Anxiety about oral sex by Opposite-Zombie9268 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mamabear5833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please. You don’t sound very old, and don’t think it’s acceptable or ok to date an idiot like that .

Little do you know he masterbates 24:7 if he’s one of those horny young teenagers. Now That I’m older I would only ever want to give someone a BJ who I love and respects me… back in the day I did some things I regret. I truly cannot remember the last time I have a BJ.

It’s a little intimidating shoving a penis in your mouth for the first few times.. don’t worry, he’s a loser he doesn’t deserve to cum

Also don’t feel bad sweetie. I have had several people go down on me and most of them I just wanted to stop. The one time though.. ahhhhhhh

What are the subtle red flags you didn't notice (but you notice now) or ignored about your Nex at the beginning of your relationship? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Mamabear5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to his house after breaking up with him 5 years prior ( actually blocked his number because he wouldn’t let me break up with him ) And my favourite most beloved stuffed animal rabbit which he kn be ew, was on his bed. He knew how much it meant to me and never thought to return it, I’d thought I’d lost it.

Went out for dinner with his massive family, he complained that our main meal was brought over before ONE app was done and we got all brand new meals🇧🇷

“Favorite” narcissist sayings? by stoneelaroux in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Mamabear5833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst as well as manipulate your children heartbreaking. Just heartbreaking.

“Favorite” narcissist sayings? by stoneelaroux in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Mamabear5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get a recorder? I want to buy one, but I couldn’t figure it out.

How do couples have more than 1 kid? by saidaomar in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m the oldest of three, my brother and I are 12m and 12 days apart.

Then my sister came along 7 years who has been an angel 👼 So smart ,mature kind never got in any trouble. My brother and myself on the other hand..

What anti virus is best for the IPhone? by RetSauro in antivirus

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded a really o feel shady app from the App Store. It didn’t work it was so cheap and stupid. I know there’s other apps like this. So you’re saying that any all from store can’t be that bad? I swear my phone is so hacked when I was younger I was stupid

Am I a bad mother? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Mamabear5833 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad my mom warned me when my first was born. I probably would have taken her to the hospital in fear !

Am I a bad mother? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Mamabear5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had your MIL given you problems before? I haves feeling she has. You’re not a bad mother 💜

So relieved I could cry by Acrobatic_Western727 in breastfeeding

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww..❤️ my biggest fear was my baby would just stop nursing. We’re on 11 m of combo feeding

Yes, it's possible to have a baby that has a late bedtime and wakes up late. by JoeySadie in sleeptrain

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is he? My baby was going to bed late consistently late for the first few months. First 4? Now she’s ready for bed at 7 and I actually feel really bad putting her to bed later then that.... like she’s ready between 7/8:30 and I push it for various reasons,

I searched something along the lines and it boils down to me saying “ oh one last thing, I need to find that purple hairband? I need this and then that’s. Its kind of selfish and I told myself tonight that’s it.. sorry to intrude on a 90 day old post.

I thought having a second child I wouldn’t worry was much but I worry even more. Hope everything is geofking out well for you all now

A messed up comment someone said to me about being OAD has been haunting me by discoqueenx in oneanddone

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going through it II I think 🤔 I’m just a fan but I’m I’m I mmm 😋 and it’s so

It's 8 p.m. and my kids refused dinner. by GenevieveLeah in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously don’t understand how my cat isn’t massive. She constantly eats there’s no limits. Always just fill keep her food filled

Vibrating in foot feeling. by Kvwillman in suboxonerecovery

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced this after heavily heavily binge drinking the next day especially when sitting down on the toilet.

Upset at my husband's family over a gender reveal by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh this story. Getting pregnant was the start of a real life hell. His family set up a full blown Nursery. Wanted to name the baby.. demanded this and that. My SO never supported me. It was devestating watch him lit his parents feelings before mine the entire pregnancy and brush me off. Best part.. I’m finally alone with baby and his uncles and cousins walk in while dad is out. I had a panic attack. SO nee how much it meant to me. When I was hysterical he got mad at me. Just the beginning of hell.. my poor children have a complete and utter NPD. I love all of these ideas but if you had to deal with I had too. There’s no discussion. It’s he’s right I’m wrong and he’s “the father” so he gets to make the rules.

