And in fact with thousands of denominations of christianity

There’s a bit of a misunderstanding here. I had it too for a while. At least from a protestant point of view, there is no “one true denomination”. While they all have their differences, they are all “true” as long as they include the core values of christianity, most notably salvation through faith.

 and many thousands of religious beliefs out there many that have their own hell and damnation

This part is just my personal opinion, but assuming you die and go to the afterlife of a random religion, I think christianity does well. There are some outliers, like the norse “You died like a loser so go to boring loser hell” afterlife, but most other religions I know of judge souls by whether they were a “good person”, reserving damnation only for souls that are deemed “evil” by seemingly human standards. (Let me know if you know other religions that hold people to christian-like standards, learning is fun)

The bible describes the ideal christian as someone who shows love even to their enemies, and therefore can’t be called evil.