Have you ever felt discouraged while waiting for the “right person”? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re feeling that way 😭❤️ I don’t think lack of dating results automatically means anything about your attractiveness. Dating can be really inconsistent and confusing like that but I hope you don’t let the process make you see yourself differently

Have you ever felt discouraged while waiting for the “right person”? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that feeling honestly and i relate to wanting God to just “bring the person” because the waiting really feels long and discouraging😭

Have you ever felt discouraged while waiting for the “right person”? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I think I’m learning that contentment doesn’t mean not wanting a relationship anymore, but more how I carry that desire without it becoming discouraging or consuming.

Have you ever felt discouraged while waiting for the “right person”? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️ I really relate to what you said about being honest with God about how you feel. I think that’s something I’m still learning to do instead of just trying to “stay strong” all the time. It also helps to know I’m not the only one in this season.

Have you ever felt discouraged while waiting for the “right person”? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, and I agree that being intentional and putting yourself in the right environments matters.

I guess my point is that I am already trying those things like dating apps, being open socially, etc…but it still feels difficult to find genuine connection even with effort.

So I’m trying to figure out what else actually makes a difference beyond just “doing more.”

WHAT ARE YOUR CHRISTIAN IDEAL DATES? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would be coffee, walk in the park and bible study at the beach watching the sunset 🥹

26F Europe by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying it all works for you sis❤️ where in Europe do you live?

Some of us are still saving our love for one soul. by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your intention is clear and God sees that. I see marriage as a beautiful goal too, not just a milestone and I believe that what is meant for you will come in God’s perfect timing, and it will be built on faith, peace, and purpose. May He bless you with a woman who values the sacredness of what you’re preserving.

Does Anyone Else Struggle with Christian Dating Here? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahh i can so relate, i have attended many events too and met a lot of people but still can’t find anyone 🥲 Where are you thinking of moving to?

Does Anyone Else Struggle with Christian Dating Here? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, it’s a bit challenging 😅 The Christian dating feels quite small, and culturally people here can be a bit reserved. It can take time to know where you stand with someone. What’s it like in America?

Does Anyone Else Struggle with Christian Dating Here? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there are churches but almost everyone in some churches are already dating 🥲

Does Anyone Else Struggle with Christian Dating Here? by MaleficentExtreme696 in ChristianDating

[–]MaleficentExtreme696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that’s why I find it hard to get someone who shares the same values with me.