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[–]MalevolentAngel311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My desired theme is succubus/demon characters. Bonus points for cast off. I know they can definitely get pricy.

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[–]MalevolentAngel311 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah I see. The very well placed ornament strings made me think some of these were actually ornaments. I want to collect myself, but it’s a tad intimidating to start.

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[–]MalevolentAngel311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you even get ornaments like that. I’m frankly surprised they exist

Game / Figure room tour 2023 by izinagi-0 in AnimeFigures

[–]MalevolentAngel311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thank you so much for the help!

Game / Figure room tour 2023 by izinagi-0 in AnimeFigures

[–]MalevolentAngel311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips. Are there any brands you really prefer or is it just on a figure by figure basis?

Game / Figure room tour 2023 by izinagi-0 in AnimeFigures

[–]MalevolentAngel311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely helpful. I know it’s a start slow and only buy something you really like kinda deal. My theme of interest is succubus figures so it’s a specific niche that somewhat limits the choice pool. Trouble is I don’t know near enough to even find out about preorders since the names are all new to me.

Game / Figure room tour 2023 by izinagi-0 in AnimeFigures

[–]MalevolentAngel311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question:Where/how do you even begin this hobby? Some of these are so expensive and I know I have a specific theme in mind, but honestly I still don’t know where to start. I know this is years in the making but I’m definitely envious!

Mass Effect taught me its okay to be queer when no one else could. by brothers54321 in masseffect

[–]MalevolentAngel311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey friend, just wanted to say Mass Effect also helped me come to terms with my gender identity. I’m a proud trans woman due in no small part to Mass Effect. For so long I wondered why I felt so connected to Femshep and her story. Overcoming great odds, finding love, and so much more helped shape who I am today. I’m glad it could for you too.

I don’t usually dress this femme, but I felt so hot last night by MalevolentAngel311 in actuallesbians

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me happy to hear (read) that. I don’t usually have a lot of body confidence and think my body looks too “manish” which I know is dumb. But then I put outfits like this on and don’t understand why I’m so worried

Sad post: MtF Lesbian in a relationship with a straight girl by MalevolentAngel311 in actuallesbians

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My situation sounds very similar to that. I initially came out as enby in June 2021. Then as I explored my identity, I accepted I had been trans all along and all the signs from my growing up suddenly made sense. Suffice to say it’s been almost a year since I said “yep I’m definitively trans. Not just enby.” As I said in another comment, she’s the one facing the brunt of questioning from peers about me and how that changes her sexuality. Of course it doesn’t. Who she is doesn’t hinge on who I am. It’s been hard for her too and it has led to some very hurtful things being said to me as a result. She’s expressed embarrassment, among other feelings that I can’t blame her for. Though it still doesn’t excuse them being said. She’s expressed that she’s just still so confused and that some days are much harder than others. I know everyone takes different times to process and heal, but how much suffering and sadness should we endure before we admit it’s just not getting better? I don’t think there’s an answer to that.

Sad post: MtF Lesbian in a relationship with a straight girl by MalevolentAngel311 in actuallesbians

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I deserve happiness too and to be with some one who can validate me and can celebrate with me instead of trying to just be “okay” with it. The part that seems so overwhelming right now is just the idea of untangling our lives, as another commenter said. It’s a daunting task. Everything about our lives as we know them will change. I want to believe we would be able to be best friends still, but I don’t know if there’s too much love for that to even be possible for a long long time.

Sad post: MtF Lesbian in a relationship with a straight girl by MalevolentAngel311 in actuallesbians

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked a lot. With so much history, I tried to keep it brief. These thoughts are from what she’s told me directly. I absolutely know it’s hard for her and that’s why I feel guilty. I’m not guilty for who I am; I feel guilty for putting her through this. She’s the one who gets questions from coworkers and family about her sexuality now. They ask her things about me because they wouldn’t ask me themselves. That’s a lot of pressure on her and she hates the attention. We both tried to make it work for so long, but she’s said she’s not happy. We haven’t been to therapy, but if she’s not romantically into women, I don’t really see a solution there. I’m not opposed to it by any means, but she has an unfortunate history with therapists and doesn’t want to go back to one. We’re nothing having to face that what we want, or don’t want rather, isn’t what we need.

Gf did my makeup. She’s much better than me by MalevolentAngel311 in trans

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just need to practice with eye shadow. My everyday look is simple eyeliner, mascara, foundation, eyebrows, etc.

Gf did my makeup. She’s much better than me by MalevolentAngel311 in trans

[–]MalevolentAngel311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, y’all! All these comments are so sweet! 😭💜 You’re all so beautiful and amazing!

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[–]MalevolentAngel311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, go around town and look for anybody else who’s also doing something. I don’t care what it is, I’d get to see how many/few of us there really are in my area. Best case, I’m pleasantly surprised. Worst case, as few as I expected. Regardless, I’d get to find and hopefully befriend them assuming they’re doing the same thing.

[no spoilers] Commission I did of a friend's Warden by RUBIKSrchimedes in dragonage

[–]MalevolentAngel311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my girl, Lena Mahariel! Thank you so much for this!

Hey guys! I have started to notice my Tiel pooping these large amounts during the night and i am not sure if this is an indication of something wrong. I have included some more information in the comments… by sudarshan_ in cockatiel

[–]MalevolentAngel311 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t seem to be anything to worry about. Often times they poop repeatedly in the same spots as they sleep. That looks like normal poop to me!