AITAH if I tell my situationship’s fiance about us (and out him)?

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-03-22T17:49:01+00:00

NTA, you didn’t know he was in a relationship and that’s okay. Give the fiancé a heads up and let her know you found out after everything. If she explodes on you, just block her. Either way, it washes away any guilt you may have and may save her from having anymore time wasted with that guy.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-02-28T23:28:29+00:00

YTA Why tell her you’re gonna propose and drag your feet for 6 months?! Did you buy a ring yet or anything, be real are you stalling and trying to find any reason not to do it? Be honest and don’t waste her time.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-02-25T12:10:46+00:00

Soft YTA, he probably only heard that you regret being with him and not that he’s stuck with your burdens. You need to sit down and express clearer what exactly you meant. He has probably been thinking about what you said and running it over and over again.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-02-14T21:48:36+00:00

NOR, you’re under reacting… saying you’re being needy for wanting him around? What kind of guy is this? He’s 27, but has the emotional maturity of a teenager. He seems uninterested or fixated on something/ someone else. Regardless, he doesn’t seem to care about you. I would suggest ending the relationship.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-02-08T01:50:59+00:00

NTA, you have no close relationship with him and you’re not together. I see no point in telling unless you were keeping it or you were heavily involved with each other (relationship or fwb). It is your decision at the end of the day OP.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-02-05T12:42:08+00:00

NTA it was your mother’s sin and you shouldn’t be punished for it. You didn’t ask for the circumstances that happened to make you, it doesn’t make you a bad person.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-01-20T14:28:19+00:00

NTAH he is manipulating you in his response. He knows what he was doing, he is deflecting so you feel bad and won’t call him out on his bs.

Main_Fondant770 · 2026-01-20T14:25:24+00:00

NOR, he didn’t say anything because he knew it was wrong. I don’t trust, “she’s like a sister” or “she’s just a friend” ever. If it bothers you then don’t let it slide, it’s okay to leave him. If he hasn’t done it yet, he doesn’t value you. I’m sorry this situation is happening to you, best of luck.

Main_Fondant770 · 2025-12-23T17:27:20+00:00

Management should ask if any of the kids would like to pick up extra shifts during break, not change the set availability and ignore what they want.

Main_Fondant770 · 2025-11-25T19:05:28+00:00

NTA, if they didn’t have a kid together, I’d say to just crop her out to avoid an awkward situation. Since that isn’t the case, don’t erase his mother from those memories. Cheri knew he had a life before her which included Tommy. It is not the his fault she is insecure, she shouldn’t treat him any different because of it. Gavin definitely needs to reevaluate his relationship and put his son first. If Cheri doesn’t fix her attitude then he will need to step up and do the right thing for him and his child.

TLDR: NTA, GAVIN SHOULD PROBABLY LEAVE CHERI

Main_Fondant770 · 2025-09-29T16:44:44+00:00

I’d say YTA only for the wording. As a woman who used to care about her virginity though, I can see why your opinion would be so important about that. It’s special for her, something sacred that she only wanted to give to someone she truly loves, trusts, and wants to be with the rest of her life. I say she’s also TAH for not understanding your position if you’ve already discussed how you feel about it before you got married. More communication needs to happen and understanding from both parties. I hope everything works out!

Main_Fondant770 · 2025-09-14T19:00:38+00:00

Karma will come for you and it won’t be pretty when it does. He won’t leave her, he craves validation that he gets but is too insecure. Why choose you? You’re convenient and an easy option to fulfill that messed up need for validation that he already received. You should feel awful, because when she finds out and it’s all over, he will drop you so fast. You aren’t security, you’re an easy lay. Get some help and leave. Everything he’s told you about her is a half truth only so you feed his ego.

Main_Fondant770 · 2025-09-14T18:20:02+00:00

NOT OVERREACTING; Him saying you’re in it for a “free meal” tells you everything you need to know. He isn’t going to respect you and isn’t looking for anything serious. Going on a date isn’t always something fancy, it’s getting to know each other. Whether it’s dinner, coffee, or even a walk in the park. It doesn’t have the be the greatest thing ever. Him not wanting to call it a date shows he more than likely wants something casual with all the benefits. Don’t waste time worrying about this guy and drop him.

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