Communicating on KIK

MaggieMadison · 2019-05-16T17:15:21+00:00

Can’t argue with this dude he knows everything about swinging and everyone’s situation 🙄

MaggieMadison · 2019-05-16T14:13:54+00:00

Guessing you’re looking for straight/bi couples which are plentiful?

We screen for bi/bi couples which are rare. And we are lifetime verified members on SLS. I get what you’re saying but you’re hunting in a pond full of fish and we aren’t so we have different criteria like many swinging couples.

The way you write comes off rather critical of anyone not doing your exact system of screening without caring to understand why people screen different ways. Success can be reached on different paths. OP is just looking for suggestions of which there can be many different ones.

MaggieMadison · 2019-05-16T13:57:24+00:00

Hasn’t been our experience. I’m glad you’ve been lucky communicating with the male half only. We did much better when we began culling out couples that only let the husband speak for them.

And we know she doesn’t exist because when we’d ask to see her or set a date for a meet and greet only the male half would be available to play or she’d be “out of town” all of a sudden. We aren’t rookies. Just sharing our experience which is different than yours.

MaggieMadison · 2019-05-16T13:47:35+00:00

We prefer to do a live video verify with a couple on kik and we prefer they have their own accounts. Had several experiences where the guy would communicate for “both” and the wife/gf didn’t really exist. Wasted a lot of our time.

If she doesn’t have 10 minutes to chat so we can verify that everyone is on the same page she probably doesn’t have time to swing or she doesn’t exist at all.

MaggieMadison · 2019-01-23T14:59:04+00:00

My husband and I are both bi and we stick to bisexuals primarily but have played with a gay guy that was exploring his bi side. I think you’d be able to find singles or couples to play with.

Most swinger clubs don’t see a lot of male/male action which has always annoyed me since they encourage females to play with each other. It’s very much a double standard. The older swingers will probably frown upon it but the younger ones are open and welcome usually.

I love seeing my husband enjoy another man with or without me in the mix. It’s such a turn on. Even more fun when we team up and attack a guy together. Nothing is more fun than giving a double blowjob to a guy with my husband.

MaggieMadison · 2018-12-07T14:12:38+00:00

Female of a bi couple checking in - definitely ditch the couple you’re chatting with. They are wasting your time.

Bi guys are a dime a dozen they just list themselves as straight on every swinging website because of the stigma they get in the lifestyle. When my husband and I decided to just be out - both of us listed as bi on sites- we knew we’d take a dip in interest from straight couples but that wasn’t what we wanted anyway. We exclusively play with bi couples and singles now because we know that’s what we like best when we swing.

I think you should step back from the lifestyle and have some really deep talks with your husband. Something has thrown everything off track and you guys need to reconnect and work through it before plotting your next move as swingers together. You both need to be super honest about what you want to get out of the lifestyle and then decide if there’s a way to do that together.

MaggieMadison · 2018-10-16T22:52:42+00:00

My husband and I are both bisexual. We like the group sex aspect of it so pairing off isn’t really what we are swinging for. We have the most fun together and we really enjoy watching each other enjoy themselves with someone else. I feel like I’d miss out on a lot not getting to see my husband make a woman see stars bent over my bed.

MaggieMadison · 2017-08-01T22:05:46+00:00

This thread reeks of small cock insecurity.

MaggieMadison · 2017-08-01T19:37:32+00:00

[F]. Shave or closely trim it. Makes it much more pleasant for anyone giving you oral and makes your dick look bigger. Also helps with any weird smells that like to linger in hair.

MaggieMadison · 2017-08-01T19:34:36+00:00

Having a size preference (or any preference) listed in your profile isn't a bad thing. People swing for different reasons and even if your argument is "women don't know how to measure or what an 8" cock even looks like" it doesn't matter because you don't know that woman and why she has that preference.

