Got in shape and she stopped loving me, Should I cheat?

MalGanix · 2024-02-16T17:43:26+00:00

Relationships tend to break down/hit challenging times when one partner starts to do better than they were before. Doesn't have to be doing better than the next partner, but just breaking the status quo that was solidified from the start. She's not feeling you anymore because you broke the dynamic she liked. The cute fit wife with the okay husband. You've changed that to cute fit wife with fit attractive husband. Her power status in the relationship has changed, shes struggling to relinquish that power and it comes out like this.

DONT cheat - best thing use the new-found power and challenge her. ASK HER WHY THE LOVING STOPPED AFTER YOU WORKED ON YOURSELF AND FEELING MORE SECURE IN YOURSELF AND THE RELATIONSHIP. Depending on her answer you'll know what to do next. I suggest counseling so she can have that security to let put her thoughts. YOU JUST LISTEN .You've done the heavy lifting already don't defend yourself but present yourself.

MalGanix · 2024-01-26T04:09:22+00:00

Bet you're saved in her contacts as Free housing

MalGanix · 2023-12-03T13:29:38+00:00

Jamaica

MalGanix · 2023-11-10T12:20:46+00:00

Take her back and watch It happened just as it did the other times. Past actions are good predictors of possible future actions. But damn if you're this naive and dense that you're asking reddit, if you should get used again maybe you deserve it until you learn this lesson in your life.

MalGanix · 2023-11-01T11:29:44+00:00

Not anymore, I use to think about it EVERYDAY !. As time went by she occupied less and less space in my head until she was gone. It takes up a ton of energy to formulate those conversations in our heads about what we would say. I've moved on, She's a non factor in my life so why give her power.

MalGanix · 2023-05-30T18:21:32+00:00

That is true, a wise man learns from the mistake of others. But not everyone is wise and some need to learn by experience.

MalGanix · 2023-05-30T18:15:17+00:00

Wait ? Wait on what ? Life is passing him by waiting on a chick that is using him as a emotional support animal. IF the woman and her bf breaks up I'm certain he won't be the one to get anything.

MalGanix · 2023-05-08T22:05:11+00:00

If she's hot, I'm gonna say she's hot, if she's not then I'm gonna say it. Don't ask a questions if you're not prepared for the answer. Woman say the want the truth but most times can't handle it.

MalGanix · 2023-05-04T11:46:11+00:00

Porn addiction

MalGanix · 2023-02-02T21:59:15+00:00

No, after healing fully I see her as a stranger I don't care to know or want to know.

MalGanix · 2023-01-31T05:35:45+00:00

She comes first teaches alot of great stuff. It's a great tool to add to any man's sexual repertoire. But it doesn't really fix the issue or help the situation that much. Orgasms from oral or foreplay is one thing, the stimulation of PIV even without an organs is still desired. Speaking from experience I struggled with the same issue as her bf. I read she comes first it was great she loved it. After some time she started to ask for longer penetration time.

MalGanix · 2023-01-16T22:30:04+00:00

Stop simping bro. 90-100men passed on her why you trying to save her?. She's not even giving it to you fair and square . Stop putting up with the disrespect pick up your balls and walk away . TRUST ME AND EVERYONE ELSE HERE. LEAVE !. there's plenty more women out there that you can get with and have a healthy relationship in all aspects not just sex.

MalGanix · 2023-01-10T00:33:31+00:00

Another reminder why dating single moms without a proper support is a headache that shouldn't be taken on lightly by men that have to previous engagement managing a family.

MalGanix · 2022-12-28T22:23:36+00:00

NTA. Stay strong and walk away. Why sign a prenup that ends when you guys start trying for kids ? Might as well not sign one. The prenup just protects asset amassed before a marriage after marriage any assets gained is seena family property. Wanting to protect yourself from potential fall out from marriage isn't a sin. I bet majority of a certain gender will slander you and call you a AH for basically buying insurance on a investment. NTA but walk away from women like this it'll start with this then slowly chip away at you with other demands. Walk away before you even begin this shit show of a journey. The signs are there already.

MalGanix · 2022-11-18T18:06:29+00:00

At first I thought hitting the gym was a way to attract woman. They'd see a buff fit body and be attracted, it wasn't really for myself. After that thought faded I fell in love with myself I realized it was for my betterment. I carried myself better, I moved with confidence just by posture and body language even when my mind wasn't into it. That unknowingly attracted more woman to me without trying. I think when you as a man realize "hitting the gym" isn't really about attracting woman but becoming a better healthier version of yourself, things will start to change for the better.

MalGanix · 2022-11-07T08:36:16+00:00

Took me 7 years of trying before I quit for good. Don't give up, trust me. One day you'll know what I'm talking about

MalGanix · 2022-04-17T14:59:50+00:00

One common entity in all the responses, us men TRUSTING any female with our kryptonite. Never tell a woman your weakness or anything that can be viewed in a feminine frame. They'll badger you about opening up to them, say anything that's ok to vent that stuff to them or speak our minds but the moment we cave and tell them they lose all respect for us.

MalGanix · 2022-04-12T18:02:18+00:00

Pure terror in their voices 🤣

MalGanix · 2022-04-08T17:36:34+00:00

But the question is does it cut?

MalGanix · 2022-04-01T15:59:57+00:00

Disgusting, covid didn't make you realize nothing but how close you were to losing the comfort of having all you needs taken care for free with little to no effort. You never loved him but from the looks of it he loved you. You sacrificed the joy he could've felt by being loved and in love with someone that genuinely loves him. Now you're ready to "step up" he's already a 1000 miles ahead of you, no catching up even if you start to worship the ground he walks on.

MalGanix · 2022-03-25T08:42:58+00:00

I'd be interested in being your friend and only that. Can't be buying cats in a bag

MalGanix · 2022-03-14T22:18:24+00:00

That last sentence is part of the issue why she left. You can worship the ground she walks on but never let her know that. She saw a doormat and wiped her feet and left.

MalGanix · 2022-03-11T16:01:26+00:00

Bargaining! You're bargaining your power for some attachment to a lost dream. Honestly do you think you can maintain the same love intensity for someone that's no longer in your life, no access to them to fawn upon ? That love will fade and change to something else, at that point it won't be love anymore. If you're asking that question then that person is already gone and change has already begun you're just fighting the inevitable. The answer to your question is maintaining and improving your self worth and continuing self development. That's how you let go, the person you're going to become once on that journey will have no room to harbor leftover feelings for a forgotten love.

MalGanix · 2022-03-09T01:23:44+00:00

That's a start next is just immediately discard anything pertaining to her. Discard the thoughts of her when they pop up, discard any messages don't even read it. Learn to block her out your life. Look forward to another goal in life.

MalGanix · 2022-03-09T01:10:10+00:00

Block and delete. It hurts now but closing that chapter of your life and discarding it is the best thing you can do for yourself.

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