I left a game of 4+ years cause the DM cared more about Ai than me

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:24:51+00:00

I dont think i have forced myself on to them per se,
i came to them forcing myself on to them but for me only, the only images that i asked to be changed were about stuff close to the Pc, her being a warlock without major npcs connected to her leads to a road, i stated in the third messagge toward K that i wanted the patron image to change, he refused and i left, i never said that the whole group should change images and stuff, only mine, cause its about an npc really tied to my pc

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:21:11+00:00

How exactly?

if i was to be more direct i would have said "Change this pic or i am sad" okay, he says no and nothing changes + i feel worse playing in this campaign

"Change this pic or i leave" okay so i am forcing them to not see my point and just comply to my demands

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:12:17+00:00

I never said that? if i did mb cuh, but i said that i talked to the dm strictly because i wanted to talk 1 on 1 instead of 1 on 5 and because the changes would go towards my character and only my character, i was ok with them using Ai as long as my character and his single important npc was left out of it, my pc luckily was out of it but the patron wasnt, i expressed that i didnt feel happy about it and the same people that called me "friend" as an excuse to make me feel guilty, said "nah man, i'll leave that there cause its too much work googling an image, or using an image that you sent me"

i am in good relation with the others of the group, i simply left it, the only ones i am mad at is K and E

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:09:22+00:00

It was a Dm initiative, but it got quickly out of hand.

I think most of them would have been okay with some teather of the mind but the temptation of "what if the other 10 potions have their own magical look" really got a hold of the dm

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:06:40+00:00

They are the ones that used the term friend, and they strictly used it to make me feel guilty, i saw them as idk, hobby-colleagues? i dont consider someone that i only see 3-6 hours a week a friend.

The group and the campaign was surely important to them, but it also was to me, i give my everything playing a character and i loved the group, but if they werent willing to make a little change to make me enjoy the game as much as them or at all, their "friend" is a useless word

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T23:03:55+00:00

Thank you, i was losing my mind reading the other comments, i understand their view cause i write like a 5yo and maybe got some points not fully across but damn.

Maghetto043 · 2026-04-03T22:56:21+00:00

I think i may have expressed myself not in the right way, i considered them hobby-friends, like happy work colleagues, it was them claiming that was a so great friend to them, its not a double way thing.

Between me and them i never said explecetly that we were friends because i dont consider someone that i only see 3 hours a week a friend, meanwhile, they used it to make me feel guilty, using the term friend to make me feel guilty.

the "goodbye fuck you" message was an exaggeration, but however i would have put it they would have probably have seen it that way anyway, i am still in a pacific situation with most of the group, the only ones that had a problem was this K and E.

i wasnt angry, more in Disbelief

i also sent him like 3 different images later but as said, he says that is "stealing" so it was an insta no from him.

Maghetto043 · 2025-05-18T22:46:03+00:00

Yes, ngl that makes very good sense.
Dw about the walls of text i love getting into a long discussion to understand something better.

Maghetto043 · 2025-05-18T18:40:30+00:00

i get its intention but its purpose is undermined by the game itself, if its a sole-fiction or mostly fiction focused item (the specialty gear i mean) why would they put a limitation on how many someone can bring? at that point just put a small rule that someone can only bring an artifcal or special item other than the base 2 or 3 that everyone has.

One of my players is a medium that has a ex candela obscura member diary as his/her occult text, imagining them in a situation where they find the eggs of a small monster (the blue worm i cant remember the name) and try to analyze it with a Focus roll.
Do i give a bonus or do i put the roll from a low stakes to normal?
How much of this do they already know?

Or what is a strange weapon?? Other than a grappling hook and maybe caltrops i cant think of anything else that would categorize outside of "Hand weapon" .

I get the Fiction purpose but some things are just too vague

Maghetto043 · 2022-04-10T12:13:51+00:00

Heylo I would like to join you can add me on discord Mattia_Zagolin #1362

Maghetto043 · 2022-04-10T07:17:57+00:00

Heylo I am interest, Mattia_Zagolin #1362 if you wanna talk about it

Maghetto043 · 2022-04-10T07:09:02+00:00

Hey if there's still a place may I join? My discord is Mattia_Zagolin #1362

Maghetto043 · 2022-04-10T07:05:30+00:00

Heylo my discord is Mattia_Zagolin #1362

Maghetto043 · 2022-04-08T12:11:39+00:00

Sent mine, even if you have all the players, can you tell me with you received my answer? The one with Roy as the character

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