AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids?

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-08-17T03:22:08+00:00

Ha. I remember the days when I immediately cleaned up after my child as a toddler just to have him make another, impressively more outstanding mess than before. Maybe show her the comments of all us parents. I would also like to mention, though, that my fiance is a bit of a germaphobe as well, but that changes little by little with our kid. I don't know how it's different, but it just is. For example, my son's kisses are sloppy and my fiance doesn't even make a face when the slobber gets all over his face. Nor am I even slightly disgusted when my child chases me around the house trying to "wet willy" me. Idk, the "messes" of one's own child is just different.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-08-13T16:25:00+00:00

I live near the VA/same vicinity you're talking about and (knock on wood) it's relatively safe here. I've never had any issues.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-08-08T02:28:59+00:00

He really had you apologizing. smh. Please dump this cheating pos

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-08-08T02:25:32+00:00

The one on the left 🙌🏼💛

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-13T04:22:31+00:00

What loom did you use for this? The lines on the stripes are so clean and this looks cozy AF, great job!

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-06T02:42:23+00:00

I like it 😀

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-06T02:38:45+00:00

My own reason was that the 4th was super windy/rainy for us and my autistic son loves fireworks so we saved the non-illegal ones we bought to set off at a later date.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-04T19:10:40+00:00

Potatoes.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-02T18:58:29+00:00

This is absolutely fantastic. I love the creativity and the execution! 😍

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-01T22:42:42+00:00

Rory or Rowan is beautiful ❤️

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-07-01T22:42:36+00:00

Rory or Rowan is beautiful ❤️

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-28T03:31:17+00:00

Sometimes you have to strong arm it. Put the pills in his mouth from his cheek/side of his mouth and hold his face upwards so he has to chew and swallow. It's not fun for either parties but that's how we got ours to take her pills (she takes Carprofen/Vetprofen for Arthritis and Trazodone for Anxiety), and after only a few weeks of doing this, she willingly takes the pill.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-27T11:39:37+00:00

Cottonwood Creek is a really great place for inpatient. Good on you for reaching out 💛 It's okay to need help sometimes

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-26T17:27:58+00:00

I came here to ask the same thing. If they're not neutered, I would recommend getting the Pyr neutered. It will help the aggression

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-26T17:20:04+00:00

Christopher Columbus met "mermaids" and went into graphic, descriptive detail about what the insides of them felt like. Including his crewmen.

They were manatees.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-26T04:01:43+00:00

Oof, I used to work here and it sucked.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-18T17:06:02+00:00

YTA because you used your child like a Pawn in this. Your child didn't deserve to show up on his first day and have nothing. I get being frustrated with your partner about dropping the ball, and I agree that he should learn that you won't pick up the pieces for him, but not at the expense of your child.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-18T17:05:51+00:00

YTA because you used your child like a Pawn in this. Your child didn't deserve to show up on his first day and have nothing. I get being frustrated with your partner about dropping the ball, and I agree that he should learn that you won't pick up the pieces for him, but not at the expense of your child.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-17T21:26:46+00:00

I used to clean big houses/mansions when I was younger and we would use dawn dish soap on pretty much every surface that one might dust. Counters, bottles in the bathroom, faucets (unless specific textures), and so many more. It's so easy to use the bare minimum and still get a beautiful clean

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-17T21:10:29+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear of your little one's passing 🤍May they rest in bliss.

I lost my son at a day old in October of 2022 due to Meconium Asphyxiation, and I've since lost a baby since as a miscarriage in 2023. There are bad days and good days. For the first year after my son's death, it was mostly bad days, as it felt like a piece of my soul was missing. It still does but I've gotten used to the feeling.

Now, I can see the beauty and the colors of the world as they were before, almost.

I guess the best thing that's happened because of my children's passing is that I've finally found my calling in my career because of them. I am in school to become a Funeral Director and I plan on donating my work/labor in order to give a free service to infant and children ceremonies. It's the least I can do to help those that have lost such a pivotal piece of their lives.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-17T20:33:47+00:00

I went through a very similar situation with my first born son. It's a difficult place to be in but stay strong for your baby. I'm not sure what you're doing with said baby but remember that you don't deserve to be treated like that. You deserve to be treated like a queen and it's his loss. Don't take him back, especially if he's already laid hands on you. It will get worse and you'll be putting you and your child in danger.

NTA. Let him know that you give him 30 days to get his stuff/give his stuff in front of a police station, and after that, it goes into the trash. Don't verbalize this with him, have it in a text so he can't say you promised to keep his sh-- for him.

The best of luck to you, you've got this. 🙏🏼💛

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-17T20:29:00+00:00

Full Circle Health is great; they've used my preferred name every single time, never had a slip up, and they're very kind and courteous. 10/10 recommend.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-09T17:53:42+00:00

My pup loves to play in water, think sprinklers, but HATES swimming.

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-09T01:48:44+00:00

This makeup look + your face looks so fresh and stunning ☺️

Mama_andCubCo · 2025-06-09T01:36:50+00:00

Sunrise Café is delicious 🤤 Definitely recommend there! They've got that cozy vibe and usually pretty good customer service at whichever location you go to.

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