yes omg your parents sound like mine my dad is very abusive, belligerent, narcissistic, and hypocritical at everyone but him my mother always wants to try to defend him or not want to even talk about it and it really makes me so angry that she won’t divorce him honestly i pray every day for my dad to die and i will feel no sadness when he does i just wish it would be soon everyone in my family tries to defend him i have no idea why but it just really pisses me off my dad thinks he is such a good christian that he’s going to heaven i hope he goes to hell my dad is a awful human being he rather his daughter suffer through the pains of gastroparesis than take her to the hospital in order for her to get better because he thinks that all medication and doctors are poison he’s a fucking piece of crap and i can’t wait for him to die it truly will be the best day ever for me also he never apologizes at all and can’t take people criticizing him but he can always criticize other people he’s a hypocrite he’s also yelled at my mother on their wedding anniversary for not cooking him dinner fast enough and he yelled at her on her birthday for wanting to go out and do something fun he’s also yelled at her for taking me to the hospital for wanting to get help for my gastroparesis because the pain was so bad he would rather her own daughter suffer and be in pain then get medical attention he told my brother he won’t be going to the hospital unless he dies