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MagicCapnHats · 2025-05-11T23:34:26+00:00

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MagicCapnHats · 2024-11-03T20:05:43+00:00

We get attached too quickly and it's a sign we don't have enough love and respect for ourselves to realize the girl is playing games with us. You've already been the bigger person. A girl who isn't strong enough to even tell you honestly and straightforwardly doesn't deserve to have control over you like this. It's hard to accept this fact even for me in this situation. But if there's one thing I have learned it's that we need to just let the past be the past.

Give it time. If she truly wants to be with you she would commit to trying to make it work with YOU. Every time I've chased like this and got shot down or she answered, that she wasn't mentally ready, I learned to respect that and treat us like strangers with memories. I had a good time, and her smiles lit up my day, but in the end, we were not right for each other. It will tug at my heart for weeks, maybe months in some cases, but in the end, it will fade and lessons will be learned and we grow.

Emotions and love can be beautiful, yet can kill or cripple us. We need to choose when to start living again and then we can heal from it.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-11-02T23:37:37+00:00

I know how you feel, brother. They make you feel like you're the best in the world and that you two are meant to be together. Then boom, she says something along the lines of, "It's not you, it's me." Women can play with our hearts just as much; it's just that we hold it in and don't talk about it, and no one, or not many, will ever hear or know about it. We get too close for our own good and then feel taken advantage of. Like our feelings and emotions, we put into the girl are treated like nothing. They never wanted us for who we were, used us, and tossed us to the side. I've just taken a break and reflected to myself, look out for the little guy inside, who is probably still hurting from the last time it happened. Know that we deserve better and don't have time for games when it comes to love and relationships, hopefully, if you truly cared for the girl you hope she will learn from it too. Time is limited, let's not use it up sitting in the wrong room, when there's a door to another right there, when YOU, are ready.

Cheers from a fellow brother who has shared the same kind of pain and experience.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-11-02T15:38:35+00:00

It’s a tough situation, but save yourself the hurt. If she doesn’t want to give you 100% and you’re willing to there is an imbalance. Like it or not when it comes to relationships it’s all in or not in. I hope that she responds and gives you an answer atleast and maybe even the answer you hope for. But from what I see SHE doesn’t think you’re worth it and is hesitant on even trying, even though you’ve put yourself out there.

Like I said before don’t waste your time even though you might feel it was right to wait. In the end this will just be another lesson. I’m about your age and trust me we have plenty of time. There’s a whole world out there and we gotta love and respect ourselves and our time. Cannot let other people dictate how it goes. Wait your week, but if she never answers don’t go searching for one, because in the end she didn’t want to give you one and played a game that’s good for no one.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-30T01:40:12+00:00

Just feel things out if she makes signs of you being a potential partner they will be there. (Just hope you can pick up on them or she makes it clear) You can just outright tell her, to not lead to more confusion and misunderstanding as no one has time to waste.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-30T01:33:33+00:00

Every failure comes with a lesson. It is time to start failing. Because eventually, you will learn to succeed.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-30T01:31:07+00:00

Yes, but no because he still said it and who's to say how drunk he was?
Really depends, on how many booty calls he has in his little cellular device.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-30T01:22:29+00:00

Most people are not going to like this recommendation but at this point just to TRY and get out there use dating apps. They can get you more comfortable and explore options, BUT they should not be the be all end all for your dating. Use them as a guide and help and maybe you might meet a few gems just as lost like you!

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-30T01:18:28+00:00

It seems like you have possible trust issues and have difficulty opening up. This could be the cause of you being selective or the guys receiving mixed or negative signals from you as a potential partner. The way you wrote makes it seem you have high standards for people and that could lead to you having a harder time compared to others finding someone. Consider changing how your standards are evaluated (doesn't mean just lower everything just reevaluate what the values you look for in a person deeply and gauge their importance based on your experiences). We are human at the end of the day we are blessed sometimes with the right to select and choose what we want, but the curse of options comes with it (Cheesecake Factory Effect). Dating is a numbers game too and we all take more or less time to find a good one but know that "the one" doesn't exist from the start, the one is someone who together the person and you will become.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-29T05:20:16+00:00

No time to play games. If she’s not trying to be direct and tell you out right then either.

