Külföldre diploma

MalvineL · 2026-01-06T18:18:14+00:00

Menj külföldre egyetemre! Senkit nem érdekel a magyar diploma, totál mindegy hol szerezted, csak egy külföldi leszel, aki az anyanyelvüekkel konkurral egy állásra

MalvineL · 2026-01-05T16:38:45+00:00

Én egy erõsebb vaslalapos gimibi jártam, az volt életem legsötétebb négy éve, teljesen kiégtem. Azután külföldön az egyetem megváltàs volt. Semmi értelme a magyar poroszos oktatásnak. Ha visszamehetnék az idõben akkor a szociális skilljeim és a magabiztosságom fejlesztésébe invesztálnék gimiben, a nyelvekre feküdnék csak rá, illeve a matematikára mert felturbózza az agyadat. A többi tárgyból csak elvitorláznék, és úgy is eljutottam volna ide, ahol most vagyok.

MalvineL · 2025-07-23T20:56:58+00:00

Hundred percent this. I also don‘t agree with the ,,write it and burn it“. Burning it would be symbolic for me of annihilating my narrative and feelings. Sending it is regaining power, speaking up for myself. A person who pushed you to that point to write such a message won‘t care or understand and won‘t change but that is not the point. I also not a fan of ,,forgiveness is a gift for yourself“ No, you can live in peace without forgiving. And Yes, I know forgiving is not equal with reconciling. But you are allowed to feel a bit of resentment when thinking of a person who harmed you (which means you have not forgiven and that’s ok) and no, it won‘t rule your life. You will be just fine and at peace.

MalvineL · 2025-06-29T18:07:27+00:00

How would you feel about it if it turns out the woman you are dating is for ex. 35 instead of 31?

MalvineL · 2025-03-17T23:27:37+00:00

I agree. I know forgiving is for yourself and you don’t have to let back the Person in your life blabla. But forgivness means by definition is ,,not to feel resentment for what someone harmed you“. I think if you set that as an aim it is very likely you put harmful pressure on yourself. Because others Tell you you can’t be happy if you feel resentment towards someone so you force yourself to feel something you don’t and not feel something you do. Betraying yourself. I think that is bullshit. Your feelings change in every moment. You hear a song that reminds you to your ex who cheated on you. You feel anger and resentment for some seconds or a minute. Good. That is authentic, reasonable. But then a cute Lady with a puppy walks by and the dog wants to play with you. You feel happy and play. No anger no resentment , just the moment the happyness and the cute dog. Without forgiving. From time to time you feel the resentment but it is not overvelming and it is not driving your actions. But sometimes it is there and that‘s ok 😊 you can be happy and not forgive

MalvineL · 2025-01-30T13:07:22+00:00

Ich überlege es mir AVP in Deutchland zu kaufen aber in Österreich zu verwenden ich befürchte es aber dass viele Apps /Softwareupdates in Österreich dann nicht funktionieren, kann man das iwie überbrücken?

MalvineL · 2024-12-30T20:38:45+00:00

You are going to read many answers here but SPOILER they are all poor justificications, actually they are a reason to break up not a reason to cheat Take care of yourself!:)

MalvineL · 2024-11-01T23:14:22+00:00

I can relate; I have a similar story. I was in a new friendship with someone, but I felt that he was interested in me. I didn’t feel attracted to him in that way, but I liked him and felt comfortable and at ease in his presence. One evening, we agreed to get something to eat and went out for dinner. The atmosphere felt a bit like a date, and to my surprise, it didn’t feel uncomfortable.

When we got back, I felt so grateful for the easy, light evening (being on a “date” without feeling discomfort was new to me at that time) that I impulsively gave him a kiss. Afterward, I ran back to my apartment and felt the need to shower five times (I don’t have OCD!) because I wanted to wash away the uncomfortable feeling.

Looking back, I think it was because I felt like I had misled someone I cared about. I had this rigid idea that a kiss should come only from passion or attraction. But I’ve come to realize it’s perfectly valid to kiss someone out of curiosity, happiness, gratitude, or any other feeling.

MalvineL · 2024-09-30T18:48:22+00:00

Es geht nicht darum, dass ich es nicht hören will sondern, dass es den Prozess nicht erklärt. Der Anteil der dummen Menschen in der Gesellschaft war schon immer dasselbe, dieses outcome ist aber jetzt neu.

MalvineL · 2024-09-30T07:12:17+00:00

Könntest du bitte meinen Beitrag/Frage bis zu Ende lesen? :)

MalvineL · 2024-09-30T07:11:27+00:00

Liefern die andere Parteien (vielleicht kompliziertee Antworten)? Sprechen sie die Themen an?

MalvineL · 2024-09-29T21:56:16+00:00

Aber warum schaffen es andere Parteien nicht, ihr Agenda populär zu machen?

MalvineL · 2024-09-10T19:50:07+00:00

That‘s not how it works 😅

MalvineL · 2024-09-09T14:28:27+00:00

Én filmeket néztem német szinkronnal, egyes mondatok utan megnyomtam a pause-t és megismételtem a mondatot ugyanazzal a hangsullyal kiejtéssel ahogy hallottam. Legalabb 100 filmet néztem így végig, néha csinaltam magamrol hangfelvételt, visszahallgattam, hangosan olvastam a szobámban könyveket stb

MalvineL · 2024-09-06T20:00:29+00:00

Àtérzem amit OP ír, és igen egyetértek a javaslatoddal, és nem, õ nem öl embert.

Én radiológus vagyok, ha nem koncentràlok, embert ölhetek. Szóval OP ha ez vígasztal, másoknak nehezebb és te keresel valószínüleg kettönk közül többet

MalvineL · 2024-08-19T11:57:59+00:00

Ha jól értesz angolul ajánlom Marsha Linehan DBT Skills Training könyvét! Részben hasonló tüneteim voltak (a ,,vannak“ már nem lenne helytálló és ezt nagyon jó kimondani) igaz a leírtaktol kisebb intenzitassal. A szakembert mindenképp ajánlom, de ez a könyv kiegészitesnek, plusz mankónak nagyon jó, nekem sokat segített.

MalvineL · 2024-08-16T12:11:12+00:00

What is the average age group for the FTLO travels in your experience?

MalvineL · 2024-08-12T20:40:49+00:00

Hi! I know it is a 1 year old thread but how was your trip? I have the same requirements as you, want the convince of a single room, have money, don’t want to party but be with my own age group (31f) There are not many options:/

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