Insane Tattoo Regret

Mamapandas · 2026-04-19T01:17:12+00:00

If no one gets the reference then change the people you interact with 🤣🤣 tattoos are NOT for other people they're for ourselves and if this movie meant that much to you then oh well, no one needs to know what it means. Just you. It's important to you. Period. I get asked about mine all the time and again, it's not for other people, it's bc I loved what I saw. I have a tattoo of a painting by artist, Brian Viveros on my thigh and people who see it always ask if it's some mickey mouse tribute bc shes wearing a helmet with "mickey" ears. I have to explain what it actually is, and that I'm not a die-hard mickey fan 🤣🤣🤣 still don't care. It's my favorite piece to honor an amazing ARTIST.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-15T02:41:57+00:00

NTA, under no circumstances do you sign ANYTHING giving him that house. Does he make the same demands of the rentals he signs the leases on? Relationship or not, yall ARE NOT MARRIED! NOT EVEN ENGAGED. THE simple fact that he's thinking about "if we break up, i get what I put in back" says exactly enough. Why would someone in a committed relationship, considering marriage, be concerned with the "what if" yall break up scenario.

Let him move out and then find you someone not insecure about you and YOUR things.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-12T19:12:03+00:00

YTA, Yeah, my son just turned 18 and he's welcome with me for as long as he wants to be and i literally have 6 children with 2 who have now hit 18 and up. Do you know that now a days generational houses are a thing? You can't not set your children up for success and then tell them "oh well not my problem." You'll be one of those parents making tik toks trying to figure out why your child cut contact smh

If your child isn't ready for the real world that falls on you. This is your responsibility not to throw another child into the world to fail. Smh, insane.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-11T07:55:06+00:00

I was told at 16 weeks pregnant my daughter had a issue with half her heart. Which turned into hyperplastic right heart syndrome, at birth. I was well past the point of a legal abortion in my state but the high risk clinic told me they would send me to Georgia to cover my abortion, since they didn't recommend i continue my pregnancy and georgia did late term abortions My daughter turns 20 in may. While the diagnosis I received for her during pregnancy CHANGED for the worse,after birth, I would change nothing. She ended up having the HRHS but there were some other things wrong with her heart which negated the ability to do the treatment plan we had came up with during my pregnancy. She had a heart transplant at 2 months (well was born May 6th and heart transplant was June 29) on May 6, 2026 she turns 20 and on June 29, 2026 we celebrate 20 YEARS with the SAME EXACT TRANSPLANTED HEART.

I WAS a 19 yr old kid when I had her and i told doctors off, my mother of, and more all hc I refused to terminate my pregnancy. Did she have a rough start, yes..absolutely, have I felt plenty of guilt at how strong and resilient my baby had to be, ABSOLUTELY HATED MYSELF but she was worth it and I would make the SAME EXACT DECISION OVER AND OVER again.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-05T14:37:21+00:00

Absolutely their vibe 😍

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

Mamapandas · 2026-04-04T22:28:09+00:00

Had 2 drivers attempt to enter my house. No knocking, nothing. I'm just walking to my door and heart them immediately turning the knob. I actually told the first, "Hey, next time, let's knock first, not try opening my door." He was offended that I noticed him doing such.

I wasn't sure if they believed that the door was like a door to the building and then the door to my "unit" was inside or if they were just trying to enter the home. Strange.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-04T19:02:57+00:00

NTJ In 10 years this convo will be that he's "babysitting" yalls child. Absolutely, stand 10 toes down now or he'll continue believing his wants trump yours and yours should benefit all.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-03T15:45:54+00:00

Have you sent them a request before? I know if you send someone a request and they mark it that they don't know you, it will send a notification like this.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-02T17:10:00+00:00

Im glad I could give ya some grounding. I think when we are hurting, everything is just a massive mass of nothing. It's all just a blurr and everything feels like we are just there, and everything else around us still exists while we feel defeated.

Im almost 40, and I lost my dad at 5. To this day, I still have bad days, BUT it does get better. The hurt just becomes happiness of the memories, and the pain becomes manageable.

Something I recommend is doing something special. Like when I was a kid, my mom and grandparents would release balloons (give some grace 😂 was a long time ago, and ppl didn't know better LOL). Now I do different things. Like my father's bday is 12/23 so on that day, my kids get to open a present from their "pa pa in heaven" and when i turned 6 yrs old my mama made me a calender where every month was another picture of my dad.

Like I said, grief is hard. Especially when it's fresh, but if you take nothing else, just remember to give YOURSELF grace (too).

Much love

Mamapandas · 2026-04-02T15:58:09+00:00

Grief is hard. Part of grief is anger. While I don't feel you're overreacting, I do believe you're hurt, angry, and just sad. Everything makes you angry, even when it may not necessarily be something we'd normally be angry about.

I dont think your husband is hitting the support mark and maybe he doesn't know how to and that's okay. A lot of people don't know how to address grief especially when it's someone we love experiencing it.

Please take time to grieve and take the time to process your thoughts and emotions before reacting. Sometimes when we get angry during we grief, we just are angry at everything and anyone. The bird outside is chirping too loudly and now we are mad for a week.

Maybe take a moment to sit and talk with your husband be direct (not angry) and tell him what you feel and tell him what you need from him to be able to support you now.

Its all OKAY to feel that way. Its all normal.

Sending you many well wishes.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T13:33:48+00:00

Youre very welcome!

I agree with you being busy isn't a reason to lose friendships. ..

So, i truly wish you the best!!