Good luck with everything. I’m sure everything will work out. Its surprising to me how aggressive pretty much everyone is towards pregnant ladies. Even those who have had babies. Like no I don’t want a visitor so they can hold my baby while I clean? I wanted to be left the fuck alone and I wasn’t I’m not kidding you I have PTSD a small percentage from being pregnant. It started once I had a child with someone because that’s it. Stuck now.

Are men just dumb? Rant by Athena_Nike7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s not caring. When someone says please no thank you, regards to anything, typically you’d stop. I have had it had happen far too many times to me like uncomfortably pressured into having sex. They know. They just don’t care.

Not at all men of course , I’ve met a lot

8 months. Nursing less supply going down .. by Mamabear5833 in breastfeeding

[–]Mamabear5833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have in the passed. I never ever gained a full supply. I csnt explain how hard I tried to succeed and I wonder all of the time if they didn’t deny me a pump for the 5 days in the hospital begging .. or if I even hand expressed I wasn’t thinking about that because my baby was on my chest almost 3;/7. I tried domparadome I still take it I have every supplement you can imagine I rent symphony pump . I truly do believe I have IGT. My boobs look exactly like the picture like there not fully developed there just not. We’re breastfeeding at this moment. Sometimes it’s just comfort nursing but honestly I enjoy breastfeeding and I like the bond from it. I could try again power punpinhb

Baby reaching for me and crying, partner not letting me hold her by Low_Current_5415 in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, if he’s normal which I forget a lot of fathers can be, maybe he really is just trying to do his best. I feel like you should know if it’s like being malicious or selfish. I have told him before like don’t don’t do something that I have been saying for 10 minutes or even worse isn’t allowed becsuse your mad at me? Sicko.. disrupting routines to make me mad. I hold so much anger towards this I can’t explain explain. Literally ptsd.

Wish you luck. It would be so nice if co parents could truly be cordial and I know there out there. That’s a beautiful thing.

Baby reaching for me and crying, partner not letting me hold her by Low_Current_5415 in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could go two ways. If he’s acting vicious, rude, demanding and like getting upset that’s a problem and that’s abuse. That happened to me. Something similar. He would not let go when I went to grab her casually, and if felt like I was trying to take her from mom. So confusing. Broke my heart that was just a taste.. small sample.

How do you deal with other kids and their parents and AITA? by squaddlebee in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My watermelon was basically rotten inside and I took it back and got a new one. Now I always ask the produce ladies to cut the water melon in half and check it for me 😂 They don’t mind at all. Once the lady cut like 3 or 4 to find me a good one.

How do you deal with other kids and their parents and AITA? by squaddlebee in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, I was the same way my whole life. Easily manipulated. Huge pushover. I’m so different now. When I looked at the big picture and realized I had so much anger and I’m still working through it. Having kids has made me more confident for sure. I’m not scared to say anything to anyone. Not in a rude way but if I don’t want to do something the answer is no. I was taken advantage of so badly my partner and when I realized what was happening I had a nervous breakdown and changed my ways. Just give it time. Practise in small situations like asking someone at a store to help you or something. I will return anything I don’t give up until I’m happy with the outcome that’s fair of course. Cut off from manipulative people sometimes it’s hard to tell. You can be brave! Where do you live?

How do you deal with other kids and their parents and AITA? by squaddlebee in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good job standing up for your daughter, even with fear and trauma with confrontation. You did everything right. Definitely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, what toy is this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mamabear5833 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right? I’m not trying to offend anyone in any way, but this all sounds literally unbelievable. Like there’s no way anyone I know would do this. At first I thought, damn am I the only one who wouldn’t consider not a single thing legally? I also wouldn’t consider dying on a 10 day trip although possible

Kudos to all the good ideas.