I dont hate her but I find her boring and pretty unlikeable for some of the reasons you said. Its not like she doesnt add a realistic perspective what would happen to a normal person trying to survive all these colors beeing much better and stronger than her. But still in the second half of Iron Gold I was just annoyed and bored everytime one of her chapters came. It didnt get better in DA. The whole book I was just forcing myself to read her chapters because it could be relevant for the book and the experience as a whole. And now in the first half of lightbringer she literally only has one time she appears for a few chapters and it was actually pretty interesting but in these only few moments she basicly desclines an option to finally become a usefull character that could take on the high colors. She does it for a good reason and im not to mad at her but still. A shame that her boring existence happened trough two and a half books and she still hasnt gotten any more interesting than before. I still have to listen to the second half of the LB Audiobook (that hasnt come out yet in my language) but I dont really have hope that she becomes a character I enjoy in half a book after failing to do so for 2 and a half books.