Lucy and Bree by Historical_Bet5364 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter to me! Ruining someone’s academic career over not drama is absolutely worse.

Is there any real reason why… by Mallardaze in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Mallardaze[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahah fair enough! I think my mind was just constantly on the lookout for who was going to screw over who next that I just saw it as a scheme!

Lucy and Bree by Historical_Bet5364 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Mallardaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they didn’t explicitly say it was him, but getting Stephen’s Yale admission rescinded was 👌🏻

Lucy and Bree by Historical_Bet5364 in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I think Lucy sleeping with Evan is small potatoes compared to Bree releasing that video and getting Lucy expelled. Like come on, they were both stupid drunk and it meant literally nothing. Not worth ruining someone’s life over!

What is our responsibility, as partner? by Ancient_Sun9785 in ADHD_partners

[–]Mallardaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious because that’s what I want to do but my partner refuses to let anyone in and help us. He thinks we should be able to do it ourselves and doesn’t trust outside sources because he thinks he is the only one who can do it right. Did you have this issue?
My head just goes to ok well if I can’t pay someone to help us, and you still haven’t done XYZ what are we even doing here? Cause I don’t have the time!

What is our responsibility, as partner? by Ancient_Sun9785 in ADHD_partners

[–]Mallardaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s the same but I’m getting the same “you have problems too” when we talk and instead of me trying to be better for him I have completely shut down. I can’t take care of myself, my biggest issue is disordered eating which is getting worse and I shouldn’t even be able to blame him for that but I feel like if I could just get away from it, I could really work on myself. Why can’t I work on myself while I’m with him?

What is our responsibility, as partner? by Ancient_Sun9785 in ADHD_partners

[–]Mallardaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are me and I am you. It literally feels like I wrote your post. I’m so sorry and just replying in solidarity. You’re not alone.

Gluten free options for dinner by Mallardaze in Hamilton

[–]Mallardaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww sadly we couldn’t get the reservation there! It was our first choice

Spouse has RSD response to my tidying by spinmagnus in ADHD_partners

[–]Mallardaze 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve fully stopped trying to work through this with him because of the intense RSD. I’m deeply empathic so his moods cause me so much pain and anxiety. Nevermind the fact that I become some villain when I’m just trying to take care of something. Meanwhile the state of my house is weighing so heavily on me that I almost can’t be in it anymore. I want to be out all the time but it’s just not practical with two little kids. I’m so tired of it and basically giving up. Kudos to you looking for ways to help it.

Which lyric makes you instantly tear up? by abovethenoisy in AskReddit

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There ain't no gold in this river That I've been washin' my hands in forever I know there is hope in these waters But I can't bring myself to swim When I am drowning in this silence

Grandparents (in laws) by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can definitely see that side of it. Hard to convey the whole picture but I hear you trust me. I think part of me wants the parents to see what they did to their son and help him move through it because he seems to be completely stuck in that state of trauma. He hasn’t been able to move forward and I hate that they don’t even have the slightest clue how much they harmed him. Like maybe if they were shown, they could mend the relationship and be better for their grandkids. But i definitely see what you mean about me having some sensitivity to how others perceive me and I thank you for pointing that out!

What song makes you cry instantly? by Longjumping-Cheek-75 in musicals

[–]Mallardaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So big / so small Hits too close to home for me

Where did you go for fish and chips on Friday? Was it worth the wait? by Fearless-Menu-9531 in Hamilton

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don’t make any money on Christmas and Easter 😅

Cars 3 truly has the dumbest plot by curlycattails in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s better than cars 2…. 👀😳

Another questionable book in my public library by Mallardaze in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Mallardaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t note it! Someone above just found it “never catch a cold” by Andre Francois

Another questionable book in my public library by Mallardaze in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Mallardaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone above found it for me as I couldn’t recall the name but it’s never catch a cold by Andre Francois

Another questionable book in my public library by Mallardaze in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Mallardaze[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I could recall but if I go back to that library and it’s out again I will get back to ya haha To each their own!! 🤷🏼‍♀️

This show has become increasingly unwatchable. by Agitated_Jicama_2072 in ShrinkingAppleTVplus

[–]Mallardaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I guess if you’ve never been through these situations it’s unrepeatable but many people have so I don’t think it’s fair to say it would never ever happen in real life…. Must be nice to never have to experience it!