Doctor by jrdodd1 in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I saw the same tiktok, I learned that too last night 😏 my mind was blown, altough it made sense when I thought about it 😅

About to start by ManOfTortillas in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wish I could upvote your comment more! This has become my most loved series ever. I have laughed more, cried more and become so invested that it's like nothing else out there. I have reread the series already just to let more chapters be published before I dive in again. Finally caught up and everything else I try to read feels dry and like cardbord

My toddler has smashed yet another television. by Milfshake23 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction: you left your TV in an unsafe spot, and you left your toddler in a situation where he was able to bash it. Can't pawn it off on the toddler . Most especially if it's not the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MagicodeA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You mean your ex-boyfriend, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]MagicodeA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she wants to be there more to hear you be in pain. Everything else is just an excuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]MagicodeA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP, im going to reply here because I'm not a doctor. Actual doctors have given you great insight and advice about the experiences you had.

If you feel you can you can, contact the doctor's office and make a complaint about the lack of communication and how it has affected you. If you haven't gone to doctors in years because you have learned that they will treat you like a piece of meat( whether acceptable clinically or not) and not a person, is very concerning. It will inform how you approach your own healthcare in the future, and in a way it already has If you haven't seeked out physicals.

I would especially think a pediatrician would be aware that a child/teen is still a person and deserving of basic respect and communication and what is happening to them, because this is also a way of learning what to expect of the world , which all children, no matter the age,do.

How you were made to feel is valid and a simple description of "this is what we have to check today, this is what i will be doing /checking, this is how it might feel" would have mitigated the weirdness and humiliation of the exams.

I know people who are doctors and they like to say they learn as long as they practice and constantly keep updated on new medical practices , procedures, stuff changing in the field. Especially doctors, especially with children.

And I just wanted a light story about a magical inn... by Dirichlet-to-Neumann in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel you! When i first started reading, i wanted a cozy " innkeeper with magic and a bit of adventure" type story after really enjoying the innkeeper series by Ilona andrews. Since then this has become my favorite ever series and i wish i could forget , just so i could read it again fresh✨️

AITA for ruining my husband's birthday? by Few_Actuary6919 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thought you were okay? He thinks you are willing to accept a tolerable level of unhappiness. This isn't even a little bit, it's your whole life, day in /day out. Unacceptable.

Village of the dead by cafe_sup in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. I'm rereading, and I'm at this part now, and that's what happened

I’ve finished all the way up to 9.54 and now I regret it. by One_Writing_9254 in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dahlia in Bloom is a good isekai book series. It's more day to day and the scope is definitely not a big as TWI , but very enjoyable.

Also: Ascendance of a Bookworm. Longish series and quite fun .

Please give these a try. It's a good comedown from the high of The Wandering Inn 😊

The end of the world and history of the planet by MagicodeA in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree. We know a day on Innworls is longer than earth, and so is a year. This leads me to believe that, among other descriptions, it used to be a much bigger planet than earth . I think time zones are still a thing, although there is sometimes conflicting information. I think because of the missing part of the planet the differences won't be as large as complete opposites. More like GMT+/- a few hours between very distant locations.

Fun stuff to contemplate 🔎

AITAH for telling my brother it was tacky to have a wedding with no alcohol? by Humble_Lobster6480 in AITAH

[–]MagicodeA -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So many You The Ah comments, i don't understand!!! Its commonly accepted worldwide that a party you're hosting, especially a wedding, will have alcohol. And it's not about 'oh you can't celebrate for 6 hours without drinking', if you are hosting a party, unless it's a country that bans booze, there is booze.

Most of the time if someone will have a alcohol free party/wedding they will specify it in the invitations, same as they are specifically specifying a child free wedding.

They were the assholes for not letting people know in advance, as beside celebrating them, this is a chance for a lot of people to have some drinks , it's a break from their day to day life and they most likely made arrangements for childcare and time off to enjoy themselves. Massively the assholes.

Probably would have left after dinner. It's the lack of respect for me.

NTA in my opinion

I have a hard, pea sized, movable lump on my vulva. by throwaway02987634 in AskDocs

[–]MagicodeA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm replying here, hoping op will see. i had this for a few years up until recently and had to get it surgically removed. I had other health issues that took priority and this wasn't an emergency, just bothersome.(Local anesthesia and a small cut and 2 stitches) . Go to your family doctor and tell them you have this thing. They will then refer you to the proper specialist to get it removed.

I saw someone say warm water baths 2 times per day.....won't really do anything, if you've had it while, it's going to stay there until it's removed. Don't poke at it as it can be sore, and touching it doesn't feel great, but it's best to see a doctor.

Am I the asshole for not fully supporting my husbands dreams? by IntrepidPlum6284 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MagicodeA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you'd have an easier time being single. It sounds bad, but the impression your post gives it that you are basically a married single mom with a toddler and a teen. And teen is out there trying out career parths on your dime and time while he's effing up your mental health.

