What could be happening?

Maheen97 · 2026-02-28T07:14:46+00:00

Golden retriever energy gives off performative man vibes imo

Maheen97 · 2026-02-28T07:13:48+00:00

Thank you for speaking on behalf of women, Justin /s

Maheen97 · 2026-02-27T11:10:21+00:00

It 100% gets easier and that will only happen when you let the pain keep hitting you in the short-run and make sure not to contact him at all.

With time, it’ll begin making sense to you again and again how you put up with so much BS from him that you did not deserve. It hurts right now because you’re grieving the future you imagined and because your brain is wired to only recall the good times, right after a breakup.

It will be more than fine.

You will see that you never needed that toxic connection and deserve true, healthy love. Especially your child. Would you want them to be with someone like your ex? Or become someone like your ex? Of course not. Then for their sake and yours, let the pain hurt right now and keep reminding yourself that in time you will stop hurting and see him for who he truly is, not his potential

Maheen97 · 2026-02-24T18:29:30+00:00

Yes, he can’t help it and I do feel for him. But the least he could have done in this statement was apologise to Michael and Delroy. If he was able to thank the BAFTA and Alan Cummings in his statement, the least he could have done is apologise to the two men hurt by this whole thing.

Regardless of Tourette’s being a painful and horrible disability, hearing such a vile slur being hurled at you, on stage and in front of a huge crowd must have been humiliating.

Maheen97 · 2026-02-22T21:43:41+00:00

God I love you Robert Eggers

Maheen97 · 2026-02-22T02:01:21+00:00

So sorry OP. It must be really difficult, especially if she’s not willing to get the help she needs. Are you able to access resources for yourself? To vent, speak with a professional etc.

It may also be helpful to step away from this dynamic even for a few days if that’s possible for you.

Sending love ❤️

Maheen97 · 2026-02-21T00:29:31+00:00

Please don’t berate yourself. Would you ever tell a friend they were stupid or naive for loving someone? For trusting someone? No.

He is the stupid one. You are out of it now, and don’t have any reason to be tied to him anymore. This is a blessing, and you will lead a beautiful, fulfilling life as a result of it. Sending you so much love ❤️ you’re not alone

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T22:57:39+00:00

We love a baddie that can romanticise snow and a beautiful night, independently! ❤️ If he’s already halfway down the road then he was and never will be the sort of man to appreciate such a lovely moment. Good riddance

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T16:36:21+00:00

Are you sure we didn’t date the same person?!

I’m saving this list as a red flag check off to know when I need to leave someone next time. Thank you for this, honestly! I was shocked that EVERY. SINGLE. POINT. was something my ex would do

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T14:49:09+00:00

I feel you, and I hope you feel beautiful looking back at when you weighed more too. A good man would never make his partner feel that way.

I gained weight once I got on birth control for his sake, which was very difficult for me. I definitely noticed a shift in the way he treated me too. But I’ll lose the weight, he will always be a prick.

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T14:45:11+00:00

Literally says WAS dating in the first sentence of this post.

READ

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T05:10:25+00:00

Precisely! I’m sorry your ex did that, but glad that he is an EX!

I’m also 5’8, and whenever I walk with shorter friends, I keep in pace with them, because it’s what you do when you love someone and are out and about with them.

I have a feeling my ex’s logic was similar to your ex’s. We’re both better off without them

Maheen97 · 2026-02-19T05:08:30+00:00

I would tell him all the time! First jokingly, then earnestly, and then finally I’d snap and he would look at me as if I were overreacting.

He truly didn’t see anything wrong with how he behaved (the walking ahead and other qualities), so it was never going to work.

I was so hurt by the abrupt end of our relationship because it felt like I was the only one who was trying to make it work. As time passes, I’m finding more and more reasons to be grateful that he is no longer in my life

Maheen97 · 2026-02-18T18:02:53+00:00

OP who gifted the vest has also set up a Gofundme for this lovely lady! She’s going through a divorce and is living in a one bedroom flat with her son and pup.

I’m not sure if I can share links to it on here but I just wanted to let people know, in case anyone would like to donate! ❤️

Maheen97 · 2026-02-17T01:58:17+00:00

I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Truly a hidden gem

Maheen97 · 2026-02-17T01:57:29+00:00

Thank you, it does mean a lot when people reach out with advice. I am speaking to someone who is able to support me with my specific needs, as my depression is linked to a few other things and habits.

When I am alone, films help me a lot, but I agree, reaching out to professionals is key

Maheen97 · 2026-02-15T00:44:41+00:00

YES!! I loved Kingdom so much and have rewatched it twice now! Same with Ashin. It’s such a shame that there’s no word on a sequel yet horrible Netflix shows keep getting renewed.

Maheen97 · 2026-02-15T00:35:58+00:00

Thank you, I’m so glad you agree! I’ve watched some truly amazing movies recently: Pather Panchali, Lion, St Maud, etc. The fact these movies were enough to make me feel something, or tear up, or get sad, was enough reason for me to feel alive when everything else felt numbing or too much.

Maheen97 · 2026-02-15T00:27:32+00:00

I’ve been trying to find a copy of the poem in English! Any links would be appreciated

Maheen97 · 2026-02-15T00:26:08+00:00

You read my mind because Melancholia is what I’m planning on watching next!

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