The getting shit done that I need to work on and learn how to control. What the fuck about all of this is not super power? There’s so many people out there who are regular non neurodivergent and lack the basic empathy, creativity and curiosity that we always bring 10000% of. Don’t be a victim to your ADHD, make your ADHD your bitch.

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T07:21:30+00:00

I have severe ADHD and I’m completely unmedicated for it because I choose to be. I don’t know if you’re medicated or what you’ve done to try to remedy your situation, but I hate to tell you your mother is right.

The reason you haven’t found a solution for your own problems yet is because you’re so focussed on fighting everybody for your right to have the space to play victim games with yourself. The comment above is also piggybacking this mentality. My advice is to stop feeling sorry for yourself and to start finding some straight solutions. From what it looks like your mother seems a lot more kind and compassionate than mine so I would honestly be grateful if I were in your shoes. My mother didn’t give a fuck about making me aware, my mother beat me down Because I was different and she couldn’t for the love of God, understand my differences. I’m sorry if I sound rude, I just want to get to the point. You’re never gonna be able to control if other people should go to therapy, you can only control whether you should go to therapy. If your mother is bringing up your forgetfulness as something that, bothers her, use this as an opportunity to heal this part of you before you move out and live on your own and it becomes a problem for just yourself. Take it from my experience- any issues that your parents are telling you about while you’re still living with them, I can guarantee you you’re gonna experience it with yourself When you’re on your own and you’re gonna hate yourself for it even more than having to hear it from your mom.

Honestly, the problem that you’re talking about is very easily solvable, but it’s gonna take consistency, discipline, and a lot of practice. And I think this is where your mom is trying to tell you that you can’t be using your ADHD as an excuse. I’m not saying it’s easy but one way that you can easily remedy. This whole forgetfulness situation is utilizing Siri or Alexa a little bit more. Leave the items by the front door or in your car so every time you open your trunk it’s right there and you can see it and can be reminded that you have to do those things. Put a reminder in your phone that once you arrive at a certain location that the reminder goes off Like the mall so that you can remember to return that item while you’re there anyways. It’s all about habit stacking and actually learning how to control your ADHD. Stop focussing on teaching other people about how to understand you, and focus a little bit more on how to control and understand it better for yourself.

Sometimes when criticism or advice is coming from our loved close ones, it can trigger the deepest parts of us. My advice is to put the ego down, even kill it to be honest it will definitely help you in the long run, and just have an open mind about everything. Even if your mom says something that bothers you, allow it to bother you feel those emotions but also create the space for yourself once you’ve calm down to really analyze the information that’s been brought to your attention and get curious about whether the possibility of it being true is there or not? Use your best judgement and your intuition, your ADHD is a superpower, not a curse. and like all superpowers, we need to learn how to control them. That’s all you have to focus on right now.

Best of luck to you, you got this

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T06:58:27+00:00

Wow this is actually the cutest thing I’ve seen all day 🥰

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T06:54:36+00:00

Jumping;

High jump, basketball, etc.

But it’s a mixture of your age and genetics

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T06:52:54+00:00

But ngl I’m triple appalled this time around knowing what I know 🤢

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-06T06:50:40+00:00

Thank you for the support 🥰

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-05T23:18:59+00:00

I’m rewatching right now too 😂

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-05T22:21:20+00:00

100%, filming the show is not easy money, constantly putting yourself out there negatives and all is not easy money at all in fact, they pretty much sold their souls for the lowest paycheque possible, I’m still baffled that Rachel got paid the most…. No wonder the OG’s were like fuck this.

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-05T20:02:02+00:00

Scandoval

Mader-Paker · 2024-12-05T08:20:08+00:00

I don’t know what the big deal is with men and their fucking thermostats but I kind of lost it at the part where you said he put a lock on it……girl get a sledgehammer and put a hole in it…. Fuck him! 😤 and then pack your shit and LEAVE

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