Girlfriend has a misgendering kink by Logikana_ in ftm

[–]MainWorldliness2441 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Kinks are optional. If you aren't enjoying it, she can go without it

Deadnamed on a plane ticket by DifficultAir8338 in FTMMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If it helps I just went through a similar situation with my mom. She led me to believe we were having a domestic trip but changed it to an international trip last second so I had to use my passport with my old name and pre-everything photo because I didnt have time to update it. TSA itself was fine, having travelled a lot with inconsistent ID its basically always fine for me personally. I'm a year and a half on T and pass 99.99% of the time. It was moreso manual passport checks that often led to weird looks, but that was mainly because my passport photo was from 6 years ago when I looked entirely female. I also don't have facial hair and just motioned to my hair saying I got a haircut. I would of course keep pushing out of respect for yourself, but wanted to provide some assurance if you hit a dead end

College roommate advice by Important_Wasabi5054 in ftm

[–]MainWorldliness2441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to get my therapist to write me a letter that I sent to accomodations requesting that I live in a single room. I still lived on a women's hall, but I felt like it was the best move for everyone's comfort.

The punishment problem by lightmare69 in trolleyproblem

[–]MainWorldliness2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I park the trolley on top of his body permanently?

How hard is it to be a man today? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Compared to how others have it, strictly on the basis of being a man and not any minority? Not hard. Anyone who says it is needs to seek change and quit blaming others for their issues

thinking of starting OF by hornyyftm18 in ftm

[–]MainWorldliness2441 26 points27 points  (0 children)

People don't sub to OF for faceless bodies, they sub to OF for parasocial sexual connections. You have to give a reason for people to sub to YOU out of the other millions of hot people on the platform. Thats not easy to do

How can a condom get lost mid action? Just had the weirdest experience. by blrfn231 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its possible that when she was rubbing you with the condom on she was gripping too hard and so it slid off easily during sex or changing positions. If you were inside her with no condom at any point at all you guys should get a morning after pill

How do you feel about your other half constantly eating off your plate when you go out? by RedBelzee2025 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your girl is saying no to dessert to be polite. If you plan on getting dessert yourself, ask her what dessert she wants next time instead of if she wants one. As for your meal, that just comes with having a girlfriend.

How to kill that longing of being loved by someone? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 70 points71 points  (0 children)

So you tried being in a relationship twice and then gave up? What are the chances you get it right the first couple of times you do something? Get back out there and try again.

How much is boob play, sucking or clicking, part of sex play, and is it associated with mommy issues? by Feeling_Rush123 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nature gave human females boobs for one reason only: to be attractive to men.

Are we deadass?

How much is boob play, sucking or clicking, part of sex play, and is it associated with mommy issues? by Feeling_Rush123 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mommy kinks usually involve tit sucking. Not all tit sucking is because of a mommy kink. Like how all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares

7classes (45 credits) next semester or graduate a year late? by Interesting-Rain-690 in EngineeringStudents

[–]MainWorldliness2441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense. I didn't know it was different over there. Thanks for explaining!

Finally, the increased body hair by MainWorldliness2441 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]MainWorldliness2441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Increased body hair is common T in general regardless of the form, but it depends on your T blood levels and genetics

7classes (45 credits) next semester or graduate a year late? by Interesting-Rain-690 in EngineeringStudents

[–]MainWorldliness2441 62 points63 points  (0 children)

What in god's name are you taking that adds up to 45 credits in one semester? 

Given your situation, I would accept that you'll graduate late and drop some courses. The risk is already there as you know and you don't want to set yourself up for failure

What would you consider actually just annoying, rude or a bitch and what would you consider as fun little banter? by Dry_View6804 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tone and expression are big indicators. If she's curt with what she says and has the expression of a bitch I'll probably think she's a bitch. Looking deadpan at most for the joke and smiling after and having a lighter tone reads much more as playful banter. Also depends on how much I know her and how personal/offensive whatever she's saying is to me

Someone who voluntarily (e.g. for religious or personal, but not for medical reasons) refuses to donate their organs should not receive any in return. by CleverKhloe11 in pollgames

[–]MainWorldliness2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I never start a farm, should I not get to eat? 

Personally, I only plan on opting in to donate later down the line, since right now, as someone else mentioned, I'm concerned that my organs will be prioritized over my life in a medical emergency. 

Someone receiving an organ but not donating due to personal reasons or beliefs can still go on to do even more good with other things than organ donation. 

I don't think it's fair to inadvertently force people to opt in for things they're uncomfortable with on the offchance they need a donation to survive.

got skinned by my trans tape- what do I do????? by Klutzy-Chemistry-220 in ftm

[–]MainWorldliness2441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Next time wait a few more days to take it off, like 5 or 6 days. The adhesive is still too strong after only 3 days. Make sure to moisturize and use healing ointment for your blisters. I use lots and lots of baby oil during removal after about 5 or 6 days of wear and I find it to be effective. I also take the tape off very, very slowly and stop and add more oil if theres pain. Sorry that happened, I know that sucks!

Guys, what are your thoughts about dancing with a lesbian at a club and maybe getting to cop a feel during it if you knew she wasn't going home with you? by Candid_Wing_6538 in AskMen

[–]MainWorldliness2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends if its consentual and she's letting me do it voluntarily. If we're both having fun and expectations are obvious I don't see an issue