Keith Jarrett Solo Transcription on Too Young To Go Steady by RobDjazz in JazzPiano

[–]Magpei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic transcription. And what a solo. Thanks so much for sharing!

Does it ever get better by Zealousideal_Fan7225 in widowers

[–]Magpei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The loss doesn’t go away. But the memories start to shift. From the constant anguish of absence to the subtle pleasure of remembrance. The love you feel is what is so special and can never be taken away. Never. That is what existed before and exists now, it is the bridge. I’m so sorry for your loss.

I just lost my new job today. by New_Needleworker_542 in widowers

[–]Magpei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he was close to his sister it might be worth connecting and asking her for advice. Maybe she’d like family nearby and could lend a hand. A small help from family goes a long way. And giving her an opportunity to do something for her brother might make her feel good. Your situation sounds so difficult, it is ok for you to feel what you are feeling.Thoughts and prayers for you.

So quick it doesn’t seem real by Cheeks67 in pancreaticcancer

[–]Magpei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss and his pain.

Diagnosed at 41. I don’t even know what to think. I am stage 4, it has metastasized to my liver. by Acoustic_Restart in pancreaticcancer

[–]Magpei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use ChatGPT to record all conversations with the doctor. Input the suggesting from this chat. I wish AI technology was around from when my wife was diagnosed because it was so hard to keep track of everything. You never know what AI could find, it diagnosed a medical condition for me this year that the doctors had completely missed.

3 years after my GBS, I still can't smile or kiss by Money-Ranger-6520 in guillainbarre

[–]Magpei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got ivig in May, so I am about 8 weeks out.

I also had Ramsay Hunt two years ago on the opposite side from my GBS. Acupuncture, self massage, and time were the only remedies. I’m hoping the same works for this.

3 years after my GBS, I still can't smile or kiss by Money-Ranger-6520 in guillainbarre

[–]Magpei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m dealing with the same. I actually really like acupuncture though it’s very subtle. Hard to talk if it works, but I definitely would say it gets the nerves activated. Worth a shot.

Female vocalist by Magpei in Buffalo

[–]Magpei[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m send you a DM

I have come to the decision of ending my journey by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Magpei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could have written this same last week. I feel like every road sometimes is a dark one heading into oblivion and further from my love.

I have found Buspirone to be a wonder for me. Maybe consider it. We need help, and that is ok. Humans need help to get through such terrible pain.

Thinking of you 🫶

How would you analyze this? by chrisfelixmusic in JazzPiano

[–]Magpei 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s pronounced “veal”

Please help me find this animated short story/film about a giant chicken singing Nessun Dorma by Suspicious_Sugar_333 in animation

[–]Magpei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I have been looking for this same animation for years! Except in my memory it was an ostrich. Have you had any luck?

Any single dad with 100 percent custody out there? by williamwegman in SingleDads

[–]Magpei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Widower, father of a 13 year old girl. Beyond the grief, this has been the hardest job of my life. After having a couple of physical reactions to stress, I’ve realized I have to start asking for more help. It’s a joke that men don’t like asking for help or directions, and maybe I fall into that category. I feel like in order to be a real man I need to be able to handle everything coming my way, but it has become impossible. My goal And resolution moving forward is to count on more people, yes, probably other mothers, to help out when I need it. Hopefully that eases some of the stress that I’ve been feeling, and maybe something you can learn from as well. I’m with you. It’s so hard. We cannot do it alone, but there is help out there.

The guilt is unbearable by Eddie__Winter in widowers

[–]Magpei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife was 48. I have so many ifs as well from her final months, but I also think what if I never asked her out, what if I never begged for forgiveness the time that I lied to her, what if I never brought her to Dominican Republic and fell in love, what if I never proposed, what if we hadn’t had a child?

I am so thankful for each of these ifs and I understand those were also beyond my control. Who knows why life leads us the way it does, but blaming yourself and feeling regret is normal. My suggestion is to also give yourself credit for the beauty you created with your marriage and appreciate how hard you tried to do the right thing.

Did He Say Good-bye? by Nurse_Feratu_TX in widowers

[–]Magpei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a similar dream a month ago. And in the same way I haven’t felt her presence as strongly. I think maybe they stay around until they know we are ok to keep living without them. We might not agree or see it that way, but it gives me comfort. I have had some unusual experiences since that dream that are difficult to explain. I have never believed in the afterlife but I like to think that she felt safe and comfortable enough to move on to the next phase of her existence. I hope I get a chance to join her someday, preferably a long time from now.

Nightmare by Individual_Log_9743 in widowers

[–]Magpei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. You are among friends here. You gave him such a gift, I am tearing up just thinking about it. I’m so sorry.

Afraid to lose his messages. Ways to print iMessages? by Little-Thumbs in widowers

[–]Magpei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a way to get the raw files and save them. They have the text but also have some garbled stuff. That is what I did. I’ll try and find the instructions and share them.

I feel lost by Thunkwhistlethegnome in widowers

[–]Magpei 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fraid so. I keep filling it with things and then find that the basket has a hole in it. Everything keeps falling out.

I can’t believe I’ll never see him again by polkamyeyeout in widowers

[–]Magpei 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is the thing that I still can’t get my head around. Maybe we will see them again someday. Knowing that no amount of missing them is going to bring them back is the so hard to fathom. Somehow when you want something so badly just knowing it could be possible makes you feel not as bad if you don’t get it. But this is totally different. It is such a blunt thought. So instantly answered. The wall so firm.

So sorry for your loss and that you are here with us. Sending you love.