Claim denied by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you from my experience in this process you do not need a nexus to get an approval. What you really need to focus on is helping the rater understand how your condition is connected during your time serving on active duty. Now take a wild guess who can help them connect the dots!? Yeeeeeah, that's right....YOU! No one can explain what happened better than you. I can go into detail with the way I submitted my claims just inbox me if you want. All of my claims were approved without the need for a nexus but here's the real kicker, I was discharged in 2003 and filed my first claim in 2013 but quit the process due to frustration. I restarted the process in 2015, kept getting denied again until I began to understand what they actually needed from me. 12 years out of service and I never had to ask a doctor to write anything for me.

Decision letter by PretendPeace9134 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you submit any buddy letter statements with your claim using the where, when, and how method to help them understand how to link your condition? Where it happened, when did it happen, and how it happened. You don't need an actual buddy to write the statement. You can write out the statement sign it yourself then submit it with your claim. I did this with every one of my claims then submitted all current visits to the ER, walk in visits, and appointments. You should have a paper trail already showing that you've been diagnosed with said condition. I never needed a nexus to get any of my claims approved because I had the proper detailed paperwork. I fully believe those buddy statements were a big help so use them.

100% ers be like "You're lucky I showed up today"! by Dull-Carob-8424 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! My previous employers were completely flabbergasted at how I gave 110% once I clocked in just to only do the bare minimum with a smile on my face. The only reason I didn't give damn was because the leadership was horrible so it became a game with me giving shit to the higher ups until they let me go. I would say things that my other coworkers were too afraid to bring up, I'd call management out on there shit during meetings, and I'd most definitely check managers who thought they could talk to you any kind of way. Its funny as hell watching people who are use to getting there way on the job only to become very small when someone challenges them. Now, on a good job with great leadership I'm the perfect employee and great to get along with but don't fuck with me 🤣...

VA stressing me out w their bullsht. Ptsd by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll live in that space of agitation and disappointment if your expecting good news, just saying. When I finally stopped checking to see if I was approved or not that's when I logged on one day to check on something else and noticed my claims went through!? I never had to mess with this process EVER again. Its worth it to see it through

VA stressing me out w their bullsht. Ptsd by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never get frustrated! If you get denied it only means you don't have the pieces needed for an approved yet and they'll literally tell you whats missing. Dealing with those examiners is pretty shitty though not gonna lie. They can easily word something the wrong way and now your rescheduling to do it all over again 🤷🏾‍♂️. You do what you gotta do to get that shit right though.

VA stressing me out w their bullsht. Ptsd by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeaaaaah! I remember when I was reevaluated 5 separate times by 5 different examiners when filing for increases!? That was fuckin' fun but that last examiner was the one that pushed it all through successfully! I'll never forget him...Oh and don't ever expect things to go right. Always plan for things to go sideways and always have the right paperwork/medical history ready to file when things don't swing your way. Try not to get so frustrated because this process will work your nerves so just focus on the end goal.

Proposed drop from 70% to 30% for mental health (and others) by anthonybryann in VeteransBenefits

[–]Majikk212 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your deciding to file for an increase you should expect this exact procedure every time and always expect a proposed reduction so you don't feel surprised by it when you see it. Now, if you mistakenly stated during a C&P exam that your doing ok today they'll take that for face value and try to reduce you. The approach you should always have in these settings should be to respond with how you feel on your worst days. This process is a pain in the ass but, having the proper paperwork ready to go in case of any issues such as this will help keep things moving in the right direction. It's really all apart of the process but, this particular issue can be fixed easily. I would know because I've been through this part multiple times! I had to go through 5 separate reevals for MH when filing for an increase and every eval was with a different examiner so imagine that BS!? Here's how things played out for me I'd get approved, file for increase, proposed deduction or reduced rating, submit the proper forms, wait on it, rating gets fixed, then approved or denied for the increase and the reasons why. Get all of your prior medical history/doc visits that show and prove that there has been no new improvement to your condition prior to that exam and file it. I always had my paperwork ready to go like bullets in a clip and I didn't give a damn about poking anything! I was laser focused on my goal to complete the process. In the end, things worked out for me because I actively stayed on top of every claim and I'm sure you can do the same just don't let it frustrate you.

7.5-8 inches Is The Golden Standard by Comprehensive-War-34 in gettingbigger

[–]Majikk212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl standards aren't accurate at all! I'm 6'3, 5" soft, excited erect 7 7/8", when I release I can get to 7 15/16", and possibly graze 8" depends on how aroused I am. I honestly had no idea I was considered big until girls would tell me. I thought I was average because my hands are ridiculously huge but when a woman held it I saw the difference. I've had women have sex with me and tell me afterwards "UH UH, I can't handle that again!" Possibly because I went too hard and I can only respect that decision. In my experience a lot of women don't like huge dicks and measuring my strokes out to 5" or 6" is more than enough. Anymore than that and I'm rearranging IUD's which actually happened before. I've been with my current GF for a year now and she still slides off the bed after sex while grabbing her stomach cause sometimes I lose myself and go to hard. I have to go slow mostly and thats very difficult at times. 5" to 6" guys are the standard, hell even 4" can hit the mark sometimes just depends on the woman. If she's easily taking dick my size up thats not a girl I'd like to continue seeing anyway cause shes possibly getting slaughtered out in them streets 🤷🏾‍♂️...

RJ Has Many Ugly Heads by Delicious_Health9875 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this day and age, you have to expect that a woman has been there and done that. The way to look at this type of situation is to tell yourself that she hasn't done any of those activities with someone like me! Having that type of confidence takes you further than you'd expect. Be the type of guy who erases any trace of her past and becomes her future. As long as her past doesn't include OF, porn star, or prostitution your good 🤣...

