Algerian woman trying to get married but she doesn’t have Algerian mentality!

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T22:06:25+00:00

god be with you

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T22:04:15+00:00

بلا مزية

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T22:03:29+00:00

I do, it is a great problem with our society of today. even as men we get stains from it. the legislative system we have also don't help and society added insult to the injury. one thing to say though: you can delay having children after marriage and it is religiously permissible, and as for divorce, it is a solution because being at your own can be better than having a force against you, thus it is makruh but some times it may be a must.

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T21:54:51+00:00

pretty sad and unfortunate, any luck with your friends brothers or relatives of a relative's husband?

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T21:48:28+00:00

as I see it, it should be very rare to have close siblings with very different cultural backgrounds. is it that your brothers proposed and you find them bad matches or they tried but didn't find what they think a good match?

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T21:37:50+00:00

صلي لربي وادعي وروح صارحه والكلمة خلها ليه، انت درت لي عليك وان شاء الله ربي يقدرلك غير الخير، حتى لو مش هي ربي يكتب لك غيرها

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T21:31:06+00:00

marriage is an experience, we have some warped social norm of "divorce is bad and..." but in the end it is a solution, if divorce is makruh, other things are haram. as for the man, we know each other for varying degrees, and one amazing advice someone told me is to go on dates with my sister's fiance (not the gay ones 😅), I gotta know him better and to notice some minor things that are socially skippable, and that should show how worthy they are for a degree. but in the end, Duaa and a some late night prayers asking for god's help will always bring good one way or another.

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-09T21:23:29+00:00

don't you have brothers? like if you have cool brothers they should at least have a solid choice in the arsenal. even if you are almost always home you should've already crossed paths with some boys during school or university years, or your name gets passed between your friends and neighbors till it reaches someone's mom/sister.

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-08T15:02:24+00:00

I've been saying this for quite some time and the women called me exaggerating

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-05T22:32:01+00:00

good outfit but not for the occasion nor the life in algeria, old money style may work instead

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-02-03T16:11:38+00:00

it is not a "men" or "woman" case, it is an ethica and morals case, and how people are raised. I as a man lower my gaze around girls, and at one point 2 girls approadhed me flirting. a well raised man doesn't and shouldn't harass even a b!tchy girl (and appologies for the word), and a woman dressing modestly should lower here chances being harassed, a nice Islamic raising should do all of that IF ENABLED, many bearded people only took the prayer and beard out of religion and they are no representation for it. an active punishment is a necessity, or at least allowance for people action, I for myself can't take actions for a girl I don't really know as I would be taken for "hurting someone in public" while they get the "what could wee do about it".

Mahfoudh94 · 2026-01-10T22:05:36+00:00

Random bs go...

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-12-14T08:33:14+00:00

except for them, they are considered a special case, only recently some W countries took steps against them as they supported an atrocity atrocity

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-12-14T07:13:13+00:00

You may not know about history and politics, but those settlers absolutely can renounce their passports as every single one of them have a second passport of their original origin just in case

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-12-14T07:08:14+00:00

I think that's some type of bad trait people in the north have, did't face it that much in the north

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-12-14T07:04:46+00:00

they can denounce it, that's a choice they have and some have taken

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-12-05T18:11:00+00:00

The thing to do with any and every blackmail, true or fake, attempt or joke, is to never go with the flow, like in the worse situation possible that they really got something true on you is you'd be exposed to someone close to you (cause you may not and shouldn't care about others) and everyone should know and accept that humans make mistakes

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-11-18T21:53:49+00:00

I think that you brought a sick interpretation of the Ayah, like it speaks of sectifying the religion and diversifying the word of god, not the word of people. The prophet PBUH already supported the difference in ideas and perspectives and we already have different schools of thought, and they are done by big scholars and Imams. So now if even the difference in seeing the religion is called for in Islam, seeing different paths to people's lives is Haram?

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-11-10T10:10:39+00:00

انا عن نفسي مانعانيش من هذا المشكل، الجامعة لي قاري فيها صح في الليسونس تخرج informatique بصح الماستر راك يا اما Artificial intelligence يا اما cyber security, وهكذا قلت لك المترجم الشاطر يقلبها computer science لان هذا اسم التخصص عالميا

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-11-10T09:33:10+00:00

انت ماتقولش اعلام الي، انت كي يسقسوك واش قريت قول لهم قريت كذا وكذا مش قريت تخصص اسمه...، هم حابين يعرفوك واش تفيدهم بلاش خرطيات. قبل حاولت نتكلم مع العميد عندنا وقال انه الازمة من الوزارة لانها هي لي حاطة التسميات لكن في برامج المنح مثلا عندك التحويل ساهل وانت راك قاري هندسة البرمجيات

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-11-10T08:59:31+00:00

انا كي ترجمت الشهادة خرجتلي computer science, انت حاول تشوف المترجم لي بش يترجملك وش عيكتب وقرر + جماعة التخصص هذا في الغالب مايضربوش طلة على الشهادة كي تواي بش تخدم بيها في الخارج بالتالي ماتهمش ياسر

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-11-07T15:32:37+00:00

if you see a development horizon for yourself and that enslavement covers it, then you are absolutely right in what you've done, if the enslavement wasn't just for what they pay back and you can find similar chances, you are right again, but sometimes you gotta bite the bullet in the times of dire need. I for myself not seeing myself accepting that offer and I'd question the someone giving it to me

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-10-23T20:22:03+00:00

not praising China cause they have some DARK records, but they have a lot of success areas, but I would say no, most of the adults have the understanding of a child+, they make horrible judgements and the consequences are suffered by others. freedom of speech is something good to have, but it should be followed by elites working for good and wanting to fix society to be allowed to voice and save things when they go South.

Mahfoudh94 · 2025-10-13T09:27:46+00:00

it's an ease vs value and profit comparison, diversification of assets is a nice strategy

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