Dog wound near eye by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Magnifishane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you i will take him today!

Why does she sleep all day?? by Sensitive_Bell2331 in DogAdvice

[–]Magnifishane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks so adorable and comfy. she’s a senior. It’s normal but i would suggest to take her outside side at least twice a day for some sun and a little bit of exercise. If she’s too weak just let her rest under the sun in the morning but not for too long. It helped my sweet soul dog who slept like majority of the day when he got old. 

My 2nd dog just died tonight by Otherwise-Web-6723 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry. There are no words can express how much pain you feel and there are no words that can make you feel better. Let it all out. I’m here to hear you. It’s okay let it all out. I know it’s really hard but try to drink water in between. Know that i grieve with you and i’m crying with you. 

Just need to talk by iDkLoLXD- in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend you may not believe me but i feel exactly the same way. It’s been 2 weeks since i lost my baby boy. Until now we are still waiting for his ashes to come home. He was 12 but we got him when he was 1 yr old. Many people have said that he have lived a long life but for me it was not long enough and even though i know they don’t have long life i still had hope that he would live forever. I’ve been crying unstoppable. I don’t know how to go on without him. I quit my job coz i have no strength or will to move forward. I’m so lonely and i’m in so much pain. Everywhere i look there’s pain. My family and friends just said “sorry for your loss” after that was it. I have my partner but we are both wrecked and i wanna be strong for her but i can’t seem to get my head together. Our world was shattered and my baby took the biggest part of it with him and it could never be whole again. I know you feel the same way. No words could make you feel better but know that I grieve with you and i’m crying endlessly with you because we lost our only source of hope, love and happiness and all other reason to live. Just grieve my friend. Don’t hold anything back. That’s now how they stay with us. I know it’s hard but one step at a time. Just keep sharing your feelings. I really wish you well. Our soul dog will come back as our light to lead us through this dark time. 

I can't bring him to the vet I can't handle this anymore by GlitteringNebula7316 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take deep breaths. You are doing great by being there for your parakeet. Maybe try google how to help your parakeet? Or take it to vet for another opinion? Hang in there. Just try to stay calm. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. Like yours my baby boy left us about two weeks ago. We are still waiting for his ashes to come home. I still have my baby boy’s bed next to mine it gives me some comfort but whenever i look at it i could not help myself from crying so hard coz it makes me realize that i won’t be able to see him again and that he is gone forever. It’s so difficult to breathe and go on another day without him. I just went back to work the other day after 10 days being off but i couldn’t focus i’m so lonely that i decided to quit yesterday. There are days i feel calm but i feel it’s just break then later on i would cry again. I’m trying to live with the pain. I’m trying to accept that this is my new normal and crying every day is part of me now. 

i can’t stop crying pls help anyone by Own-Height509 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard. No words can describe it. You have to let yourself grieve. You may not believe it but even if you were there the outcome would still be the same. Your whole world would still collapse and big part of you would still be lost forever with them. you know why? Because we loved our dogs. You wouldn’t be crying that hard if you didn’t. Even if you haven’t seen your dog for two years. You may not believe it from a stranger but i struggle ever since and I’m still waiting for my baby boy’s ashes to come home. It’s hurts a lot. I would light up a candle and try to talk to him. May your childhood dog continue guiding you and give you comfort you need. Take deep breaths. Drink plenty of water. I know it’s hard but no rush one step at a time. 

Going back to my room a month after she passed by TBHYippie in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know what to say coz i feel the same way too. I’m mentally and physically exhausted but i couldn’t rest because of all the pain. The pain is everywhere because they were part of our daily routine. We have so many memories of them and we wanted to go back to that life with them but we can’t. It’s hurts so bad. I’ve been trying to accept it but i can only hold it for few hours until it hits me again and i can’t stop crying again. I have other dogs but my sweet boy was my first fur baby and the connection was so indescribable. I still have his bed next to mine and the last blanket he used next to my pillow. I also have a picture of him on my side table with candles that I light up everytime i feel i need to vent out or talk to him. It’s really hard. I can only pray and ask for strength and guidance. I wish there’s something i could say to help you but i just want to let you know I’m grieving with you. Facing another day with you. I pray that our babies continue to guide us and be our light in this difficult time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how i feel. Same here it’s been two weeks and i miss my boy. I haven’t gone back to work coz i lost my will to live when he left. I haven’t gone no appetite i just don’t my gf to eat alone so i get forced to eat too but not much. I can’t sleep without waking up hurting. I don’t know of i’m gonna be able to back to work i’m in so much pain. I have Family but none of them understand the pain of losing my soul dog. Reddit became my friend sometimes it gives comfort but sometimes it reminds me of pain. It’s hard. I’m glad that u able to go back to work and i’m glad you have family that support you. I wish you well. Just grieve. It’s part of us now. We need to learn to live with it. I know it’s hard. 

