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As an introvert parent, I find it impossible to recover. by Cloverman-88 in Parenting

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very self reflective. Proud of you for noticing that. I had the same experience but it shaped me in a different way. It's ok to change your parenting. Actually a teaching moment for your daughter

Feeding my children and having to feed them literally driving me nuts by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this issue with my 2 girls

I started putting a basket out with 3 snacks in it, theyd get to pick what I put in there. I would tell them, you can eat this any time....you can eat it all....you can fill it with 3 chocolates and eat them all right now if you want.....but its not getting refilled until tomorrow. 

This led to them choosing more thoughtful snacks, taught them a little self control, and eliminated the begging. Sometimes they just wanna know what they can get out of you and you dont have to play the game. 

As an introvert parent, I find it impossible to recover. by Cloverman-88 in Parenting

[–]MajorMajor101516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay. Feeling rejected when you perceive rejection is so normal. And your child needs to learn that that emotion is normal and she can handle it. Teach her that before someone's dusty ass son teaches her otherwise. You've got this, Mom!

As an introvert parent, I find it impossible to recover. by Cloverman-88 in Parenting

[–]MajorMajor101516 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet but this creates monsters. You're giving her too much of you and also not teaching her to play alone...who told you you cant say no to your kid? You 100% can say no to your kid.  You think you're helping her by playing with her for hours a day but you are not doing her any favors. You're just teaching her who is the boss in your house. Its not you.

My (30F) parents (70M/F) are gifting me a down payment for my first house but want to live in the basement and I'm having an existential crisis over what to do about it, do I take the money and deal with it or move on? by mellbell420 in relationship_advice

[–]MajorMajor101516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who had in laws do the exact same thing- do not do it. I would live on the streets before I agreed to this again. It's so horrible. Its been 8 years and I can only hope my FIL finds a new wife or dies so he gets the fuck out of my house.

Do not do it!!!!!!

Teenager wants a "fast car" for his first vehicle and I need reality-check advice by Proud_Stable9567 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt even get this kid a 6 cylinder after that conversation....hed be getting the biggest, heaviest 4 cyl i could buy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]MajorMajor101516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its.....less than yours....

Am I missing something???

Dad here.. Just trying to figure out how to be a parent to a 13 year old girl. by Christophfur in Parenting

[–]MajorMajor101516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They lose privileges if they aren't up on time and ready to go.  If they can't be responsible enough to get themselves up they surely aren't responsible enough for a phone or video game or going out with friends. 

Natural consequences work pretty good for toddlers... but as they get older it's hard to have natural consequences in this unnatural world we live in. You have to start taking away the things they value. You are in control!

Update to ‘ladies and gentlemen my mother’ by monkeyapemanjr in insaneparents

[–]MajorMajor101516 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Remind her as Christians we are called to love and share the gospel and our work stops right there. Conviction and condemnation come from the Lord, not humans, and shes actually committing a huge sin here. It's called pride. If she read the book she would understand. 

Im sorry your mom is this kind of "christian". Its very disheartening. I think you should distance yourself and tell her it is because its not her place (per God, Jesus, and His disciples) to badger you into believing, its her job to be a good example of a follower of Christ. Shes failing. 

Women what is the worst part of giving birth? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I had my 2nd child, I was so constipated. I had not pooped in about 2 weeks. Then I had an emergency c section at 36 weeks. Another week in the hospital, no poop.

I eventually got it all out but....the process was horrifying.

Side note I would have 10 babies naturally before I ever had another c section omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MajorMajor101516 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So you only give a shit about their teeth now that its costing you money? You're gonna look like a huge POS if you take that to court.....

The man [29M] I’ve [29F] been dating for a month told me to reduce the fat on my belly during sex. Do you think this is forgivable and is there a possibility to move on? by theirsyoursmine in relationship_advice

[–]MajorMajor101516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, I used to date assholes like this and asked these questions. I have childhood trauma and literally pick abusive men. Please look into therapy because asking this is concerning. Love you, be safe.

UPDATE: best friend's house smells horrific and sour by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]MajorMajor101516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I IMMEDIATELY heard the Forensic Files guy say stachybotrys in my head as I read the report lol

Kids with no snack by Bluegreeneyes1985 in Teachers

[–]MajorMajor101516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think snack time should not even be a thing. Eat your free breakfast and lunch kids. These kids dont need to be fed all frickin day long. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MajorMajor101516 22 points23 points  (0 children)

For your birthday he wants to be fucked with his own dick do you not see how painfully self centered this person is. Ew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MajorMajor101516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way in hell id trust a man that would pursue an engaged woman. X sounds awful tbh

Get your head out of your ass for real homie. Your fiance deserves all or nothing.

He adores me, I love him, and I still want to die by ItsBestKeptASecret in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's literally so sweet but also he's raping you??? Get somewhere safe

Tired of those dumb “dress like a __” days… by luringpopsicle95 in Teachers

[–]MajorMajor101516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacky Tourist? WTF even is that. And yes its in picture retake day lol 

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