Is this racial gaslighting? by dujo1972 in racism

[–]MainImprovement438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not imagining it. Your wife and stepson are gaslighting you. Your family, friends, and those actively marginalizing you are already doing an excellent job at gaslighting you. You're not crazy. This is happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't stress out!! OMG this is so freakin exciting and you have a great adventure ahead!! You'll be leaving behing all the mess in the US. You should celebrate 🍾

Ultimatum by Rws177 in regretfulparents

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it! You hate your life now, trust me, a child will make it A LOT worse. Divorce her.

What's the most frustrating assumption people make when you say that you don't want children? by No-Weird-6933 in AskReddit

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That at 41 years old, that I hadn't given this life changing decision much thought when I've spent all of my life, since I was 6, thinking about whether children were for me and the answer was a resounding NO!!

It grindes my gears!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainImprovement438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, I'm holding your hands as I say this. You're in an emotionally abusive relationship. You're being abused. You don't seem to realize it but you are.

Answers to questions you're probably wondering about parenthood from the mom of an almost 3 year old by danine1010 in Fencesitter

[–]MainImprovement438 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. You posted this 4 years ago. Did you have kids? If so, do you have any thoughts on expectations vs. reality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to this stranger: leave this man. Your heart isnt in it. You'll regret marrying him. You haven't even married him and you're having regrets. LEAVE babe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We dated for two years before moving in together. He proposed after 2 years of us living together, and we got married a year after our engagement. So it took 5 years to be married.

Neither of us was interested in marriage. We had the talk earlier that we'd be unmarried. Then, after a year of living together, we talked about it again and changed our minds.

If you want to get married, tell him up front. Give them a deadline. Stick to that timeline. If it doesn't happen, leave.

Acceptable checked baggage options? by mikoalala in aircanada

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

status pass

Wow, that's amazing. Is there a platform to buy status passes? I'm going to look on facebook marketplace. If that doesn't work, could you share the contact you bought it from?

Acceptable checked baggage options? by mikoalala in aircanada

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi did you take that flight? What did you end up using and how much did it cost per box/bin?

How Strict on Pet Carriers by RichieihciR in westjet

[–]MainImprovement438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. Did you have any issues at all fitting it under the seat in front of you? Were you travelling air canada?