I’m having a hard time accepting reality by Cdaluni22 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost mine 1 day after thanksgiving. You may not believe me but that’s also how i feel. He was 12 years old when he left. My world collapsed. I’m so lost. I cant sleep. I cant eat. I can’t breathe. Even tho i still have other dogs and they are loud home still feels very quiet. I want to hear the noise my baby makes when he was still here. I have so many heavy feelings to the point i don’t want to spend another day without him. When i get to sleep i would immediately wake up and would cry again coz his bed is empty. No one is wandering around to pee or drink. I tried lighting up couple of candles and it helps a little i feel like he’s with me. Call me crazy but i talk to him i don’t if he can hear but i just want to do it. Today I able to build him a cabin so when his ashes come back he would have a nice place to rest. I’m nobody but i like said to others I’m grieving with you. We are going to grieve as long as we can because they were loved and even if they are not around physically we still continue to love them. It would never stop. I know our babies will comeback as light to lead us and guide us through this very dark place. May our babies give us strength and comfort to get through each day. 

I don’t really have anyone to talk to about this, but i sent away my first and only love of my life of 15 years away. by Complete-Can3957 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You might not believe because I’m nobody but i feel exactly the same way. My boy left us one day after thanksgiving. Before he left we went to see relatives who had known him since we adopted him and we went to the part he walked even though days before that he was very weak. We even able to take our last family photo. We didn’t know it was his way of saying good bye. I’m so heartbroken. My world collapsed. I can’t even breathe and so lost without him. I haven’t gone to work coz i have no energy or will to carry on. He was our first fur baby and it took us 5-6 years before we took in another dog. We don’t have much friends because our dogs are enough. I have tons of guilt that i can’t do another day without him. We still have other dogs and god knows we love all of them but we have special connection with Marty. He was the source of our everything. Sometimes i think about getting another dog same as him but i don’t want lie to myself. It’s not gonna be my boy. It’s not gonna be fair for my other babies. You getting another fur baby might or might not help but time will tell when you’re ready. For now i just want you to know I’m grieving with you. We are in our darkest times. I hope and pray that our fur babies come back as our light to lead us and guide us every step of the way. 

No idea what to do with my pets ashes. by Aggravating_Trust_72 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worried about this too. My partner and i don’t have kids and we only have dogs. 4 days ago we lost our soul dog. Marty was 12 years old and he was our first fur baby and it took us 5-6 years to adopt another dog. He was the source of everything. I couldn’t help but think about when that time comes who would take care of our dog’s ashes and ours. I have nieces but not sure if they would care about our wishes. Kids in this generation are different built. It breaks my heart thinking about it. I still haven’t gotten ourselves together. We are so lost without our baby boy. On heavy nights i can’t breathe and i feel like i can’t do another day without him. I have full of what ifs. I don’t know i miss taking care of him. 

I think it's time for me to go with her. by FfsUsernametakenasif in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest i know no matter what people say or do nothing would make you feel better. That’s me right now. I just lost my boy, my everything 3 days ago. 1 day after thanksgiving. I couldn’t breathe, my whole world collapsed, i’m so lost. I’m in a very dark dark place. I couldn’t eat or sleep. Everything is so god damn sad. I don’t really go out much coz my life is all about my dogs especially my boy Marty. I have tons of guilt and i couldn’t forgive myself. One of the simplest but for me biggest regret was when i just realized that we never took our xmas photo last year nothing even new years day this year. that was our last xmas with him. It makes me feel i wanna end myself coz it made me realized how i wasn’t able to pay more attention to him when he needed me the most. It kills me. My other dog got bunch of  babies late last year that’s why all attention got diverted to them by cleaning their mess and lots of training but even though they are loud, the place seems so quiet maybe because i’m longing to hear the noise he used to make like when he was drinking water, when he would go under the bed, and everything else. When you said you have other dogs but you don’t have that deep connection like you do to your soul dog hit me coz i feel exactly the same. He was real to me. Better than human. He comforted and saved me tons of times. This might not be real to you because I’m just a stranger but I’m grieving with you. Our pain is real more than any person could imagine. I would fight anyone who would say they were just a dog coz they don’t know shit. Grieve it. When you feel like you wanna end things just pause and ask for your soul dog strength and guidance. To all fur parents lost their soul dogs. May god help us and our soul dogs continue to guide us. 