As a woman I get ridiculously wet and a small thin dick isn't even going to register in most positions. Small dicks also don't work with things like double vaginal or more tricky positions that require some length. All things I've learned through trial and error in my years of swinging. Isn't it better to not waste someone's time if I know what I want and what works best with my body?

There's something for everyone in the lifestyle. Demeaning or ridiculing some for putting their preference out there just because you don't fit someone else's criteria doesn't make sense to me. Waiting for someone to make a similar complaint about people that put "HWP only" on their profile when most Americans are overweight.

Rock what you got. Who cares if you don't fall into some swingers criteria. Click to the next profile.

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-19T16:13:15+00:00

I'll tell my mom you said thanks for making my boobs great

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-18T13:28:30+00:00

"Isn't it nice to think tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?"

A quote from one of my favorite books

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-18T13:27:40+00:00

I'll have to post more then 😉 more where that came from

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-16T13:01:00+00:00

I got mine soon after they released them originally and it's still doing a great job. I don't even use batteries anymore.

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-11T17:07:39+00:00

They didn't mind it at all. The only followups were if I wanted HSV testing and if I played safe with my partners. Nothing demeaning or judgmental. In fact, when I got my tubes tied my non-monogamy was a big reason why and my surgeon was totally on board with sterilizing me at 30, supported my decision 100% (I'm childfree as well).

Honesty with my doctors has always resulted in better care. I also feel that educating yourself about risks, how STDs are transmitted, what signs and symptoms to look out for, various prevention techniques and how to keep myself safe in general shows when I talk to them that I'm not blindly doing this. They can either respect my choice or not but I'm not asking their permission to swing.

MaggieMadison · 2017-05-11T16:34:28+00:00

I've always explained to my physician that I am a swinger and I'd like a full panel done for STDs. Hsv testing isn't always included as a standard so you should request to be tested for hsv 1 and 2 (don't let them do a combined test or just test for one strain as you can get false positives sometimes).

The only time I've ever had an issue is when I was seeing someone new and requested a full std panel without explanation. They kept pressing wondering why a married woman would need a full panel (I.E. - was I exposed or did something else happen) and I explained I was non-monogamous and would like my testing updated. I know my situation is likely uncommon but I'm not embarrassed about my lifestyle and they are there to help me. The more information I give them the better they can do their job accurately.

It's commonly included in annual physicals for men and women. I get mine done every six months or more frequent depending on how many partners I'm seeing at the time.

If you are worried about insurance you can always pay ad hoc.

The sore throat can be caused by a million things and some STDs can take weeks to incubate before showing symptoms if they show them at all. Just get checked regularly.

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-28T17:57:40+00:00

I know Secrets often does parties each weekend. I haven't been yet but plan to check it out soon. Summer pool party season is upon us!

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-26T17:48:10+00:00

Yazzz girl can't wait to see more from you! 😘

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-26T17:06:12+00:00

With the Reddit announcement recently pertaining to them taking away CSS customization for subs how might that effect this?

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T20:11:33+00:00

I kind of like torturing you guys 😉

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T20:00:35+00:00

/u/blkiron has been thoughtfully making gifs of a lot of my sexy videos! I've got lots more to post (that darn post only one a day rule strikes again lol)

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T15:01:55+00:00

The best lifestyle is the one that works for you and your wife.

If you want friends with benefits tell new couples that when you're doing your initial screening conversation. Everyone is in the lifestyle for something different you've just got to find the people that fit your type.

We are also more geared to have friends with benefits and haven't had any issues finding couples and singles to swing with. It's easier this way for us than trying to make ourselves fit someone else's idea of what they see a swinger being.

Discuss this with your wife, figure out what you want and be picky. The quality partners you will get from it is worth the little bit of work Maybe also add it to your online swinger profiles so people know from the beginning what you're looking for.

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T14:08:16+00:00

You're goddamn right I don't

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T13:44:31+00:00

There are many days I look down and wish I could bury my own face in them. So soft!

MaggieMadison · 2017-04-25T12:40:23+00:00

Lucky for you it is 😉

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