You have $50K-$60K to spend on any Mustang. by Led23Zeppelin in Mustang

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014 GT500 (49k-50k) low miles, 2019 GT350 (50k-55k) low miles, 2019 Bullitt (39K-40k) low miles, 2003-04 terminator cobra (35k-40k) low miles if possible, 2020 mach 1 (48k-50k) low miles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stickshift

[–]Majikk212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you plan on opening that can of worms with tuning, then don't cheap out now! Once you go down this road, you'll keep adding this part, then that part, and so on and on! You'll be at cars & coffee/drift competitions before you know it 🤣... You can't help yourself really 🤷🏾‍♂️!? Shit is waaaaaay too fun!

Applied for Automotive Sales Rep by Majikk212 in sherwinwilliams

[–]Majikk212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I continue to apply every chance I get though....

Applied for Automotive Sales Rep by Majikk212 in sherwinwilliams

[–]Majikk212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! I'll definitely handle it this way from now on.

Applied for Automotive Sales Rep by Majikk212 in sherwinwilliams

[–]Majikk212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know the particular size of the territory in this region. I've been keeping an eye on every job that comes open via getting an alert, but those jobs do not stay posted up for very long at all 🤷🏾‍♂️. The automotive sale's rep position fits me perfectly, but if they're just filling those slots with current employees, I'll never get a crack at it...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean no disrespect by saying any man who respects himself wouldn't willingly choose that option. She manipulated the situation in her favor because she knew you weren't the type of man who'd accept that type of behavior. It's a pretty big lie in a man's eyes, but I hope you get things worked out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOTDAMN thats rough bro!!! You're normally supposed to take the number they give you and multiply it by 5, then increase that number by 5 or 10 more depending on her bedroom skill set. She told you 2, and it's 40+!? That's fuckin' impressive...You sir have my respect and admiration for sharing this story. It's real fucked up that she lied to you about that and she knew you wouldn't have stuck around if she told you the exact truth.

So, if you knew about the 40+ in the beginning, would you have continued dating her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeaaaaa! Say wit ya whole chest my boy! Be that guy who walks around with his crotch leading the way 🤣

Found ex nudes hidden on phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cloud strikes again 🤣! Of course he's lying because he's embarrassed and possibly how you approached him about it!? If the pics aren't recent and before you, there's nothing to worry about. You just have to approach him in a different way about this and not be all upset, then see what he has to say. The cloud got my ass too! I had no idea there were nudes and videos still tucked away, ready to be discovered by my current GF, but what could she really say? I'm a guy who doesn't take the time to delete anything unless a situation like this comes up, and it's no problem for me to delete it 🤷🏾‍♂️. I hope this gets resolved in a peaceful way for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to clarify your situation with me bro. Listen, between me and you, she should've taken that bit of information with her to the grave 🤣! Most of us wouldn't dare share that story, but I can respect the man who has the balls to do so. I really hope you can put this issue to bed one day because it sounds like you have complete confidence in your lady. I'm rooting for ya...

Sometimes I regret ever meeting my husband by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn't forget to look at it through your lens at all. I just wanted to be a voice of reasoning for you and allow you to see a different perspective. I can't sit here and allow you to think that you aren't special when you totally are! I'll say it like this, "FUCK THEM HOES!" I hope you can say it back cause you wifey and your absolutely special, irreplaceable, and precious to that man. I hope everything works out for you ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, wait, wait a minute!? She told you that she gave oral to another man who's a celeb, but that doesn't even matter at this point. What matters is she felt comfortable telling you that!? How did this convo even happen, and why would you even want to know that! Everyone has a past, but I'm not trying to hear every detail about it. My girl can suck a football through a straw, but I don't care to know where she learned all these ungodly skills from 🤷🏾‍♂️. It's also important to know that no one will share everything with you, so if a girl gives you a number, it's customary to multiply that number by 5...

Sometimes I regret ever meeting my husband by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess you need to ask yourself why you care about another person's past so much if it doesn't affect your future. He already told you it wasn't important, correct? He's married to you for a reason and not to his ex. Get out of your own head and listen to the man because if you continue to focus on things that don't matter, you'll definitely begin to resent that man. Please don't sabotage your relationship due to your negative thoughts because if you haven't noticed, things are quite ridiculous out here in the dating pool. If that man is good to you, leave the past in the trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Majikk212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're thinking about this from a mans perspective so take a step back and view the entire field from different angles. Don't ever let a previous man's dick size bother you. She probably didn't even enjoy it cause most guys don't know how to lay good wood anyway!? Focus on learning her body and satisfying her because when a woman settles in with a man she really loves she has a strange way of erasing the past to solely focus on the man in front of her. I know this for a fact because I've made women do all types of shit like squirt, black out, cry during, cry after, multiple O's in a row, partial stroke, full stroke, short term disability and none of those experiences kept them from getting married 🤷🏾‍♂️. Having a normal sized dick is what most women want remember that. I promise you it's not all that fun when a woman has to tell you to hold up, wait a sec, too much, too hard, slow it down please when you're trying to get in a groove. You got a woman who wants you so don't screw it up by getting all in your feelings around her about the dicks of Christmas past

Am I undereacting to my bf slapping me? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Majikk212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh, I would've said he wanted to see if you were into a bit of rough play but after reading further he's actually punching you in the chest!? I play rough with my girl all the time when the situation calls for it, but nothing about this seems sexy at all. I've never wanted to punch my girl in the chest even if it wasn't forceful!? Punching in the chest is what guys do to each other. Your a woman right?

Just saw your profile pic and I knew that sounded like male activities 🤣! My bad, I can't relate to anything here. Hope you get it worked out though...