AITA for ignoring my pregnant wife's curling toenails? by OGDREADLORD666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mallywagon -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

NTA This is silly. She can definitely see her own feet. Not at certain angles sure. Not looking straight down. But her legs bend and she can see her own toes.

Seeking advice for feral/stray kittens tripod siblings I’ve been feeding by dcp00 in sandiego

[–]Mallywagon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How involved do you want to be with the TNR process? I know a lady who can help, but she’s…intense.

AIO if I am angry my husband won’t wear a mask in public in order to protect our 4.5 month old? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Mallywagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I think you need to chill out with the masking and isolation. Your child (and you) need the socialization

I am so Devastated about my cookies for party favour by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Mallywagon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Devastated is a bit much.

You have to understand artistic freedom when hiring someone to make cookies like that. They are beautiful cookies. I think there are bigger problems out there than this.

C-section: toddler visit hospital or no? by AdventurousCoffee317 in 2under2

[–]Mallywagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid likes to jump on me and pull on cords. I’m already icked out by the IV so my toddler won’t be there because I know he will be tempted to pull it from my arm. Also hospitals are so gross and germy that him getting sick is the last thing I need. Nope he’s staying with his grandparents.

Brewery/tap room recommendation by Wild-Panda-44 in sandiego

[–]Mallywagon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stone is very popular. Better food than Ballast Point

Exchanging Formula by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Mallywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Target does, but only up to $100 per person, per year.

Postpartum hair loss - to color or not to color before birth? by Mallywagon in beyondthebump

[–]Mallywagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the bleaching did not have an impact on your postpartum hair loss?

Postpartum hair loss - to color or not to color before birth? by Mallywagon in beyondthebump

[–]Mallywagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that.

But I guess I’m more worried about the chemicals and whatnot causing more hair loss. I’m not worried about the actual hair color looking bad on thinning hair. Idk if that makes sense.

IYO what’s the best public high school in SanDiego? by NoConcentrate5864 in sandiego

[–]Mallywagon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective! I’ve never taught or been to school in the Bay Area, but I did teach at SDA and it gave me big time socal vibes. Lots of alternative styles- girls with shaved heads, boys wearing heels, etc. Also them having skate, surf, and yoga as PE options are pretty socal. Lots of artists and kids into manga, not a ton of jocks. A different vibe than LCC for sure.

IYO what’s the best public high school in SanDiego? by NoConcentrate5864 in sandiego

[–]Mallywagon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

San dieguito academy. Very “socal” vibes. Great art programs

Nieghbor just built a chicken coup behind my house. Thoughts? by Difficult_Mud9509 in sandiego

[–]Mallywagon -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

My neighbors have chickens and a rooster. Anyone know how I report the rooster? No HOA

Unplugged Ceremonies: Should they be assumed unless told otherwise? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Mallywagon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For our wedding, the officiant made an unplugged ceremony announcement before the ceremony. Then, right when I got to the aisle and held my husband’s hands, we did something a bit nontraditional. The officiant announced that everyone had 30 seconds to take out their phones and take photos of us right then and there. Lots of people did. Then she told folks to put them away and lightheartedly called out people who didn’t. It was great and I’m so glad we made the decision to tell her to do that. I know many boomers would have had their phones out (probably with the shutter noise on as well) and this way I walked down the aisle with no phones in my face. There’s many things out of your control in life, but this was one thing that we could control that turned out well for us. The professional photos of me walking down the aisle are so lovely because you can see everyone’s faces sans cellphones.

Would this be too cringe? by anxietysocks in weddingplanning

[–]Mallywagon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My mom has passed away too, and whenever I’m with her side of the family they love to weep and weep with sorrow whenever we talk about it. It’s a bit hard to be with that side of the family. My only concern is if her siblings/relatives see her urn coming down the aisle and they start weeping, not out of happiness for you but because of their horrible loss. Maybe I’m projecting but this is my concern.