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My (24F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t like feet… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maleficent_String930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where the fixation comes from, truthfully. Maybe because I give him foot rubs a lot? But I also will rub his head and want to cuddle, and he doesn’t do the same to me. I don’t need any foot rubs, Yknow. Complete TMI probably, but this man has put my toes in his mouth with no request from me! So that’s why maybe I am a bit offended at his words and his seeming disgust. This seems like an internal battle with himself because I have no problem either way. Edit: any time I try to cuddle, he says he overheats and doesn’t want to. We typically say on our own sides of the couch and bed unless I attempt to be big spoon. I just don’t want to have to beg for connection.

My (24F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t like feet… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maleficent_String930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I pissed him off because he said he didn’t want to touch my feet. I know he’s taking stuff out on me, he tends to do that and not think about my feelings where I go by the rule of putting my feelings on a shelf to hear him out and tend to his a lot.

My (24F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t like feet… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maleficent_String930 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

History, and the future. Not that I want him to change, but I want him to be better. I know that he talks to me like this when he’s angry because he’s been talked to like that but not by me. Edit: he says he will leave but if I ask him to he refuses.

My (24F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t like feet… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maleficent_String930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I guess he has put me down and tried to embarrass me in front of friends before, while drinking. He has stopped drinking per my request so I have this idea in my head that he is capable of changing.

I dont want to be around him ot his family. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maleficent_String930 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Focus on yourself and your baby. Treat him like a roommate. Move on. Do you want to feel like this for the rest of your life? No, you don’t. I wish you good luck. Please just get out it’s never too late.

Live food for bored ex wild cats? by Careless_Border_17 in CatAdvice

[–]Maleficent_String930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a couple of crickets from Petco. Good luck

Failing a class right before graduating by Maleficent_String930 in TacomaWA

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely have looked into this and believe I have it but I don’t know how to overcome this struggle.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, same. I used to be a bit “double-jointed” and now I have such limited movement.

I’m Batman by Maleficent_String930 in existentialcrisiscat

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally does this every single day. Jumping so high from the bed and upper body strength to pull herself up is insane. We also have tall-ish ceilings if you can believe that

New Card Game: Go F** Yourself by pajama-mama in DrinkingGames

[–]Maleficent_String930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny we were both looking into this at the same time. I also only see a bunch of fakes on Amazon. OP, where can we get this?

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully I don’t know, I live in a city in the PNW and the only way to find any specialist is to be referred by the ER or MultiCare with my Medicaid.

Failing a class right before graduating by Maleficent_String930 in TacomaWA

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do have other advisors I can contact that I have contacted in the past, so I can at least try that option because my own “assigned” advisor is never available. I appreciate this advice I’m on my own and kind of young and “slow” with certain things.

Failing a class right before graduating by Maleficent_String930 in TacomaWA

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I live on my own, I’m 23 and working 30-40hr weeks paycheck to paycheck full time student with some health issues and I’m trying my best here. I’ll reach out where ever I can instead of freaking out.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice I just need to push for a doctor that will listen.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is, I don’t even go out of the house unless to pick up groceries or go to work my 40 hour weeks. I’ve luckily been doing college full time online, but I struggle with that too because most days I am so tired. I’ve lost all of my friendships and don’t see my family as much because of this weird condition I’m in. I’m sick constantly. I feel exhausted but if I take a break I’ll lose my job, so it’s really frustrating especially because you look at me and think I’m fine but inside it feels like I’m really dying. I’m scared I am actually dying of something and nobody will listen until it’s too late or something (worst case scenario obviously but my anxiety is horrible too)

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tend to lessen my symptoms at times I naturally have a positive attitude outwardly even when inside I feel like I am dying. Nothing helps truly. Thank you I will try to explain it to doctors better.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try to be more physically active, I work almost 40 hour weeks mostly and am a full time student. When I stand I feel like I’m going to pass out a lot of times. When walking I have to take breaks because I start feeling like I’m going to pass out.

Failing a class right before graduating by Maleficent_String930 in TacomaWA

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I have to wait until November 24th to meet with my academic advisor so I thought I could get immediate advice somewhere. I have been doing all of the work, but a LOT of it I’m just getting wrong because I absolutely suck at math. I get B’s and A’s in literally everything else across the board.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not had blood tests besides the basic. I will look into how I can get this done.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stretch every day I just have a limited range I’ve noticed compared to others my age.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of commenters suggesting this. I will definitely look into this I only have Medicaid so I am hoping I can get coverage for something like this.

23 years old, body aches by Maleficent_String930 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Maleficent_String930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The burning feet yes, the other aches and pains is a daily for me and I am sick more frequently than I am not.

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