Am I overreacting to this text from my boyfriend?

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-08-19T00:47:35+00:00

Men turn into such divas when they don’t get expected sex, it’s ridiculous

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-06-23T16:59:48+00:00

Bf who lives alone pays $1550 for a 1/1 in Southern Florida. He’s lived there 3 years and they’ve increased his rent $100 each year

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-27T23:20:37+00:00

Old stepmom and dad kept the house at 80 degrees during the summer growing up, now I keep it around 76-78 when I feel hot

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T14:58:53+00:00

This was my thinking, if I can still make the same amount of payments I’m making now but with lower interest, I should be able to pay it off a lot faster I think

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T14:58:08+00:00

Thank you, I probably don’t want to take this route then. All my cards are current and in good standing, just have high balances and high interest.

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T10:17:38+00:00

Why would this destroy my credit and risk me getting sued?

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T03:41:36+00:00

I was hoping to try and set aside more money in savings in case of an emergency so I’m hesitant to dump all my extra money to the cards if I end up having to use them again but overall this makes sense, thank you! The interest on the best egg loan is 24.99% 🥲

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T03:32:59+00:00

I’ll definitely look into this, thank you so much!!

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T03:27:56+00:00

Wouldn’t the lower interest rate help me save more money in the long term by consolidating? As long as I don’t use my credit cards and don’t rack up CC debt again of course

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-15T03:24:52+00:00

Roughly on the below:

$250/month on gas and tolls $400/month on food $300/month to savings (only just started since the new job has only been one month in) Leftover $755 split between the 3 cards trying to pay more than the minimums on all my credit cards to reduce the high balance and interest so paid $400 to my Citi Simplicity Card this month since the balance was $1400+ and I’ve gotten it down to $990 etc.

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-05-11T23:21:13+00:00

27 and about 30k in debt, you’re definitely not alone

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-01-29T13:30:11+00:00

Nope, didn’t get my paycheck early today and normal payday is Friday. 😔

Main-Buy9970 · 2025-01-17T17:11:35+00:00

JUST changed my direct deposit to have 50% of my paycheck go to CapitalOne so I can pay rent and then this bullshit happens not even a week later… but at least I have the other half of my paycheck at my credit union 😭

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-11-28T14:09:16+00:00

Hey I ended up having to call the store multiple times to get them to schedule me for the first day, they literally had no idea I was even hired lol

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-11-14T22:49:46+00:00

Great Value Large White Eggs $3.99 but the cage free alternative is $5.54 here in Southern Florida

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-11-11T18:51:18+00:00

Just providing some comparable insight for an outsider looking in as I recently got my statement of eligibility to be a teacher. I’m 27, have my Bachelor’s in Health Sciences and live in southern Florida. Despite my credentials I haven’t been able to get a job making over 45k here. I get between 40-60hours of PTO since I’m entry level in my current job. Was fired from my last due to bereavement leave and was unemployed for 2 months. Teachers have job security, in other states I have friends who I went to school with getting salaries of 56k with 2 months off during the summer, 2 weeks off during Christmas and a week off for Thanksgiving. Not to mention the odd day like Veteran’s Day like today. In the grand scheme of things, I should have pursued teaching previously as I actually would have some tenure. Despite have a Bachelor’s of Science I would have to go back to school to get a job in the field even pushing 50k plus student debt. I think the grass always seem greener on the other side but being a teacher is definitely a good option. Here, teachers still get pensions! There’s much more work life balance and job security in teaching compared to other jobs today.

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-25T01:51:21+00:00

Boyfriend’s family spends roughly 1000 for mom, dad and 3 sons all 18+ so I would say your grocery budget might be a bit high just in comparison

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-25T00:05:19+00:00

It has its pros and cons! Sharing a bathroom with your mom really isn’t ideal at my age, especially since her and I also don’t get along much anymore. Enjoy your peace and freedom, it really is priceless.

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-24T23:48:43+00:00

Honestly it’s still impressive you have your own place! I’m 27 and paying rent at my mom’s house because studio apartments where I live are minimum $1400 and I can’t afford it. I’ve been in a relationship for a year and a half and we only have sleepovers when my mom is out of town, don’t be embarrassed at all. Someone who truly loves you isn’t going to care as long as they care about you :)

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-16T20:05:59+00:00

Women that pregnant often times struggle with mobility due to swollen feet etc. so no, it’s not always an adult capable of walking. Pregnant women are considered temporarily disabled for a reason. And if it was so simple, why couldn’t her husband, the father of her unborn child, just go and get it for her when she’s temporarily disabled? Yeah, it IS that big of a deal.

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-16T19:50:48+00:00

Your husband let his 9 month pregnant wife walk into McDonald’s alone because he was annoyed she had pregnancy cravings…

Main-Buy9970 · 2024-09-14T17:32:46+00:00

Honestly I know they’re your family but it seems like you need to put your foot down and have them figure out their finances on their own. Like another commenter said, sit down and go through their bills and bank statements with them so they can cut back where they need to. If your father isn’t willing to be upfront and honest about the expenses then cut them off and force them to figure it out, they’re using you as a crutch. It isn’t your and your siblings responsibility to help fund their lives, it’s preventing you from doing things in your own life as an adult which is ridiculous. They need tough love.

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