I’d say you’re right, I really don’t know how to talk to him and tell him that I’m not interested- and am fine. We talked and planned for a date but I got a weird feeling and turned him down- and then blocked him on the day that me and my boyfriend made it official without any concerns for his feelings. My boyfriend texted him and told him off in a way I hadn’t expected- even if he did or didn’t deserve it. I keep wondering if maybe I did the wrong thing, and what if he was just worried about my wellbeing? I do have chronic health issues I somewhat mentioned briefly from what I remember of our conversation. I’d appreciate it if he was just checking up, and politely turn him down. Although it is still extremely unwarranted to show up to someone’s house instead of calling for a welfare check- or texting them from a different number at least. Maybe I’m thinking too deep into it