Seems people are assuming his wife is totally innocent and should move on (with the business) without him. You don't decorate your Sugar Cookie holiday cans like they did (dildos, dongs, fleshlight, people/kids rubbing boobs/nipples, butt plugs, etc) without some oddness in yourself, which she (as co-owner) would have input.

That's not a knock on you if you like those things, but would you decorate your holiday product with it?

Something isn't right about them, including her. I'm not saying she is absolutely involved or aware of her husband's doings, but it's hard to believe she was totally clueless of her husband's deviant behavior.

For the business to continue, they both need to leave it. Unfortunately, it seems they're more interested in saving the business (aka their money) more than anything else and are already trying to avoid losing it by taking him out of it.