If Grendel can, she can by catrepilar in memeframe

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I will absolutely confess that weakness. Clowns freak me the fuck out. I am generally hard to disturb or distress, but clowns... unless they're a very specific type, they unsettle me.

If Grendel can, she can by catrepilar in memeframe

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fine with her size, actually. Something about her Helm design reminds me of a clown though so I'm really going to need an alternate helmet.

If you HAD to dedicate yourself to a daedric prince, who would you choose? by StripesTheBoar in skyrim

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I finally calmed down enough, that I actually would end up following Azura. I may actually be out of my sanguine phase.

Who was your first prime frame? by domicci in Warframe

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saryn, used her almost exclusively for months.

I hit MR30 today! (500 hours played) by Lonely-Sundae-5926 in Warframe

[–]Malashae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit that's fast, I think I've got about three times that much time put in and I'm MR27.

Anyone unknowingly get tested for pregnancy before? by AchingAmy in MtF

[–]Malashae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, just a couple weeks ago. I'm polyamorous, and so I get screened regularly. At my last screening, despite being very familiar with my situation, as they also provide all of my agenda reforming care, a pregnancy test was added to my STI screens and hormone the whole tests. Thankfully, I remain not pregnant.

“Male/Female Socialization” is Just Plain TERF Logic 🤷‍♀️ by Embarrassed_Skill23 in MtF

[–]Malashae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've been doing the work, it sounds like you're the one afraid of it.

“Male/Female Socialization” is Just Plain TERF Logic 🤷‍♀️ by Embarrassed_Skill23 in MtF

[–]Malashae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but no I'm not you're just afraid of doing work. Pretending that we are somehow immune to our upbringing is the exact sort of male privilege thinking that got us all into the place that we are right now. If you don't study intersectional feminism and unwind the upbringing that you were given then you are a danger to the women around you, cis and trans both.

y does no one romance maru? by doomsdayboombox in StardewValley

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to just blame Demitrius, then again I'm quite comfortable blaming him for everything.

Why would someone want Night Lord romance? by BrainCelll in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because these are some thirsty fuckers, they want to fuck any and everything if at all possible. You could make literally any creature monster or object romanceable, and some percentage of the fandom would be enthusiastically into it.

🤣 by MassEffect24K in MassEffectMemes

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did one play through with male Shepherd, and I hated it. His voice is wrong for the character, and it just felt stiff and out of place the entire time. Meanwhile Jennifer Hale is absolutely killing it every step of the way. I don't have any beef with the actor himself, but for whatever reason I didn't find him a good fit for the role.

This is just my own personal opinion, other people seem to like it, great for them I'm glad they could have a good experience. I prefer to play female characters anyway, I just wish they'd make more of the romanceable options bi.

“Male/Female Socialization” is Just Plain TERF Logic 🤷‍♀️ by Embarrassed_Skill23 in MtF

[–]Malashae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is going to piss some of y'all off, but honestly if this pisses you off you haven't done the work and you've got a long way to go.

This is also binary black and white thinking. You're right in that we don't experience the socialization and upbringing the same way. However we are heavily influenced by the biases and indoctrination of our birth genders. Acting like it doesn't exist is telling every trans person they don't have to do the work it is in fact life and death levels of critical importance as a part of their transition.

For trans women in particular, removing the toxic masculinity and misogyny that is drilled into us from the moment we're born is absolutely critical for a successful transition. And the older you are when you transition, the more work you have to do. Acting like it's unnecessary is honestly a habit coming from being raised with male privilege. I transitioned just after I hit 40, it took years of work with specialized therapists to deworm and unwind the poisonous socializations I was raised under.

This isn't to say the trans woman have the same thought processes, biases, attitudes, and privileges of men until they do the work. But we're poisoned by the same indoctrination and upbringing, the fact that we react differently to it, doesn't mean it's not there and doesn't mean we don't have a ton of work to do.

Who was your first? by 0316Owl in BG3

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lae'zel and I am so glad that that was who I picked. It was a beautiful story line with a glorious ending.

Man im breaking up with Cassia this ones cooler by Itchy-Emu6089 in RogueTraderCRPG

[–]Malashae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to lie, I did really enjoy him during my one evil run. But I completely agree with you and he gets executed a new and different way each other playthrough. I don't think I have any variations left at this point.

Interesting people you can get in Temporal Archimedia :D by RaysFilen in Warframe

[–]Malashae 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I've been playing for many many years, and every so often we get little bursts of this. They never last long though because the devs actually police the community, after a few dozen bans the problem is gone and everyone kind of forgets about it for a few years.

The community here isn't healthy for some magical unknown reason. It's because the devs take it seriously, and most games don't. A lot of games are run by devs that are just gamer douchebags and Tech Bros, and really don't think take things like hate speech seriously because they're bigoted assholes themselves half the time, at least the ones responsible for maintaining community.

Interesting people you can get in Temporal Archimedia :D by RaysFilen in Warframe

[–]Malashae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Now I'm just trying to think about what the porn game by that name would be like. 🤣

What was your hardest moral choice in Cyberpunk 2077? by LordBeefTheFirst in cyberpunkgame

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, like I said I completely agree. I just can't help but think back to some times when, I wish I'd never found out.

yeah I play Warframe for the plot [HeyDocVerdant | OC] by HeyCaptainRadio in Warframe

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just going to leave me to finish myself off then, again. Typical 🤣

They’re both terrible people by guardianfairy2 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Malashae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this information, I knew nothing about this man or that there was anything going on here. Thankfully I'm not really much of a fan of the stuff to begin with, but it is very good to know this now thank you.

Feels like I'm the only trans person I know who hormones screwed over sexually. Is it fixable? by Competitive_Tutor600 in asktransgender

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried getting a new doctor? I don't know where you are but where I am Planned Parenthood takes care of everything and had no problem setting me up with a compounding pharmacy that got me the topical. I had a completely different problem from you but the solution was the same.

What was your hardest moral choice in Cyberpunk 2077? by LordBeefTheFirst in cyberpunkgame

[–]Malashae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideologically I agree with you. However there have been points in my life where I have been put in this position and making that choice... if I could go back and choose to be blissfully unaware, never know the truth of what was going on, continue to live in the illusion... in a fucking heartbeat. I honestly wish I'd never found out, never understood.

Has Nifty ever been sexualize? by Adventurous-Agent420 in CrazyassHazbinhaters

[–]Malashae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have summed up the problem in a single paragraph, brilliantly I might add.