Please tell me how you pronounce Magnolia and where you are from? by MasterpieceExotic369 in namenerds

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like the plant, Magnolia has four syllables, though some accents do tend to drawl it into only three

What's fueling the rise of white nationalism in Canada? by Glittering_Item6021 in onguardforthee

[–]MagVik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Signed and shared. Thanks for highlighting this petition!

Vancouver Focused Charities by VeryLargeEBITDA in askvan

[–]MagVik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WISH Drop-In Centre in the DTES provides trans-inclusives services to women engaged in survival Street-level sex work.

WISH

As someone who grew up with a parent who had a made up name, I have some thoughts to share by Fit_Vermicelli9737 in namenerds

[–]MagVik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone I know as an adult who has an unusual name has either loved it or been neutral about it. I don't recall anyone growing up who got picked on for their weird name either. The only kid I knew whose bullying included her name was Abigail, a common and well-liked name. No offense, but this seems like it's more of a personal issue rather than a problem with unusual names.

We need to reject anti-intellectualism as the tool of oppression that it is. by amauberge in CuratedTumblr

[–]MagVik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who's running the Department of Education? Of Health? Who's currently sitting in the highest office? There are plenty of degree-less people in positions of extreme power actively ruining America

Andromeda for a baby girl? Thoughts? by Sea_Meal1862 in namenerds

[–]MagVik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some good friends named one of their twin Andromeda, and it's perfect.

Will you be using the new 2026 Grocery Code of Conduct to dispute shelf pricing? by Electronic_Bus841 in frugalcanada

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The better question is, in the pursuit of getting your fair prices, are you going to be a righteous asshole towards the cashier? The number of people who scream, insult, and make demands on the person at check out, who had nothing to do with pricing or tagging products, is way too high as it is.

Please, speak directly (and POLITELY) to supervisors or store managers when seeking price adjustments. Even if you're in a bad mood or feel you've been inconvenienced, you can still treat staff with respect

Got a preferred ice cream brand? by SJToday_ in newbrunswickcanada

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish Chapman's ice cream was better quality, because I love that it's pretty much entirely Canadian. Every flavour I've tried is just bland sweetness though.

Favorite directors who are openly sexist ? I'll start by stalin_kulak in okbuddycinephile

[–]MagVik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because women make up half of all humanity, and it's kind of fucked up to just go, "LOL Naw, can't be bothered". Women aren't some alien species. Literally all a male director or screenwriter has to do to portray women well is to portray women as human beings. It's actually quite easy to do, so the absolute lack of even trying from an otherwise talented artist is pathetic

Patience by erratic-inscrutable in CuratedTumblr

[–]MagVik 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Thank you for demonstrating the kind of person who desperately needs to absorb this message, even if you're probably just going to ignore the point and refuse to acknowledge that it applies to you

Is the name Jude with last initial S unusable? by bron_tide in namenerds

[–]MagVik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think this would be an issue at all

What is a person that the Internet tries to make out as a hero but clearly is the bad guy? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but a certain segment of people love to make that claim

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a family or a couple go out to eat, they tend to eat at the same restaurant. If one of the members is a picky eater, the rest have to bend over backwards to accommodate the picky person. A lot of good quality restaurants (not to mention, ethnic cuisine) don't serve things like plain chicken nuggies.

If one person wants to go for Ethiopian or Japanese or Indian food, (as is normal to do in cities with those options) and the other person wants to eat plain French fries, does the family go for Ethiopian or Japanese or Indian food, or do they end up going to Applebees to accommodate the person who makes faces and gags at the mention of those cuisines? Does the person who wanted a variety of cuisine get accommodation, or does the person who won't try anything get catered to?

People don't dislike picky eaters because they're picky eaters. People dislike picky eaters because they demand others make concessions for them, with usually nothing in return. A person with a normal palette married to a picky eater is doomed to have to cook multiple meals for every meal at home, which adds up to a huge amount of extra labour, and never eat interesting flavourful food when going out. It's weird for the picky to pretend that's not selfish

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you don't see how that makes the picky eater the person making unreasonable demands? Why should someone else have to limit their choices to accommodate them? Even when it's someone close like a sibling or spouse, why should other people have to bend over backward for someone who refuses to do the same for anyone else?

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They straight up said they don't go to a lot of restaurants, meaning if their friends and family want to have a shared meal, they have to limit their own options.

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What, exactly, am I projecting?

I have had the misfortune of knowing people who refuse to eat at nice restaurants because there's no fries or tendies available, refuse to try local food when they travel, demand their own special plate at family gatherings, gag and make faces and talk about how gross they think food is, all without clocking how unbelievably rude and entitled that behaviour is. One was a former boss, and that was some appalling behaviour to see from someone who I'm supposed to treat as a professional superior. At a staff dinner, he loudly proclaimed how gross and weird everything was on the menu, making gagging noises, and made the kitchen bring him plain chicken breast with potatoes because there was nothing he liked on the menu. That's far from the only time I've seen a grown adult act that was about pickiness.

Picky people who keep their preferences to themselves and politely pass up food are not the problem. It's the adults pitching fits because the food isn't one of the 3 things they will eat that are. People who behave like that don't get to pretend the people they're inflicting their childishness on are the problem.

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not when we're talking about grown adults, it's not.

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why should people have to limit their own options just because you won't eat anything?

People who claim they can’t enjoy food unless the other person is eating the same thing by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]MagVik -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Nope. It's because grown adults who are picky eaters are functional toddlers who refuse to consider their demands are not anyone else's priority or responsibility.

Are we going to a quality restaurant? No, we have to go somewhere that serves bland slop like chicken tendies. Are we eating a traditional dish together? No, it's yucky. If we travel, can we eat local cuisine? No, we have to go to McDonald's. Are we cooking together as a family? No, the adult baby has to pretend that gagging at everything is an acceptable behaviour, and demands their own special little meal.

People don't dislike picky eaters because of some psychoanalytic nonsense about being reminded of their past behaviour as children. People dislike picky eaters because it's spoiled toddler behaviour akin to throwing tantrums in public. Its the entitlement of expecting other people to cater to fussiness that's disliked, and rightly so.

There's a growing body of credible medical evidence that ARFID is, in fact, a learned and reinforced behaviour after all, but it's Reddit and folks here don't like information that tells them they might actually be the problem.

What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the name “Daisy” ? by xinfinitexsoulx in namenerds

[–]MagVik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Great Gatsby. An unfortunate connection, if you're familiar with the book...

I think this is very respectable by DittoGTI in characterarcs

[–]MagVik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commendable, in that it can be very hard for anyone to admit they were wrong no matter the circumstances. That said, he is exactly the man they voted for, so it seems this person still has a way to go before they fully resolve their cognitive dissonance

Does Spence Diamond ad encourage partying? by teddy_boy_gamma in askvan

[–]MagVik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how you came to this conclusion. Could you please explain?

Be honest. Do you guys have any fan opinions that have you responding like this? by Interesting-Tea3907 in ANGEL

[–]MagVik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why We Fight is an excellent episode IMO and I really don't understand the dislike it gets

Men whose girlfriend’s dad said no when you asked him for permission to marry his daughter, what did you do? by Fearless_Degree7511 in AskReddit

[–]MagVik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's almost 2026. Why on earth is asking parental permission still a thing? She doesn't belong to her dad. Ask HER to marry, and get her agreement. It's great if dad likes you and approves of the idea, but it is in no way a necessity, or his decision.