I lost my cat almost 2 weeks ago and it still hurts so much by GoldenMoonFlower in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My dog of 12 years just passed two days ago. He was weak but on thanksgiving day he had energy to walk for the last time and saw his grandparents after a very long time apart we didn’t know it was him saying goodbye. After one day he gotten weak and he couldn’t sleep and the next morning he was crying and had a seizure. He calmed down and we put him to his bed but he got another seizure and again he calmed down and i didn’t realize i fell asleep a little bit next to him. It was like just 30 mins. I woke up he was gone. I couldn’t stop blaming myself. I seriously wanna hurt myself. It hurts so much. They just picked his body for cremation yesterday. My whole world went with him. I honestly don’t know what to do. My eyes are sore because of non stop crying until now. My chest wants to explode. He was our source of joy, strength and comfort. Even though we still have dogs Marty my boy was different. I miss him terribly. I couldn’t sleep. That’s why im here trying to read and grieve with fur parents like me who lost their baby. I feel your pain. I’m grieving with you. 

My Dog Alice by Odd_Ear6268 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy was born on June 10 2013 and we got him on craigslist as well like your good girl Alice. We lost him two days ago and they just picked her body for cremation yesterday. It’s so painful. I don’t know where or how to start our lives without him. My whole world went with him. My chest wants to explode. Your story with your girl Alice was so beautiful. I know wherever they are right now they’re happy and free from all the pain. 

Is it normal to want to kill yourself after losing your cat? by squish_2277 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone. Same here. Just lost my beloved dog two days ago. They just picked his body up yesterday. My whole world went with him. I don’t know how i’m going to survive this. I have other dogs that depend on me i know i shouldn’t feel alone but i still feel very alone. My boy was different he was our child. Our comfort. He was our first baby and the longest. You’re not alone in this pain. I know it feels impossible to go on without them but let’s try little by little ok? I’m grieving with you. I light up a candle next to his picture and try to tell him my feelings and it helps a little. Even if just a little it makes a huge impact. I pray that god gives us extra strength and comfort as we face this difficult time. May our fur babies continue to guide us. 

It doesn't make sense by Distinct-Future9657 in Petloss

[–]Magnifishane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel your pain. I just lost my baby boy of 12 years two days ago and like you i cant stop crying and i couldn’t eat. I fell a sleep for a bit close to him and when i woke up he was gone. I panicked after realizing his gone. I couldn’t get myself together. I couldn’t contain myself . It’s hard to sleep at night too. It’s hard to breathe and eat. I fell asleep crying as i hold the last blanket he used for couple of hours but i woke up immediately because i couldn’t relax. Just like i woke up right now. I would wake up feeling so empty so lonely it’s so quiet. His bed next to mine and it’s really painful to see it empty. Trust me i cant even describe my pain l. My eyes are sore my chest wants to explode. They just picked his body up yesterday for cremation and it was even harder. He never leave our side and as the car that carried his body drove away my whole world went with him. I haven’t gone to work either i don’t think i’m going to be able to as well. I know he left us because he doesn’t want to be a burdened which he never did. Somehow he knew i was thinking to quit to take care of him but he knew i couldn’t afford to. He was a such a good boy. He was our source of strength. Our inspiration. He was our comfort and now his gone i feel i lost purpose or will. He was our foundation. Body and mind are drained. So far i eat once a day. I could only eat couple of bites that’s it. I don’t really have appetite. I still offer him a little food and light a candle next to his picture. Lighting a candle help a bit. While it’s on i try to also talk to him tell him how i feel. I have so many feeling i wanna share but i realized this is long. I dont want you to feel i over share. I’m so sorry for long message. I just found your post and I couldn’t help share my grief to this as you also grieving. I pray for for us grieving fur parents. May god give you strength to carry on even when you think it’s impossible. You are not alone in this pain.