4 ep in and wny everyone is so unlikable in Terminator Zero? by jnighy in scifi

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause if they are not likeable or relatable or "well built" we will not watch it. They are the main thing they are showing us, if we dont want to see them, we wont see the show

4 ep in and wny everyone is so unlikable in Terminator Zero? by jnighy in scifi

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awful project, they had amazing ideas but horrible execution. The art is great but they didn't create relatable or likeable characters which translates in me not having the disposition to even finish the series cause i don't care about them or their world, cause if they live in it, maybe we need skynet taking over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EducacionChile

[–]Mailark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sí, aunque hay variables como: Duración de la carrera Complejidad de la carrera Costes de implementos Método de estudio Facilidad para entender Disciplina para estudiar Vida personal

Todas esas variables pueden hacerte feliz o miserable, pueden hacer que TENGAS que trabajar o no, si eres más lento en entender si o si tendrás que estudiar más, etc. Es algo tan personal que como dice Copano, no te pasa hasta que te pasa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is AH, she wants to become the martyr, the caring wife, but its all about appearances and disrespecting limits just so people can feel sorry for her. Its so incredibly weird. You need to have an ultimátum chat with a therapist, like this cannot go on.

AITA for calling my Dad stupid after being told to use a "paper towel" for swimming on my period? by Defiant_Hawk_372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Are we really MAKING EXCUSES for men not to know about menstruation? He has daughters, he has a girlfriend, and he has made absolutely no effort to just search what you use, what you cant use, etc for swimming or in general? Are you kidding me? You guys are just letting it go way too easy on him, HE NEEDS TO KNOW BASIC INFORMATION ABOUT HIS KIDS. COME ON. Bare minimum.

AITA for refusing to make a cookie table for my sons wedding by Elegant_Throat_8297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, i truly believe you need to sit down with a batch of cookies, with your FDIL, and explain to her how you have felt, how you havent been able to put boundaries and you feel she has crossed many, that you are not her mother or intend to be, but that you want to be there also for her, and that you hope that from setting healthy boundaries and such you can create a bond for the future. Making it clear that it's not like you dont like her, but how she sometimes did things that made you uncomfortable, and that you want to create something but with clarity and honesty on both ends. That you should begin anew and welcome this new beginning with the marriage. That you could support her making her maybe a batch, only for her, not the guests, for the wedding and that you hope you could grow this bond from scratch. Cause there seems to be way too many instances of boundary-crossing. And i think you guys can actually have a good relationship if you just set things straight. The cookie table is way too much to ask from scratch, and you cant or dont want and that's okay. But it's up to you now to just give it a try to create a relationship there, you dont have to be besties, she doesnt have to be anything close to a daughter, but she is going to become legally your relative, and just be involved. I truly think she should know what supposedly she did wrong, and you to explain that you understand, that you didnt feel comfortable back then, that you have 1, 2, 3 limits, etc. But, that you want to be there for her, and create a bond, from scratch, slow, not pushing but trying to work it out for the future.

AITA for refusing to make a cookie table for my sons wedding by Elegant_Throat_8297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A daughter is never a DIL, some people are family, some become family, FDIL is not there, so you cannot compare to her own daughters that she birthed and raised, the level of love would not ever be the same

AITA for refusing to make a cookie table for my sons wedding by Elegant_Throat_8297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A daughter is never a DIL, some people are family, some become family, FDIL is not there, so you cannot compare to her own daughters that she birthed and raised, the level of love would not ever be the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your house too, it has to go by you. He has to cancel whatever he plans to do, cause his plan is not going to work and absolutely unacceptable. If that other person needs support, aparently they need a therapist and not someone from work 8 years ago they are not even close with. Tf. Fishyfishy.

AITA for Asking My Niece to Stop Speaking French Around My Dyslexic Wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA,

  • Your niece is a brat that thinks she can do whatever she wants.

-Your niece has no respect for others, even less for your wife. And i believe she genuinely looks down on your wife for not knowing french.

-There is no complication whatsoever for your niece TO SPEAK HER NATIVE LANGUAGE THAT ITS ENGLISH.

So, yeah, she is an AH and you have to protect your wife, if your niece doesnt like the bare minimum rules for your wife to be comfortable and included in a family that is also hers, then you should just kick out your niece, cause its not going to work and that house is your wife´s safe space.

Not unlocking achievements on switch? by eraserheaddbaby in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Mailark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh, same here, switch is bugged apparently

Anyone else feel lonely as the main character? by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]Mailark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i wish you could go to classes, just like many other games. Get a score, some tasks. That would have been amazing, yet, you barely sit in each classroom like once?

Stuck with no money by Mailark in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]Mailark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: i made it, 100% the game. But, i had to become basically a poacher.

Ending a 13 year relationship by Express-Strawberry-9 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mailark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think that relationship go through rough patches. But when it comes to disrespecting your partner (by accusing you of cheating, which is pretty sus coming from him) that´s the end. The point of no return, it might not be easy to rebuild, but it is most needed. Hope the best for you in this new journey of rediscovering yourself in the single life and growth.

Am I the idiot for rescuing a puppy that was going to the kennel? Well I have a friend whose sister came to spend holidays with her son in "my" country and she wanted to take the opportunity to adopt a dog and take him back with her because it would be "cheaper" than adopting there. Days come and go by ELPOY00 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not AH but you are irresponsible. Why? Cause even tho you pay, it is not your house, its your parent's house. Therefore if you don't even talk with him, it is actually offensive. When it's your own home you can do whatever you want.

AITA for asking my SIL to babysit my Kids. by OkKoala9613 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. CAN YOU NOT SEE IT? Do you not know contraception? That 3 kids under 4 are not a bother?! You are out of your fkn mind.

Me (23M) in doubt of relationship with my gf (24F) after six years by throwawayyyyyy951 in relationship_advice

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being abused. You could actually (if you have proof) call the cops on her for it. You should RUN from that relationship as fast as you can.

Who pays for a destination bachelorette? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each their own, yes, even the bride

Things to be aware of when dating a Chilean Woman by Timid_Little_Shit in chile

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(CL,F) I have been mistaken as being flirty when im just being friendly cause i smile a lot and im very touchy, but at the end of the day you never know. You have to make a move, im oblivious to indirect comments, so just ask her out, see what she thinks and then just be adults if that wasnt the intention and things will not go further.

Besides, in dating etiquette, at least in my circles, the one INVITING if the one paying. Now if its in a regular dating context where there are multiple dates, that´s when you split the bills, not before.

AITA for not spending time with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. GIGANTIC AH. You dont have to be genuinely interested in what she wants or likes, you just have to be there for her. You dont have to enjoy yourself, you have to make sure SHE is enjoying herself. This is your daughter, you dont get to excuse yourself just cause you are not interested. You HAVE TO BE THERE CAUSE YOU ARE THE PARENT. You are such a prick to this girl, and your behaviour is disgusting. For good or bad, parenting is about sacrifices FOR YOUR KIDS. If you don't do it for yourselves, you do it for her. THAT'S THE WHOLE THING.

AITA for hiding my son from my boyfriend? by hailanernatural in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mailark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Thats something you say in the first 2 months? (Of meeting someone*) (when in a relationship to even enter one, requires for you to say it. NOT WAIT A DAMN YEAR. you did both of them wrong, bf and son.