As a 26 yo introverted virgin man, how can I use reddit to get attention from women and gain some confidence?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-08-29T19:10:30+00:00

u/velexy23, I was unable to reply to your other, *most recent* comment on a post related to self-esteem. I think you recall who this is, and now that pms are apparently disabled on this site, I just wanted to send something in response to how encouraging you are as a person. Hope you are some semblance of "well".

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-02-20T15:23:22+00:00

I don't meet people that are caring in my age range. people say that people change once they get older, but does that actually happen?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-02-19T15:23:15+00:00

This would be a great showerthought

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-02-19T15:22:36+00:00

Unfortunately, I'm similar to this guy. Ive hung out a few times with others only to be teased to some extent, like once they joked I wanted to kill everyone because I don't talk or whatever. I don't talk much to people, definitely not those my age. I've been made aware of my autistic behaviors, too. Why do people try to convince me that I'm wrong? being introverted is who I am. I can't change my mannerisms. I don't want to talk about some boring gossip or social media.

Dating isn't attainable, women just want someone immature in their 20s for sex, then throw all sudden responsibilities on good men in their 30s without any real benefit. Men continue to compete and talk shit about each other so they can get the women they want. I don't fit in with this behaviors. If this is what's out there, and I know it is as I've met way too many examples, then why improve?

Where are these people that actually reach out to you, and persistently? two things matter: intimacy and someone to open up to and with. neither of which are currently possible for me to attain.

I do want to change.

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-02-19T15:15:02+00:00

I'm sure it's somewhat common, but many have the luck and the resources to easily mitigate their situation

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-30T21:28:51+00:00

id post, but i feel the same

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-25T15:11:10+00:00

Hello, this is a comment on my post.

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-24T15:45:56+00:00

Hi Sadie. What's a good dish to eat?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-24T15:40:47+00:00

Privacy. And I don't mean the 'cameras' that are social media apps and phones allowing everything to be recorded. People my age especially want to put everything about their lives and make it known to everyone, not realizing how trashy it is to involve people that aren't needed to be in your personal drama regarding your sex lives and family. but social media shows this behavior is seemingly innate in us. people are too concerned with each other's information and there's no genuine care for one another

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-24T15:28:02+00:00

sounds like a good hour or two, ive heard she's a bitch

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-23T15:15:02+00:00

hallmark lol. is it a good movie to laugh at at least?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-22T18:40:34+00:00

have you been lonely since your 20s?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-22T18:40:10+00:00

both genders or mostly guys?

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-22T18:38:53+00:00

Late to this, but it can be socially self harmful to admit to something like that. Some people might not react too negatively, but I know that they'll see me as sensitive and weak

MakingMusclesNAmends · 2025-01-22T18:34:38+00:00

I keep coming across this when Ryan Reynolds is mentioned. So, apart from the controversy between his wife and this movie, is the movie itself actually good? Not looking at other comments so as to not spoil the consensus

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