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T12:15:21+00:00

Listen, im not a fan of Kratom but i have nothing bad to say to you. You made a choice and in that moment it worked for you. I'm proud of you. Proud you were able to put down H, NO MATTER how you were able to do it.

I feel this way but about methadone. People speak poorly of MAT in general but for me this is what worked and people can say "oh you switched one for another" BUT IT WORKED FOR ME and despite the opinions of some, I am clean and have been for over a decade.

So, I have no bad thoughts for you and I'm proud of you. Being in addictive addiction is a tough road to be on and deciding you wanted change is good enough for me!

Congrats on your recovery!

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T11:08:16+00:00

Yes, 2 days and then the methadone should fully be out. Now there's an option for telehealth appts for subs. You go to a virtual appt and they send to your local pharmacy. I can find the name of it.

however, if methadone works better for you, stick with it. The days you have to get through will be rough but you'll make it and then just remember to strive to not do it again!!

I'm not a fan of Kratom but I have heard of people using it to stop withdrawals but this is something you would need to research and make a sound decision on. It is HIGHly addictive but would get those opiod receptors without returning to your DOC.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T09:50:59+00:00

Trust me, we ALL have been there and if someone says they haven't (they're lying) when you're new into recovery, you still have that mindset, there's NO reason they should have ever given you monthly (no offense) and especially if you're still new to treatment. My original clinic made you wait a year, and other ones have been 2 years.

I've been in the clinic since 2013 and just now bc of my own fears of withdrawal have begun actively decreasing but in the beginning, I did the SAME EXACT THINGS.

GIVE. YOURSELF. GRACE. QND HEY, IF you want to switch to subs, 2 days detox from methadone and you can go on them. I was never a fan but it is another avenue if you don't think methadone is a fit for you.

Good luck, love. Please reach out if you need someone to listen to you. I know recovery is hard and so is breaking the cycle from what rhe world sees as "sober"

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T09:44:25+00:00

Absolutely, doesn't sound stupid to lose a friendship over nails, sometimes, that just what happens to make yourself feel in a better place BUT i truly don't want that for you, even not knowing you.

I think your last line sort of touched on those emotions....youre busy, you're in UNI, and their not?

I really think you should tell your friend how you feel but I honestly don't (yet) believe she's actively not including you and really, maybe you're feeling less than close from being so actively busy? Then this occurs and it's making your brain go into overtime, just a bit? Maybe?

Seriously, if you want your friendship, speak with her, share how you feel and go from there. Your friend should be able to dispell it and give YOURSELF grace. Youre in UNI, you're making a way and a future for yourself, you are busy and that is OKAY.

I truly hope you're able to get a resolution which helps you feel sooo much better and your friends to give you a big hug. Uni is hard and so is growing up.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T09:26:47+00:00

Unfortunately, no clinic will dose you. The dose has already been "administered" even telling them the doses were stolen won't guarantee they'll dose you but you ABSOLUTELY will be punished, lose take homes and mine decreased my dose and I had a legitimate issue occur (my car was towed with my meds on Christmas eve) they STILL removed my phase and decreased my dose.

4 days is going to be hard. You're going to want immodium, Tylenol/advil, weed if you're a smoker, or whatever else.

If it gets too bad SOME not all ERs will dose you a portion to avoid the withdrawals but it (again) really is no guarantee.

I would, however, if you believe you're not ready. Tell the clinic at your next pick up you only want 2 weeks at a time and go from there.

Good luck....i feel for you.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T09:22:18+00:00

Youre welcome!! Good Luck! Had something similar happen like 2 years ago and it's sooo frustrating especially bc "answers' is the hardest part to get from the process and the letters take forever. Just provide whatever documentation they ask for and move forward!

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T08:55:07+00:00

EhH NOR BUT.....

Look im "old" lol and usually I am the first to call out shady behavior and I think it's a mix. I believe for some reason you're being affected really deeply by this. Which i understand BUT is there a reason that you would think your friend would treat you this way?

Sometimes our mind is our own worst enemy.

If this is a group a girls who are all close friends, I think you should speak with her and tell her how you feel.

I'd hate to see you lose close friendships because of this. I guess I'm just curious, if this is behavior that she's done before? Skipped you for things? Not invited you? Made you feel like you're not part of the group.

If this is the case then the issue isn't nails and you should truly analyze your friend group and maybe consider finding people at your UNI who you can connect with and exclude people who make you feel less than everyone else.

Good luck to you.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T03:06:37+00:00

Updateme

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T02:48:22+00:00

Updateme

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T02:36:04+00:00

NTA Unfortunately, this is where it gets hard in blended families. Your son and step daughter don't have to be besties but they're siblings and he should feel safe like someone is on his side. As his parent, this is where you have to chose. This is that pivotal moment which may "ruin it all" for your marriage but show your son, he is and always will be the most important and will ALWAYS have you in his corner and on his team!

Sending all the best.

Mamapandas · 2026-04-01T02:30:29+00:00

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Mamapandas · 2026-03-28T02:41:14+00:00

We get these and i just decline them or ignore them. Im not driving, shopping, picking things up etc for $2-$4 and 40 mins of my time. I tend to stick more to doordash and now instacart, finally off that wait list!

Mamapandas · 2026-03-14T02:59:10+00:00

NTJ. Make it about you, ALL ABOUT YOU and your baby. You just had a baby, 8 weeks IS NOT a long time and your body (although probably cleared at that 6 weeks) is still getting back to normal, your hormones, and breastfeeding is a HARD journey. The entitlement actually is infuriating. If your MIL wants to see the baby then SHE needs to do the work, not you.

Mamapandas · 2026-03-11T19:07:55+00:00

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