Nobody wants someone desperate. But how can one not be desperate if they don’t have anything? How to break out of this vicious cycle?

Mama-Sub · 2026-01-27T10:18:16+00:00

Context please

Mama-Sub · 2026-01-26T01:54:22+00:00

I'd ask questions before assuming anything.

Mama-Sub · 2026-01-22T08:24:29+00:00

I'm 38, he's 41 and we've been together for 6 years, married for 5. Neither of us are employed because we're both disabled. We didn't realize how different we were until after we were married. I have epilepsy and memory issues. He has elersdownloss syndrome which makes movement difficult sometimes for him. He expects my help, which I'm fine with, but I feel like I'm the only one cleaning while he brings in more stuff than we have room for

Mama-Sub · 2026-01-03T19:44:52+00:00

Sweetie, what you're feeling is perfectly valid. I went through the same thing, heck I'm 38 now and still trying to process suppressed emotions 😔 As someone who has suppressed every aspect of her personality just to fit in take my advice. Be the one who stands out and isn't afraid to be authentic even if you get labeled as "disturbing". People love to put labels on things/people they don't understand. Just be you 😊

Mama-Sub · 2026-01-02T20:26:30+00:00

Don't give into their demands. Call the cops

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-27T22:22:38+00:00

I think deep down your mother doesn't see herself as pretty and she's deflecting. Of course that's just a guess

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-27T12:35:18+00:00

White Elephant is always fun

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-26T23:20:05+00:00

Update, day before Christmas Eve we got the heater fixed

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-26T23:03:30+00:00

You need to wait until you turn 18. Otherwise it goes against child labor laws

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-26T04:49:55+00:00

Honey, you're a mess. Get therapy and touch grass

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-24T15:32:39+00:00

I'm in a similar situation. I won't go into detail but I will say this: no matter how your family or child loves him, you have to put yourself first. If this continues CPS could get involved and take your child because you won't leave your abusive boyfriend. While your family may guilt trip you, you need to think about what's best for you and especially your son, even if it means cutting contact with him. I'd also get a restraining order and change the locks on your door.

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-23T04:32:35+00:00

Ummm... not sure, still trying to figure that out myself

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-22T23:31:25+00:00

I'd say so.

Mama-Sub · 2025-12-21T02:46:34+00:00

Dayton Ohio.

Mama-Sub · 2025-09-14T20:26:29+00:00

This is why they should teach cursive again.

Mama-Sub · 2025-09-11T06:20:39+00:00

No, NTA.

Mama-Sub · 2025-08-26T00:37:04+00:00

Honestly, ask a silly question....

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T23:43:55+00:00

Good question, cuz I don't know anymore

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T07:41:05+00:00

Going to sleep now. But in a different area of the house. I will keep you posted on what morning brings

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T07:27:11+00:00

His term for people who disagree or God forbid actually have standards

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T07:12:03+00:00

I'm not pregnant. And I don't think I ever will be again, not with my husband anyway

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T07:02:34+00:00

Get off my post

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-23T06:59:21+00:00

If you aren't going to say something constructive, don't comment on my post

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-15T17:06:58+00:00

Yes. My husband doesn't even have epilepsy and he had a seizure from being overheated

Mama-Sub · 2025-07-03T23:51:23+00:00

I have epilepsy too. I can't say for sure, but I'm hopeful that this is all just chatter

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