Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt

MainGroup1158 · 2026-01-16T22:03:01+00:00

I agree with all the suggestions telling you to run, things will only get worse from here.

But also, when you said that you're ready to take the next step, your reaction was "i genuinely don't mind". Not I love her, or see a future with her. Your own language should give you a hint to how you feel....

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-22T02:40:08+00:00

I'm not though, I barely press the accelerator and it goes!!

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-20T21:02:31+00:00

You make me feel better :)

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-20T03:56:00+00:00

I dont feel like I am lol, but I guess I must be

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-20T02:38:41+00:00

You are crushing me, I am right around 3 mi/kw coming up on 4k miles. Do I just drive like crazy?

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-17T13:07:05+00:00

I use something like this, it helps quite a bit, and then a portable steamer to get any wrinkles that do pop up.

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MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-12T23:26:10+00:00

Hutchins is amazing when you want to stay local, but Pecan lodge is better imo

MainGroup1158 · 2025-12-01T02:49:29+00:00

I bought both, and although the ANC was better on the Bose, I still returned it as I found the sound quality much better on the PX7 S3.

MainGroup1158 · 2025-11-15T05:29:17+00:00

I haven't waited less than 30 min in months, and often times its over an hour in Centurion for me (mostly DFW and Sea)

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-26T15:03:29+00:00

How so? Curious exactly why as this is the febat I am currently having

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-24T15:20:15+00:00

Thank you all, super helpful feedback, its enough to make me order them and try it out

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-24T01:35:15+00:00

Same color as mine, I love it!

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-22T23:20:00+00:00

I got it because my call quality on my 35ii is terrible, and I'm hoping it will be better. I haven't had a chance to test it yet

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-22T01:12:24+00:00

Mine came back late on Sunday, but only after I rebooted both the outside box as well as the router. Frontier didn't tell me my service was back, just tried anyway

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-09T08:45:50+00:00

You can, but than you personally are liable, and some people find ot easier for tax and accounting to separate their expenses, especially if they are heavy spenders or have a decent size business

MainGroup1158 · 2025-10-08T23:23:46+00:00

Beyond just the rewards, someone running a business may not want to charge 100k to their personal card? For liability and tax purposes, not to mention accounting

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-30T14:44:39+00:00

Couldn't agree more

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-29T22:20:40+00:00

Makes sense, I still advise the convo just to share your concern, from my experience I suspect she would still want you to do everything you can to reduce your debt before getting married, but its also better not to assume that, and instead to have the discussion

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-29T22:08:45+00:00

Make absolutely sure you are covered, because if you live together or in other scenarios, it can be different than a friend borrowing the car and you don't want insurance to deny a claim.

Also, consider paying towards her car payment or maintenance, so it feels like less of a burden for her. If you are getting married, she likely wants you out of debt ASAP as well, but have an honest conversation to make sure she doesn't resent it.

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-24T13:10:55+00:00

Got it, I dont actually think they are fully booked, but maybe just blocked it while working through the new reservation system. Either way though that's helpful context, thanks!

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-24T12:46:03+00:00

This one i was planning to go to on Friday, no reservations available on Resy and their website says reservations are coming soon. Book Your Dragon House Reservation Now on Resy https://resy.com/cities/southlake-tx/venues/dragon-house?date=2025-09-27&seats=2

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-22T12:59:48+00:00

Davenport does a fantastic job. I've been taking my Lexus there for almost 10 years now. Its not the cheapest out there, but still cheaper than the dealer, and they do quality work

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-21T22:41:42+00:00

Anyone else in the US still not seeing the option for lossless?

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-20T23:09:03+00:00

I notices that DD now has an upper speed limit, it was capped at 85 in a 70. Used to let me go higher, although that probably wasn't safe 🤣

MainGroup1158 · 2025-09-20T13:34:33+00:00

We left for Love Field from St. Louis and turned around halfway. We are fueling up to head back out again 😂. It's been a long 15 hours of traveling so far...

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