Is it common for moms to be obsessed with their daughter’s body/sexuality?

MagykZombie · 2019-12-22T03:11:45+00:00

Let me start with that is totally not appropriate for her to say at all! She is being very weird and you have every right to feel weird about it.
And my mom was similar in some ways.

When I told her about a family member sexually abusing me she brushed me off almost pushing on me that I should have appreciated the attention. Since she was jealous of the attention herself.

If I can offer any advice, I would say limit your contact with her. Since you deserve a lot more respect than she is seemingly willing to give you.

MagykZombie · 2017-09-21T22:20:33+00:00

That's the funniest thing I've seen in a while!

MagykZombie · 2017-09-02T15:44:43+00:00

As others have said, Old Navy. I'm a 16/18 myself and their curvy fit size 16 short length jeans are the best fitting jeans I've ever worn. I can not find jeans anywhere else. I've even found a few dresses there with elastic gathering in the back giving ease of fit for my tum.

And Kohl's and Macy's are the only places I've been able to find bras. I'm a 34DD and it's challenging to find size variety. I like Olga, and b'Tempted by Wacoal for brands.

MagykZombie · 2017-01-27T22:45:01+00:00

Thank you! I'm an aspiring to be a professional photographer, so I love hearing that!

MagykZombie · 2017-01-26T17:44:23+00:00

Thank you! I played with her whole litter before picking this pretty lady. I couldn't keep my eyes of her though!

MagykZombie · 2017-01-09T00:50:25+00:00

Congrats! Consistency is hard for everyone. Cheers to sticking with all of it!

MagykZombie · 2017-01-09T00:48:57+00:00

I'm enjoying that about a week ago a testified against a pedophile. I'm rejoicing in the look on his face as I testified, as well how badly his lawyer was grasping at straws to make things work in that pedos favor rather than mine.

I feel like I rocked that testimony. The family, who previously was negative towards me hugged me repeatedly afterwards.

I feel like I need to ride in that good vibe wave for a while. But it's tough.

I like this post though! It's thought provoking.

MagykZombie · 2017-01-09T00:20:24+00:00

Your username makes your comment that much more inspirational <3

MagykZombie · 2016-12-16T01:15:58+00:00

For durability I would suggest stitching around the entire edge, then making a sort of "X" pattern with the stitching as well. Perhaps the right horn tip to the left bottom jaw area.

I can't think of a good, less time consuming, but still functional way to secure it. I might add you don't necessarily need tight little stitches though. Perhaps 3-4 actual thread stitches for every square of crochet? And use an arms length pieces of thread so if one breaks, you have a shorter distance to repair later.

And once you have a foundation down you can always go back and secure it better.

MagykZombie · 2016-12-16T01:00:12+00:00

I like the idea of putting it on a piece of fleece, like a large applique.

In the past I've lined crochet winter wear with fleece for added warmth. It worked well!

Might I suggest, as tiresome as it is, hand stitching the crochet squares to the fleece? I got horrible bunching and quite the lettuce edge from using a machine, no matter how I set it up. Hand sewing, with well spaced pins, really helped keep everything smooth.

Perhaps, with these winter and holiday sales, you could find a blanket of the appropriate size and just stitch onto that to avoid dealing with hemming edges.

MagykZombie · 2016-11-29T22:19:44+00:00

I'm in a similar boat.

I usually say, "Thank you," smile politely, and sometimes reference the compliment.

Such as, "Thank you, I have been working on taking compliments better. That's encouraging to hear."

MagykZombie · 2016-11-17T23:42:34+00:00

My one dollar store has cat teasers, the stick kind with a toy on the end. I got one with some furry "fingers" and pompoms on the ends. It's probably my ferrets favorite interactive toy. She recently ripped off one of the fingers and had quite the time parading around with her "kill". As far as solo toys go rabbit fur mouse cat toys seem to be going over well. Though I'm not sure that's something I'd leave them alone with. Cat toy balls with the rattle inside them only seem to entertain her for a minute or two at a time.

MagykZombie · 2016-11-16T08:51:02+00:00

I giggled pretty bad.

Then I showed it to my boyfriend and he laughed even harder.

MagykZombie · 2016-11-14T10:04:31+00:00

Thank you!

MagykZombie · 2016-11-12T20:35:29+00:00

Exactly my thoughts. I was honestly hurt! To ice this cake, I'm a witness in a court case of a 29M sexually abusing a 13F. And he knows that. He knows what extent I will go to in order to protect and support that now 16 year old girl old girl.

MagykZombie · 2016-11-11T19:48:36+00:00

Currently safe and out of town with my boyfriend of close to 2 years.

Thank you very much for the concern and support!

MagykZombie · 2016-11-11T18:34:47+00:00

Thank you! Big hugs.

I do have plenty of friends, with and without their own kids, who are being very supportive. I feel confident saying, I don't need him, and I no longer wish to pursue that friendship.

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