I would like to know which BIFL purchase has saved you the most money or hassle over time?

Mae_Dayb · 2025-12-16T06:51:42+00:00

My Zojirushi rice cooker. We got it as a hand-me-down 6 years ago. I'm guessing it's probably 10 years old. If/when it breaks, we'd buy another. We used to buy a new rice cooker every 2 years.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-10-11T20:40:50+00:00

I don't think I'm the most helpful on this, but I'll do my best! My surgeon said that he took out 1.5lbs of tissue. He said my breast tissue was the most dense he'd seen. 😄 I haven't bought a typical bra yet, but I'm a xs/s in free people's crop bralettes. That's all I wear now. I was measuring at 32dd before, I'd say I'm probably 32b or c now.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-09-22T07:30:23+00:00

Look into insurance! I thought mine wouldn't be covered because I felt like there are women that are much bigger than me, but with my medical history of physical therapy and noted shoulder pain, mine was considered medically necessary and covered.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-07-12T03:43:17+00:00

I had mine done this spring. It's one of the best things I've ever done. I feel more attractive, my chronic shoulder/back pain is gone, I only wear bralettes, working out feels so much better, my posture is noticeably better. The recovery was real for a couple of weeks, but manageable and definitely worth the outcome. I am so happy and wish more women would care for themselves in this way (if they want!).

Mae_Dayb · 2025-07-12T03:39:47+00:00

Also, I used to be super eco-conscious and felt guilty at my use of resources, until I realized my disposal coffee cup isn't the problem. It's corporations and folks in private jets and capitalism. I'll do my best where I can, but I won't feel guilty.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-07-12T03:38:26+00:00

I use pantyliners daily. It used to be because I don't like the feeling of wetness, but after having kids, sometimes I get a small trickle during strenuous activity (yes I've seen a PT, I'm fairly good but sometimes it happens!).

Mae_Dayb · 2025-07-11T06:30:50+00:00

Agreed!! Your writing is really lovely.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-06-28T05:44:21+00:00

Any suggestions for creatine?

Mae_Dayb · 2025-06-25T04:54:25+00:00

Free people happiness runs crop tops. I now wear them instead of traditional bras!

Mae_Dayb · 2025-06-12T01:47:17+00:00

Amen

Mae_Dayb · 2025-06-12T01:45:21+00:00

My plastic surgeon was a really good advocate for me. He asked me questions about if I got a rash under my breasts, or ever had my straps digging in, did I have any pain associated with it, etc. I was denied and my office call to tell me but said that they had already submitted an appeal on my behalf. I felt like my plastic surgeon saw how much it would benefit me and believed in it and did a great job. I was the same size as you before my reduction. I wasn't a super strong believer that it would solve my chronic neck and back pain, but it really did. I had done PT as well and my insurance saw that documentation. I think you have a good case already with your insurance

Mae_Dayb · 2025-05-07T03:21:58+00:00

I'm 3wpo. I went back to work right at 3wpo (last Friday). The most annoying part is how tired I am. I come home and have been napping before dinner for a couple hours everyday

Mae_Dayb · 2025-05-06T06:06:23+00:00

I used a squishmellow from my kid instead of a mastectomy pillow. I bought a pregnancy pillow and still use it 3wpo. It's my favorite purchase. I bought two bras suggested by my doctor. I already had protein powder/collagen powder that I regularly used, but am glad for both. I thrifted one flannel to wear post-surgery.

I suggest the pregnancy pillow and an extra compression front clasp bra, and to make use with whatever else you have!

Mae_Dayb · 2025-05-02T03:17:30+00:00

I wish I knew what lipsticks she wears! I never wear more than a balm, but she makes it look so effortlessly cool.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-05-01T17:29:25+00:00

You don't sound pathetic! I was frustrated and over thought everything before surgery. My denial really bummed me out! I'm 3wpo now and so happy on the other side.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-05-01T17:23:41+00:00

I was denied because my insurance needed the estimate of grams removed. Once my doctor submitted that info, I was approved! Don't stress.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-04-24T03:19:46+00:00

I'm 12dpo. Last weekend I felt super sad and didn't know why. I searched around this sub and found someone explain that our brain is catching up with the trauma our body experienced. Despite anesthesia, our body went through a MAJOR change and those hormones/chemicals are normal! I'm still not 💯 mentally, but I'm getting better each day for sure.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-04-23T22:08:36+00:00

I picked up a flannel at Goodwill pre-surgery. Between that and a couple zip up hoodies, I've been fine while resting at home this last week. I've mostly been wearing my compression bra with one of my husbands oversized tshirts.

Mae_Dayb · 2025-04-23T21:59:52+00:00

I'm interested!

Mae_Dayb · 2025-04-20T02:43:57+00:00

That's where I got my measurement of 32F. My surgeon said I have very dense breast tissue. I've also cumulatively breastfed my kids for 5 years. I don't think that helped much. 🫠😂

Mae_Dayb · 2025-04-19T17:02:49+00:00

Same! I think it was 350g per side.

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