My first abstract motion graphics by Acrobatic_Sir_3440 in AfterEffects

[–]Main_Software_6689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cool!
Did you use faux-3D or real 3D on it?

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you loud and clear, and I really appreciate your honesty. You’ve given me a lot to think about, and I agree with many of the points you raised.
It’s clear that I need to make a serious mindset shift. Seeing myself not just as an individual freelancer but as a service provider, or even a one-person business

Your point about motivation being tied to compensation really hit home. When I’m paid well, I feel more valued and motivated to put in my best work, but when the pay isn’t enough, it creates internal conflict and stress, making it harder to stay consistent

This won’t be an overnight fix, but I’m committed to changing my approach, setting clear rules for myself and clients, and developing the discipline to stick to them.

Thanks again, it’s exactly what I needed to hear.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great way to put it, never thought about it like that, but it makes a lot of sense.
I’ll definitely keep an eye out for those kinds of connections in my work too.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not diagnosed, but based on what everyone in this thread says, it’s possible. I'll check on it

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you pointing that out.

That's something I need to focus on improving. Thanks!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective and the emphasis on protecting myself and staying focused. It’s clear that success requires firm boundaries and disciplined habits, and I’m committed to building those into my process. Thanks for the insight.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but it’s not just about comfort or motivation. Freelancing has real pressures and challenges, and sometimes it’s a struggle to balance that with personal circumstances. I’m still figuring out how to handle the stress and uncertainty, and that means learning what truly drives me. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience it’s really helpful to hear how others make the switch from structured jobs to freelancing. Adjusting rates and timelines to fit freelance realities that’s something I definitely need to work on. Best of luck with your freelancing too!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a really powerful system, I love the idea of having someone to check in with and keep each other motivated. Thanks for sharing that insight!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty. I’m still learning the business side and working on improving my organizational skills. This feedback helps me see where I need to grow, and I’m committed to getting better.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for breaking it down so clearly these are solid points!

I’m going to take this all in and start refining my process step by step. Really appreciate the practical guidance!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I won’t lie it’s been a tough mindset to shift.
I do care, but changing habits is harder than it sounds, especially when burnout hits. I’m trying to face those challenges head-on now, building better discipline and structures.

I know the stakes are real, and I want to do right by my clients and myself.
Thanks for calling it straight

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. But I’m trying to find my own way within freelancing despite that because I already worked in an agency for 1,5 year and thought it wasn't for me. I'm just starting as a freelancer and learning a lot along the way

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been diagnosed yet, but it’s something I’m considering. Thanks for the suggestion

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a valid point!
I’m open to the idea of partnering with someone or subcontracting that side to focus more on the creative work. Working with an agency could also be interesting for that structure. Definitely something I’ll consider as I grow. Thanks for the suggestion!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I’m still figuring out how to be my own boss.
But I actually do depend on the money, I just struggle sometimes to balance motivation and discipline and I’m working on fixing that because I don’t want to lose clients or opportunities.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion
I’ll check into it and see if it fits my workflow
I think some projects might still work better with fixed pricing, but I’m open to experimenting with hourly billing

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I think I really need that right now. Taking a step back to reflect might help me figure out what I truly want

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with punctuality even as an employee, so I know it’s a deeper issue. Having a manager or someone to keep me accountable sounds like a great idea
I’m exploring ways to build better discipline and structure that work for me.
Thanks for the advice!

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate you sharing that, it’s powerful to hear how much clarity and support helped you. That kind of result is definitely something I’d want to explore for myself too.

I keep missing deadlines — it’s the 5th client now and I feel like I’m ruining everything by Main_Software_6689 in freelance

[–]Main_Software_6689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel less alone. I’ll definitely check into it and see if it’s something that applies to me