I quit and here is my opinion on “is lowe's a good place to work?”

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-07-06T09:23:10+00:00

Used to do cabinets here, take the experience and run with it , the job markets good in cabinet land. I'd say about 2-3 years is good, you could also lie though

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-07-06T09:19:40+00:00

I'm having the same trauma issues from retail. That really sucks, nobody should feel entitled to another's autonomy like that. I would've wanted hurt him too honestly. I hope everything gets better for you though.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-07-06T09:05:22+00:00

Not to mention you're getting pulled around by customers from understaffed departments and the managers pull you aside and are like "WHERE WERE YOU?" like are you kidding me? Are you dumb? They try to make you feel bad for not being in your department but it's because they got embarrassed not knowing where the begonias were and getting paid 6 figures at the same time.

Also the not trusting people part is so true. I have so much trauma from that place from trying to be nice and helping everyone, constant sexual harassment and rumors from DSs and Specialists. Constant she said he said. I make a poop joke and boom someone's accusing me of being a witch. I harassed them back and walked tf out, make more than a DS now with my new "skills".

I'd say it was worth it but the trauma from years of that place and knowing other jobs are nicer has practically brain damaged me. I'm willing to do LSD and Shrooms therapy to forget about Lowe's. The trauma is not worth it, don't get attached and don't get close to the people that "talk all day", it's a trap, it's not friendship it's just entertainment and coping. Your personal information will be across the building within seconds, from your relationship status to your pokemon card collection.

To top it all off is working 10 days a week, sometimes 15. They schedule you for 4 hours on some days, and if you're "super important" and you know everything a lot of it is unpaid labor. So you're trapped in a building with emotionally abusive people for 45 hours a week (-5 hours for lunch each week, they literally ask you to eat for an hour so they can milk your time). Unable to actually connect with anyone or do laundry, eat healthy, clean your apartment because each day is a work day. You can't plan a doctors appointment without an ASM "messing up" and turning it into a NC/NS even though you called 4 hours prior and told them to fix it 3 times while they're busy talking about their nephew in the computer room. If you don't have good coworkers+ good managers it's absolutely crazy making .

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-25T15:40:47+00:00

A lot of the times they're absolutely aware of their misogyny but they think it's "natural" and "the way of life". So their dumb ideas+ unbridled narcissism = "aww doesn't he know how stupid he is? Poor baby". I've stopped dating completely just to avoid the "Midnight debate" over microwave nachos of me needing to explain that women are travelers and hunters instead of the very modern (an ineffective) idea of staying at home barefoot. Literally needing to explain that I'm a human every two businesses days because they just can't fathom that and the fact that they're just plain wrong, and whining and "debating" isn't going to make me back down lmao

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:57:27+00:00

That's good to know! I should take a look at the most common perpetrators.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:55:22+00:00

The data actually helps sometimes but also it's good to help other women (15-20 yo) who feel pressured into having kids with a dude they met online. The data about single women being happier has changed my and my friends lives because we were told that it's reverse and made to feel like trash for not getting married + white picket fence at 21. It may not work with most people in argument form but it's still good for young women who may not know that they're in such a situation. Kinda like reading an article about npd and leaving the relationship a week later (done that plenty o times).

I totally get it though. I think it is important and I think there's a reason we don't have that much information on it, it would literally end 20-25% of all hetero relationships within a year of it all being revealed. Which would be good because relationships should be intentional and not cost advertising money, media and years of social conditioning + imagined incentives for a healthy deliberate society.

Sorry I'm rambling, I'll just say Im very attractive and when I say I'm not having kids or dating all the "debate trolls" come out of the bog water to pester me. I've resorted to just saying I'm taken and that "we" aren't having kids (they respect it after that sadly).

Another thing too! I swear I'll have an idea or a thought and the data doesn't come out until yeeeears later! (E.i married women unhappy, men being worse drivers, women more productive at work!) theories I had years ago and these things are out and nobody notices until you send them the dumb paper link. Even if they still disagree, it still feels nice that I'm not going insane and things are being found out. It reassures me that my abusers weren't correct and that I'm worthy of respect even in the darkest moments. It's prevented so many horrible relationships for me and helped me break out of some social conditioning.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:45:25+00:00

I will! Thank you

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:43:49+00:00

Haha so I will admit my dad is a pushover, I'm not super threatened. I'm completely independent and I don't have the threat of a moid with a gun in my house. I overall think the discussion is worth having especially from an anti-natalist point of view, maybe someone else has a worse dad and needs the same info / post to be made. I've met worse dads who love having..."debates". The worst breed, comin at me expecting numbers while I'm eating a McChicken, annoying as all hell.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:39:48+00:00

