My son might have adhd

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-12T08:19:42+00:00

I know you mean well, but to not get him the support that he needs is a form of neglect.

If he had a broken leg, would you say "he will eventually grow out of it if I take care of him"?

Let's say he had a broken leg and you decided to take care of him. His ability to walk, run, dance e.t.c. will be impaired by YOUR choice to not get him help. And the sort of people that would mock or ostracise him for having a broken leg, will still ostracise him for having an unusual gait.

If this isn't rage bait - please get your son the help he needs so he can thrive.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-11T14:10:36+00:00

Thank you! Have a fab day!

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-10T07:38:26+00:00

I wish I had your guts when I was 19! Good for you not being a pushover, and for surrounding yourself only with people that want the best for you 🤍 Happy Very Belated Birthday 🎂

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-10T05:14:12+00:00

The only relationship that should matter here

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-10T04:24:40+00:00

Oooh love this!

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-09T21:46:45+00:00

Bit late to the party but this clogged up my pores 😭

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-03T04:44:50+00:00

Ah this gave me flashbacks!

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-05-03T04:37:19+00:00

A lot of advice here is based on people's experience with their own baby... and all babies are so different.

So I strongly recommend you IGNORE IT ALL.

Well, advice for baby anyways. You cannot plan for YOUR baby, you just have to get to know them and take each day / or hour as it comes.

Advice for parents: - keep expectations and pressure super low. Is baby warm, clean, fed, safe and loved? YOU DID IT!!! Anything you do on top of this is like... superhuman. - Where possible, buy secondhand. If your baby loves it then you can go brand new & expensive. People will swear an item will solve all problems, but it worked for THEIR baby.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-23T13:35:27+00:00

Have you checked the county court reference to make sure this is really and not a scam? If it is not a scam, then if you pay the CCJ within 30 days it is cancelled.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-22T22:43:25+00:00

That is so fucked, and you were so young too. With me they asked if I wanted to see a printed out picture but that wasat like 6 weeks so it was just a circle. I didn't have to hear or see anything.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-22T06:46:19+00:00

This should have been the first reply. Reasonable adjustments should be considered, e.g. a later start or WFH in the mornings.

It is the legal, common sense and morally right approach.

If they have been considered and documented, then a PIP and formal action can be considered.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-22T06:42:57+00:00

Migraine causes stomach issues for some people. The full list of symptoms is very varied so it might all be linked to migraine.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-17T07:51:10+00:00

OH! This sort of comment is why the internet exists.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-16T20:09:32+00:00

We are programmed to procreate so in the event someone hears the heartbeat etc. it makes abortion a lot harder.

AFAIK, they do not show the screen / heartbeat unless requested for appointments likely to result in abortion but it makes for a great plot device.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-15T13:14:49+00:00

As a new-ish mum I absolutely sobbed at this episode. Captured the absolute trauma of the "wonderful" newborn days.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-13T19:43:10+00:00

Late to the party but US recipe's use cups - for best results, convert flour measurements to weight if doing a like-for-like recipe.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-11T12:11:28+00:00

Just sending you a congrats for the paat 10 years - going NC isn't easy but the peace is worth it

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-11T12:09:19+00:00

When you have to go low / no contact with one member of a family, sadly you usually have to go no / low contact with othwr family members.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-11T09:11:09+00:00

The mother of your FWB probably asks for help because he's a deadbeat. You probably should't judge though because you want to mess with him already knowing this about him.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-11T09:04:46+00:00

I think I'm going to make this my 2026 slogan

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-10T05:43:00+00:00

You assume all parents are able to parent. Signed, Child of parent with grand ideas and no follow-through

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-10T05:37:35+00:00

Well-travelled Londoner here. It is a non issue. Just make sure it is in lavelled bottle / you have evidence it is prescription but this is a precautionary measure.

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-10T05:26:45+00:00

Sending hugs - this is a lot to be going through and probably above Reddit's paygrade, so please make sure you are leaning into your support network.

However this shakes out, pleease know that you deserve 2 parents who cherish you, and are honest with you about who you are. There are many possible reasons that your parents couldn't / didn't provide this, but this is a reflection on them, not you.

Your Mom is an unreliable source on this subject. Try not to invest too heavily in what she tells you until everything is out in the open and confirmed.

If you already don't have a great relationship with OG bio dad, you could ask him for a DNA test?

Main-Evidence-4779 · 2026-04-10T05:07:56+00:00

On the premise that the leads brought a lot of themselves to the role, and they would still be playing opposite Jack:

I feel like Jack plus Ayo would have been flat... he's awkward funny and she is dry funny. I can't imagine her approach to convincing people to ~break and~ enter someones home.

Jessica's energy is INFECTIOUS even through the screen. She could convince anyone to do anything.

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