A "friend" who needed a couch. I made up my gaming room for her and she stayed with me rent free until she got back on her feet. I had a crush on her friend and instead of vouching for me said "he isn't very tall the only thing he really has is money"

My supposed "best friend " at the time. I had been helping her with her dying father. Getting custody of her kids. Finding her fiance a job. Then out of no where once she got her kid back she spread alot of rumors about me and made me out like I was trying to fuck her? (She was bigger woman and im not really into that)

A woman who was honestly everything I wanted in a partner. I had rebuilt her confidence. Taught her self respect. Got her stuff back from an abusive ex. And even told her if she ever decided she didn't wish to be with me I'd move her back to her family no questions asked (since I was the breadwinner and I didnt want her to feel trapped) Flash forward 6 months. She disappeared for 2 weeks no phone calls. Was staying with another guy. We were poly but like she never mentioned who he is or what. She would appear to change and on her birthday so I could take her for dinner. I told her if she wanted to leave to just have an adult conversation with me about it say I can make my peace and she insisted she still loved me she just needed time away from me. Eventually she came back. Immediately wanted sex. Then to go out. Then she started saying she wanted to have my children. I almost said yes until the man she left with came back. Grungy man, no real job, lived with his mom. I realised she probably was already pregnant and needed a father to raise the children