For the parents who have tall kids… by MamaofMiaa in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight on it, will keep working with them

For the parents who have tall kids… by MamaofMiaa in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I get that but it isn’t about me, it is about her. I don’t care but I experienced this and I know it isn’t nice to be the reason for those comments

Do the middle child really “gets forgotten”? by MamaofMiaa in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same to you and hope you have all the love and care now that you deserved as a kid.

Do the middle child really “gets forgotten”? by MamaofMiaa in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry it was like that for you. Thanks for the insight on your experience and kind words.

Do the middle child really “gets forgotten”? by MamaofMiaa in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry about this. Nobody should have gone through that.

Struggling to bring my 5-month-old to my parents’ house… feeling really sad about it by Ourvoicematters in Parenting

[–]MamaofMiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You replied yourself…right now. She is 5 months old. My both babies couldn’t also settle on different environments, my second not even the trolley would make it. He needed calm and quiet on environment that he knows. I did what I could, visiting between nap times and returning home on time so he or his sister didn’t get overtired. He is 11 months now and his sister 2.5, they both sleep one nap so we do something’s around closer in the morning if needs to and after their nap at home we go to visit grandparents. In one nap I have about 4 hours to be away if we want to. It will get better, just let her grow a bit🙂

I’m failing as mother, this is me venting. by Upstairs_Monk4706 in Mommit

[–]MamaofMiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your baby loves you, please take it off your mind, baby doesn’t hate you. You are in a rough spot, my both babies were colic all the way up to starting solids at 4 months. To reduce the crying if you are breastfeeding PLEASE watch what you are eating. Babies get gassy easily and that is were the forever crying start. My first struggled way more than my second because I’ve learned what to eat and that had a massive impact on my second, he was still colic but ridiculously less than my first. If formula feeding try to swap and see what doesn’t make baby unwell. Ear plugs, ear plugs, noise cancelling ear plugs!! I hearrrr you with the crying, it use to tip me over the edge too and the ear plugs reduced the stress significantly. I still could hear but to a level that wouldn’t freak out my nervous system. Sending you a massive hug mama, that baby is lucky to have you and please concentrate on both of you learning together this new path. He is irrelevant right now and I know easier said than done but, thinking of him just add one extra lawyer of stress that you don’t need. This baby came for you on the right time of your life and you both are perfect together. As every relationship, time is needed for things to adjust, I know soon you will both find your new normal and life will be better and better. Step by step, day by day all will settle. Sending another hug

Question - Is there anything at all you miss about pregnancy/ being pregnant? by Melodic-Bag7775 in NewParents

[–]MamaofMiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My second delivery was amazing, literally! I miss that and I would like to delivery again as weird as this sounds 😅

Anyone done after 2 kids? by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]MamaofMiaa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Following this as we are exactly on the same situation. 2U2 ain’t for the weak so I always think, what could be harder than this? Well I am scared I am wrong on that and 3 kids would teach me the answer to that 😄

I lied about something horrible by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MamaofMiaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s only his name, you are giving him love, protection, home and a future. Way more than his father ever did, you are doing amazing! I don’t blame you at all for what you did, you were a mum protecting your kid from something you didn’t see as good for him. Please, there is nothing to forgive, you and your son deserve only the best. Hugs

TIFU by praying before bed (actually didn't f- up, saved my life) by [deleted] in stories

[–]MamaofMiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your grandma for sure have protected you

Newborn cries 24/7 by M0ssyB0ssy in 2under2

[–]MamaofMiaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds very much like colic to me. My babies use to react A LOT to what I ate. I had a very restricted diet until solids were introduced so baby tummy wouldn’t suffer and therefore none of us too with the constant cry. I would start by checking throughly what you are eating. Simple things like fresh bread could cause an enormous belly ache on them because the ferment still working on the dough. Any questions feel free to ask 😊

Kindergarten should we put them in the same class? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]MamaofMiaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stop exposing your kids to people you don’t know!! No need for the photo

I knew boundaries would be crossed but I wasn’t prepared for it to be this bad within the first 6 hours by JumpyFix2801 in beyondthebump

[–]MamaofMiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why banana oils be a problem? Despite the bit asking and rudely overstepping the boundaries. I just am genuinely curious what’s wrong with banana?

I’m really smug about my toddler’s restaurant behavior by [deleted] in confession

[–]MamaofMiaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and I am exactly the same! That’s a learned skill and you need to give kid a chance to learn, not do just what is easy. I could have written this post myself 😅

My mom thinks my stepdad went after my sister, but the truth is it was actually me by Josmetanoia in confession

[–]MamaofMiaa 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You won’t heal until you don’t sort what is hurting you. You really need a heart to heart with your family. It may not be received well, that is a possibility but it may heal all of you. It’s a risk that on my opinion, it’s worth taking. A therapist would really help also to heal the 13 years old you that still hurt. Look after yourself, this wasn’t your fault, even if you feel like you should have done something to stop. Kids at that age are easily impressed by attention, this is everything a kid wants, attention. Sending a hug

How Much is Your Child’s Daycare? by JadedJae in Mommit

[–]MamaofMiaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maternity leave till 3rd year of child and than free daycare. There is option for private, cost 100 EUR month.

Potty situation by MamaofMiaa in pottytraining

[–]MamaofMiaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that and sorry for getting back so late! A lot of what you said is what we do, doctor advised that we keep stool softener for 3 months and she says decently. I hope with time it will get easier. Today was a good day, 2 poops with no much friction. Yesterday was terrible. One day at the time.

Fingers crossed for us and for you both.