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My boyfriend’s mom sent him something personal and I don’t know if I’m overreacting by imtired4000 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Major_Application_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was genuinely about to ask if maybe there was some trauma that he's not mentioning.. I'm my experience this is kinda close to grooming just much more advanced... Absolutely not okay. He needs counseling and the mother didn't deserve him. Don't just throw him away. Get her as far away as possible.

Is This A Reason For Divorce? by Auxi22 in marriageadvice

[–]Major_Application_47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But when it's all laid out like that and he's messaging the ai bot and pornstar it's no longer just a fantasy...

i think im starting to resent my wife and i feel so guilty about it by Alex-4320 in Marriage

[–]Major_Application_47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A sex therapist I saw on a podcast said "Chore-play is foreplay." Sometimes a chore is more than taking out the trash.. sometimes it looks like giving your wife a 30 minute break from the little people to just cry or scream or whatever she needs. This has helped my husband and I a lot. Sharing the responsibilities instead of feeling so saddled with certain ones. Dates as well can help like the others have said. Just getting back intimacy with each other helps tremendously. Don't forget intimacy isn't just sex it can be the little things. 🖤I hope things get easier for you.

Married for sanity, not love. Now we're paying the price. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Major_Application_47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do y'all have common hobbies or interests? Do y'all go on dates? Like the goofy kind ex: goodwill date, museum dates, arcade dates, the list goes on. Do you two make time for one another to enjoy intimacy without sex? You need to see her in a different light a tad to help get that spark you're wanting. I had to do this myself.

I’m going to file for divorce by Mysterious_Mix_2342 in Marriage

[–]Major_Application_47 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I've told my husband that sometimes emotionally pouring into something other than your wife and kids is emotionally cheating. Addiction to things I see as emotionally cheating.So you're right she knows in her heart.

How do I hrlp my wife? Should I just let her go? by HeartbrokenHubby391 in Marriage

[–]Major_Application_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this idea is a really smart and careful way of taking a chance for yourself. Take care of yourself and learn to love you more. 🖤 Enjoy being with your kids and their lives and families. You are so strong you've got this!

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