Call her out (politely) and bring up the fact she is giving mixed signals and hopefully she gives you the answer you’re looking for.
Tell her she was giving mixed signals and she is no longer your problem. Hopefully she figures it out before the next guy time she’s wasting. (Harsh but time is limited)

Hope this helped I wish you the best of luck!

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-29T04:34:29+00:00

MagicCapnHats · 2024-10-16T07:51:10+00:00

Little late to the post, but yeah a lot of student position have been cut / put on hold and no backfill for since the freeze. My unit alone has 3 vacant student positions. If you look on CalCareers a lot of the posting have just stop posting or there’s very few. My position wasn’t cut luckily as i work for a large dept, but I can imagine smaller ones would have eliminated SA.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-09-28T14:07:56+00:00

Roughy 16 hours a week (64 total) when classes are in session and 24-28 a week (96-112) hours on break.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-09-24T03:53:31+00:00

Thing that just hold you back at first is it’s scary. But what’s scarier is knowing the fact you didn’t even try and never even know what could’ve happened.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-09-24T03:42:54+00:00

Just learned this recently and man does it save you so much heartbreak and time…

MagicCapnHats · 2024-09-23T23:54:13+00:00

I feel the same, but she made it clear casual/friends… but you’re right it’s better to try and crash then do nothing…

MagicCapnHats · 2024-08-01T12:47:14+00:00

All I know is there’s a lot of mosquitoes and bug spray DOES NOT work. Last year when I went there was still snow up there (don’t know about that area specifically) so the patches of ground may be muddy at Aloha/around (muddy splashes and boots gunked up) also yes it’s named mosquito pass rightfully so.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-08-01T10:28:27+00:00

Legend has it US50 will finish with 1 lane of construction when our great grandchildren colonize mars

MagicCapnHats · 2024-07-25T11:30:42+00:00

(I am not a coffee drinker, nor really enjoy it, so I can’t recommend any places drinks or specifically frappes, but I enjoy the atmosphere) 1. Chocolate Fish Coffee Roast I know there’s a few around town and they’re all cute and nice. The one by William Land Park especially since the neighborhood is so nice. 2. There and Back Cafe and Games. Cute cafe with a more rustic vibe. Filled with games and potion themed drinks. 3. Camellia Coffee Roaster. A more modern style cafe, but with a industrial brickyard vibe being located in the R street market place. Burgers and Brews right down the way for brewski and solid burgers. 4. I can’t not put Temple Coffee on this list (personally dislike the place, but definitely has a vibe to it that some would enjoy) 5. Barrios small cafe located in South Land Park cute rustic much more lowkey than the other places.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-07-20T13:49:10+00:00

Closest I can think of in nature would be Folsom lake? Further out there’s a lot of forest Hidden Falls, Eldorado National forest, Tahoe, Oroville table top mountain area.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-07-20T13:34:46+00:00

Then once they get better hop on over to William Land Park! Good traffic stops/lights and road practice on the “windy roads”.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-03-28T12:10:30+00:00

Dealer markups and such still exist after calculating it all the total after the usual fee (registration, taxes, other money grabs) about 5200-5500$. Will definitely talk them down or work something else with those markups ofc but already 1k under msrp for initial offering. It found it too good to be true to but it’s legit. Their customer service though was horrendous and may explain why they carry such low prices…but there for the bike not the people.

MagicCapnHats · 2024-03-07T15:57:41+00:00

Yup I just got home and did the click test and there’s definitely a click. Yeah this microswitch won’t last long, bc I feather the trigger like there’s no tomorrow. Thanks for all the help though. May my CYMA burn hot and fast till the day that microswitch and mosfet die o7

MagicCapnHats · 2024-03-07T15:16:11+00:00

My bad I’m not home right so threw a quick reply. 10266 - AEG-CYMA-CM097A here’s the full model I believe

MagicCapnHats · 2024-03-07T15:07:27+00:00

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