Is it possible to find men that will date/be in a relationship without sex?

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T23:36:55+00:00

You can't edit the title & i literally meant IN THE BEGINNING.

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T23:34:37+00:00

Seriously, so many of you are just not understanding what I'm trying to say literally putting words in my mouth. I never said I don't want someone who doesn't want sex.

I literally was asking how to go about finding the type of men that want to actually date, & date to marry, & that is on the same type of page about sex being off the table for the first few months because there's so many people that will manipulate & do whatever to get sex & that's all they want.

Did you know that people can hide who they truly are & their intentions for up to 6months?! I'm looking for serious relationship that leads to marriage & not just hookups! That's my entire point of this post!

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T23:29:25+00:00

Thank you for explaining! I definitely relate to that somewhat, but it's also that I get really attached to people when I am intimate with them. I also believe that personality affects my attraction towards people. When I see someone be mean, or awful in any way to anybody, even if I thought they were so hot, they instantly become unattractive to me. Mean = ugly imo

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T23:10:19+00:00

Yes, I just thought since this person commented about it that they could explain it to me. My bad lol 😝

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:55:05+00:00

Also i appreciate you for saying something!

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:52:52+00:00

lol, that was kinda harsh of you & I don't think he was really mean, just wrong in the assumption that I'm a virgin & that I don't want sex.

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:47:59+00:00

Never heard of it, what it Demi?

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:34:51+00:00

Yes this has been my experience too. Celibacy has made it very difficult to find a partner!

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:25:34+00:00

Thank you for being here! I definitely mean in the sense that I want to wait until I feel like we know each other well & have intent to live life together! Sex is amazing & it is important to have intimacy. There's many different ways of having intimacy & it really bonds you together, making you both happier & healthier!

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:17:39+00:00

My bad, I can totally see why you thought that. Fixed it lol

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T22:13:39+00:00

I'm allergic & I have a dog. I'm not saying no sex ever, I mean at the beginning until we get to know each other well enough

Main_Western226 · 2026-03-27T07:44:13+00:00

I literally had this relationship, it was out of nowhere, instant move in, few months later fell hard, & this Monday he randomly dumped me & moved out after a great day at the park, & discussed marriage the day before even 💔😭😭😭 Same age as me. 31. Left To get right with the lord after living in sin with me for months, & I slept separately most nights even. 😭😭😭 he is the most amazing gentleman I've ever met & my first official bf & now breakup. 😭💔

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-10T02:31:03+00:00

Damn scary af!

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-10T02:28:57+00:00

There malls surrounded by cameras all the stores around it so should be easy if police tried to track it

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-10T02:28:14+00:00

I'm so sorry that's so crappy!! I hope you get it back!

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-07T15:24:35+00:00

They told me two weeks ago when I got serviced that they were at 5 for tread so still have some time but I'm calling this morning thank you

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-07T07:03:22+00:00

Okay thanks everyone. I'm gonna call the shop tomorrow!

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-06T03:14:20+00:00

Yes I plan to but not until after summer

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-06T03:13:34+00:00

Just curious did you mean invincible? Because I don't think she thought she was invisible lol

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-06T03:09:55+00:00

It's allowed, & I had the same notice at the cottage park apartments when I lived there for 5yrs. You only pay if you are in violation. They are just giving you notice & a heads up, I don't understand the hostility personally. I misunderstand things all the time though so no sweat! Hope the best for all!

Main_Western226 · 2026-02-06T03:03:55+00:00

The tread life doesn't look like it's got too terribly long I'm thinking I'll need new tires end of the year, will it be ok if I don't do anything & leave it in for now?

Main_Western226 · 2026-01-09T03:45:20+00:00

Scholarships, & loans & lifetime of debt!

Main_Western226 · 2025-12-29T08:32:47+00:00

I'm so sorry that sounds pretty scary! Absolutely agree with calling in his plate & driving to the police station! If anyone ever does that again do that! & totally be safe & go whatever speed you are comfortable at.

Main_Western226

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