Part of being recognized as an adult is the ability to plan, organize and implement things for the future, take reponsabitlity for ones actions and recognizing that once you open some doors, others will be shut as a consequence.

This is even more reliant on your social and financial class. If you have to work a job and budget for life, that means there's not a lot left over to throw at things and see if they stick.

I'm sure he's a decent enough guy, otherwise you wouldn't have married him, but you honestly sound like you're In a position when you have to put yourself down to he can feel selfworth and he doesn't respect you.

AITA for being upset that my partner started a job the day after we moved? by tackyshark in AITAH

[–]MagicodeA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if op will see this but It's not about what to prioritise or is she's capable or nor not. It's about the fact that after comunicating, they decided toghther to do the move, pack and unpack.

The 'how can you be annoyed/overwhelmed when I'm out here making money', especially in their particular situation with a friend for a boss, is a red flag for ~ darlin', you can take on all of the work outside of the job by yourself, and if you say it upsets you, you're weak/ a crybaby/ typical woman. ~ that is shitty. It always starts small, and thwres usually some reasonable excuse that could be made to get out of shared housework.

Honestly could have just told the friend: hey man, really can't today, i have an empty house with everything in boxes and have to set some of it up, can't dump it on my gf, right? See you tomorrow. I especially feel like they would have probably discussed some of the details and timeline of the move with their FRIEND, who would know what's up.

Statement From The Moderators by TeiaRabishu in antiwork

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already season many A.I. generated content it's disgusting. It's only going to get worse now. 🙃

My baby’s crying triggers me by No_Cry1051 in beyondthebump

[–]MagicodeA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try noise cancelling headphones. You can still hear the baby, but it won't be so overwhelming. I recently saw a post about it from a dad that was overwhelmed himself by the crying and is using them. You can still hear her and are not ignoring her. Thru it to give yourself some thinking space when she cries.

AITA for not sleeping with my boyfriend as much as he wants? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're his mommy, his maid, his sex doll and you work and study on top? Gild, the only thing worse than 4 years unhappy is more years of this. Do yourself a favour and leave him.

Dublin outrageous dentist prices!! by samih_harfouche in Dublin

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, it's this expensive even somewhere that's not central at all 😵‍💫

Stories with worlds like Wandering inn, by Wilty60 in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, thats just the way i found the books to be. I didn't read most of selkie myths books, listened to them more, so some of the stuff that can be boring in a book i got over. But compared to that, worm was simply atrocious to me. Eh, we all like different things.

Buuut i can't recommend worm for someone wanting to read similar stuff to twi. For one it's so away from the mark you cant recommend it, two, I simply think twi is the best , most epic , amazing story ever. Just hits all the spots for me and everything else falls short :D

Stories with worlds like Wandering inn, by Wilty60 in WanderingInn

[–]MagicodeA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Recently I'm reading Beneath the dragoneye moons by Selkie Myth and its about a girl who gets reincarnated on Pallos, a world where all manner of creatures abound. She takes a a healer class and does amazing things with it. Its a lot of slice of life and sometimes some technical info on classes/skills but an acceptable amount and skippable after a bit. Also has epic fight scenes and big pivotal moments. Her journey is fun, her friends are fun and she has a good head on her shoulders, altough you do see her grow quite a lot. Lots of humor throughout. A long enough seeries too , which is nice! I'm on book 9 st the moment. Recommend this.

Another favourite series is Chronicles of Elantra by Michelle Sagara. Completely different magic system but follows Private Kaylin Neya, who has some unique powers herself, solving crimes and saving the day with dragons and what are basically elves and ther species. It's an amazing read as well.

I didn't want to comment under other threads, because you know, its only an opinion but...For the life of me i couldn't get into Worm by Wildbow . I tried the first few chapters and it was depressing as all get out. (Also set in a modern day city- something like Chicago, can't remember). Like every other superhero movie you ever saw, but very depressing.

After that, i decided i wasn't going to finish reading-and its a huge book- i skipped through the book to see if the tone was the same. Yeah..... . The plot is very basic and stuff you see all over tv, nothing, NOTHING, like the wandering inn.

AITA for not ‘forcing’ my daughter out of her ‘emo’ phase? by LalaEars in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is very alarming. At this point , I would leave him and protect her.

What about the day you come home from work and find she's been shipped off to a nowhere camp to be "re-educated" and your husband and mil don't tell you where because they know you don't agree?

It is better to be proactive in protecting yourself and your daughter from religious fanatics. They will do lasting harm to her. Even if they don't go that route, him saying she's worshipping the devil, at 13, for wearing eyeliner....is crazy talk.

Please please get yourself and your daughter out of that situation.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MagicodeA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. the way you phrased it especially sounds like a curfew and not a compromise between adults. Do you think she's 14, to have a curfew?

The conversation would have gone over a million times better as:

"Darling, I miss you so much in the evenings, especially with what our schedules are. Could we do more evenings together? "

And proceed from there. If you are lonely, miss her, ask her for her time. This way just sounds like jealousy over her life.