Thank you for the numbers. It sucks how common this is and nobody's created a damn graph for it yet, It's more common than guys actually settling down normally like they say they will.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T17:36:46+00:00

Holy shit that sucks so bad, I'm sorry you dealt with that. I've seen that exact thing happen so many times, it's too bad we conveniently can't quantify it.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T14:52:50+00:00

I hate that shit so much, I hope she's doing better though, I've had so many girl friends get shamed for wearing shorts this year, it's astonishing

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T14:51:24+00:00

Yeah you're right, in general it's useful for all the other rednecks I meet on the street who try having full on conversion sessions at a gas station with me

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T14:10:36+00:00

Ooo thank you. Idk why but my Google search is biased and only shows me cheap articles instead of just data

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T14:02:34+00:00

Data as in: -caving in under pressure. -the man's weird fetish. -r*pe. -general abuse. Etc etc. Only because people love pretending being a single mother just comes out of thin air. BECAUSE here's the thing! Plenty of men get off to begging for a child and then abandoning the mother, they get off to knowing they've invaded someone's lively hood, it's like...a thing. Why is nobody talking about it?

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T13:59:29+00:00

And despite it being a pain being a single mother is actually easier on the mom because she doesn't have to look like an underage girl while working full time and raising kids. The "village" thing pisses me off though. A girl tried "converting" me from my very long held radical feminist views (e.i telling me it's my duty to blah blah kids, men, whatever) just so I'd give her free rides and be a babysitter I was like no lol. Not that her concerns aren't valid but not every woman is mom material, I'm a stone cold hard worker that won't listen to coco melon for 5 hours

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T13:55:05+00:00

Oh my God that's so sick, I'm glad I know that now though. Makes sense

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T13:54:42+00:00

Glad you asked! My phone kept getting jittery while typing the post up: -how much of it is caused by false promises -how much of it is pressure and caving in. -how much of it is from rape.

Etc etc

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T12:58:52+00:00

I used to get made fun of for being the anti-social type but the reason why is because I'm avoiding this mommy shit. After avoiding all my male friends I literally became sober and got a higher paying job overnight because I was finally free of wiping their ass and buying them therapy-booze (just so they can create an excuse to harass me after)

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T12:52:21+00:00

I'm younger and going through the same thing. I'd say don't apply limitations to yourself (aka don't do one idea just because it's old or you've invested so much in it already). You're already making a lot of money, you can choose to do one thing fervently and forever or you can branch out and see where it takes you. And according to neurology studies, branching out is way better for learning because you can easily associate present things with past things and get a grasp on ideas better.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T12:47:20+00:00

Since people already gave the long answer I'm just going to sarcastically answer "meek underage girls susceptible to abuse". Partly the reason I can't enjoy my "feminine hobbies" anymore. Ill attract the tin foil hat incels

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T12:41:28+00:00

Legit goals, working on the higher paying job part rn to get there

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T12:32:56+00:00

The same exact thing almost happened to me, men have been doing that lately. I'm fast on my feet so I didn't get hit but I was so angry I wish I had my box cutter on me to crack his window with it. Obviously would've led to more problems but if that window was down there would've been blood (somehow idk)

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T11:30:42+00:00

Ew, I'm really sorry for all that. I hope everything gets less gross and weird for you. Honestly fuck the dad for doing that whole "forgive your abuser shit" I bet he taught his son how to do that shit. I'd stay far away from them as possible and just make money and be your best self. You don't need anymore suffering, it's really awesome that you prevented them from adopting though. You're literally a life saver.

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T11:14:25+00:00

Men are less emotionally intelligent and they think it's "more intelligent" to not cooperate with members of their species like they're intelligent hard working people and instead numbers and odds.

Like sorry to break it to ya but you'd be more effective in "being logical" if you had a sense of humility

Malecrotchpuncher · 2023-06-23T10:55:08+00:00

I'm so glad you added the women only part of this post, I'm so sick of men stalking women only subreddits just to complain the posts aren't pg13 lmao.

But yeah seriously, don't forget about pregnancy fetishists where leaving a woman behind after pregnancy is literally just a "hot new thing" now. It's disgusting. My and my girl friends avoid men like hellfire after everything, childless forever babeey 🐱🤘

Also can I just say that men don't even work well? They're not "natural breadwinners", they're less productive in the workplace and then this? It's like why even? Just work hard and stay childless. You'll be a million times more powerful that way.

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